okay well I like this guy alot but he's so confussing.I mean he will tell me he like's me and flirt's with me then the next day he will act like he dosn't like me and start talking about another girl.It's like he can't decied if he actualy likes me or not.I've liked him since like December and I've had boyfriends since then, but always have wanted him.Im so confussed and don't know if he really like's me or is just pulling this along.I've tried to just get over him but it didn't work.I don't know really what to do.please help.
--Confussed love
Aww, stupid boyz. Well when he talks about other girls, that could be one of his little games, to make you jealous. And it obviously is working. Does he still like you too? If you dont know, or if he does..talk to him bout you're feelings and maybe there will be something there. And stop having boyfriends if you want him. That probably confuses him just as much as hes confusing you! Good luck babeee!
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Okay, well.. I've known this kid for like, ever! Since he moved here. And I was his FIRST friend when he moved up here. Well, anyways.. I liked him when I was little. But then I thought, that's kinda weird cause he's my best friend..So then I just started to like him this year. And, I tried to get over him, but I can't. What's your advice for me? What should I do???
Well you cant make you're feelings just dissapear if theres something there! Have you ever tried to talk to him about it? If not then how do you know that he doesnt fall the same. they always say the best relationships start with friendships. Plus, it makes it all much easier.. because you wont have to go thru the first && most important stage, "getting to know eachother" because you already do. So go for it babe!! And talk to him!
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okayy well.. this nick kid n me really like eachother.. i have a few questions.we're not really going out right now.. but we deffinatly act as a couple. im just wondering.. do you think we have to do " freaky things " in order to keep the relatioship alive> i mean hes 15 im 14, n i kno hes constintly thinking about sex with all his hormones.. but will he just dump me? he knows my value on sex, how i want to stay a virgin untilim married, and hes continued liking me. but i also have some other questions.. haha this might sound weird.. but how do you make out. i mean ive KISSED ex-boy friends.. like little pecks and all, but i know wen nick and i start going out, we wont be going any further than making out.. so im just a little confused on how to make out, and what to do.. how to practice, and what if i suck at it? ahhh any advice??! please say yes!!!
Wiat im confused.. are you going out or not? But wateva i guess that doesnt really matter. Point is, he shouldnt have to be "getting with you" to keep a relationship, if thats the case.. bounce babe, hes not worht it. And if hes thinking bout sex && you're not ready until you're married (good moral btw) you need to talk to him bout that. Because that is something a couple really needs to agree on, or else there will be problems eventually. And as for as making out, my best advice is if he's experience, you wont have to worry. Just play follow the leader until you get the hang of it. Follow his tongue, and you cant go wrong. May get boring so you will probably want to eventually change it up! But practice by doing it!!! And if you suck it at? well that sucks, but if he really likes you he wont mind? Hope i helped.
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ok i have this g/f and i really care for her and i even love her but i dont think she understands exactly how much i care she is always flirtin with other boys and she gots mad at me all the time and i dont kno wat to do she says she really cares for me too and at times she shows it but at other times i fill like im not even datin her i have tried to tell her and talk to her but then she gits mad at me...please help me
Hmm tough situation.. and probably something that you need to decide you'reself cuz none of will know you personally. But you need to have a talk with you're gf about how you feel. And tell her you dont like how she always flirts with other guys. And if she refuses to listen to something that is important to you, then im sorry but she has to go. Its best for you & her. End it now before you get to serious. I hope i helped. Let me know
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my friends and i were talking and, i know it sounds dumb but i was raised kinda "good girlish" and they were raised kinda not. Well they always talk about things that i don't understand. i just wanted to ask what is sandwiching? and well theres other stuff but i'm too embarressed to ask so this is just fine. thanx..and don't make me feel anymore stupid than i already do. Please?
Aww its ight not to know, dont feel stupid. The best part about this site is you can ask what you want and no one will know that you're the one asking. Much easier then speaking up to ask you friends. Which by the way, dont feel alone, a lot of people probably use words they dont know what they mean and are to embarassed to ask. Trust me, we all have done it. But anyways, to the point-- sandwhiching is when 2 girls grind (dance rub against) with the guy in the middle. Or vise versa. (2 guys one girl) =) hope i helped.
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i have a crush on a guy that everyone thinks is cute an dhe knows but he doesnt like me anymore than just a friend he says im pretty that i have a nice body but he still says that he only likes me like a friend and every time i see him with another girl i get mad. do you guys have anything to offer something that will make him like more or anything good will rate a.s.a.p
Awww, babe im sorry. I hate when that happens. But heres my advice for you. First of all, dont change who you are to please someone else. Because i've personally done that before, everyone has. And it probably well end up bad. Because if he doesnt liek you for you, then thats his loss. Because im sure you're a great person, and theres another great guy out there for you. And as for the getting mad when hes with other girls.. happens to the best of us girls with jealous hurts. Just wait til you find a boy thats right for you - - and make all the other girls jealous! =) Good luck!
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Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
=( PLEASE HELP ME!
aww.. wow, sounds like a toughy.. here's my advice. Not to be harsh, but to "ditch" her without calling was you only mistake here. Im sure if you would have called her, and explained to her what was going on, and if she was a real friend she would have understood. But thats the past, and you cant redu it. Sooo, if i were you, i'd write her a message or something if you feel more comfortable then on the phone or in person. Let her know that she does mean a lot to you, and that you felt bad calling her and telling her where you were, so you didnt, and that you kind of wanted to be alone with this boy, and it was SOO last min. Then tell her you will make it up to her with a girls night
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my friends are always getting the guys. ill plainly say that. i am pretty, or at least everyone thinks i am, and i personally think i have a great personality. i flirt, i try to act interested but the guys always seem to go for my freinds, even if it seems they are flirting with me, or like me. i mean, i have so much more to offer than my freinds. im going to a an art school for painting, i play the guitar, the piano and the drums, i am the life of the party, i paint, i write, i compose. but it seems that my freinds, who personaly i think are...i hate to use the word...posers(even though we arnt goth or anything, they just think they know art when they, exuse my french, dont know shit). but sometimes i wonder, am i just to mature, should i wait to find a guy, or for someone to find me? i just feel that people will give me a second look, but not want to waste their time or energy on a third. im really sorry if this question had no point. and im sorry for wasting you tome reading it. but can anyone help me get out of this shadow?
Hmm well you seem to be a very special girl to have all those good qualities. Maybe because guys know that you have confidence they are intimidated by it. I know one of my friends just like you, and she is absolutely gorgeous. But, she never got a boy before. And she fianlly did recently. You have to be patient, it will come. Instead of spending all you're time looking, spend time being you're self. and that boy will come, i promise.! =) keep you're head up. I felt the same way you did.. and finally i hurt myself playin a sport and i had surgery && i stopped looking for boyz cuz i had no time to cuz i was to worried bout my injury & being able to play again.. then suddenly a boy came, and hes the best i've ever had. =) it just takes time. i hope i helped.
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I just dumped my boyfriend, and I feel really bad about it, but I had to. I never see him because Im so busy with things this summer, and he got his computer and cell phone taken away. I dont have time for him and I knew it was time to let it all go. My problem now is, I think im in love with my ex boyfriend again. Sometimes I can tell that his feelings for me are mutual (my first ex) and I dont know if theres a way I can be with my first ex, without making my new ex entirely too jealous. Part of me dumped my boyfriend because I still have feelings for the other one. Now I dont know how to go about being with him, without the other one being extremely mad at me.
Yeah that is always hard. Well when you broke up with you're boyfriend, did you tell him it was because you had no time? If you did, you might want to wait before you get a new boyfriend. For quite a few reasons :
1) If you didnt have time for that one, how will you have time for this one?
2) That other boy will take it like you lied to him, && may loose all respect for you
3) He will be crushed, imagine if a guy did that to you
4) Dont rush into something with out thinking bout it first!
But if you feel you're ready & none of those four things really matter, go for it. =)
-- hope i helped.
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school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers!
Wow, definatley sounds like a hair dilemaaa!! haha. Alright first of all, if you're willing to get it cut/trimmed. Ask for longggg layers. this will make you're hair appear lesss thick. And then when its wet, and you go to blow dry it.. take the blow dryer and face it downward from the top. This will make it straight rather than poofy. Dont ever let it air dry because even if you have thin hair, it will poof outtt !! And instead of brushing it, try using a comb =)
..goodluck hope i helped
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Do you knoe any good like html codes to make my column look like nicer & cuter??
Thanx!
I know a few. Here are some easy codes.
TO change font color --
..to get neat font colors go to this site, and on the right side there will be a menu, click color codes. www.webmonkey.com
.. also on that site you will find tons of HTML codes. but if you want a specific one, ask i know a lot about html i took a class.
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what are some really good popup blockers that are for free and work real good.. there are ALOT of popups on my computer
Not sure if anyone already suggested this. But stopzilla is an amazing pop up blocker. I use it, and get like one if that pop up a day!!! Theres a 3o day free trial.. and then if you enjoy it you should buy it. 2o$ for a lifetime. its worth it =)
www.stopzilla.com
hope i helped ^^
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okay.. ive liked this kid nick now since the day i met him.. well he told me he liked me and then i became intrested in him. he asked me ou7t for the first time about a month ago, i said i dunno/ maybe. i like him alot.. but i have morals in my life.. and i wanted to get to know him more. after that he became somewhat depressed and figured that my maybe.. was considered a no.. which it wasnt. after that i regreted it. he asked me out again about 2 weeks ago, and i again said maybe, and i wanted to kno him more. im always afraid hes gunna loose intrest and just move on.. and i dont blame him. i like him so much, i just wanna get to know him more. we do act as a couple and we hold hands, cuddle and what not.. he kisses my head which is so cute. do you think he'll stay intrested? any adcice on what i should do?? pleaseee say yes!!!
Aww, definatley cute. But i found a few problems one he became depressed when you said maybe? If you two were to go out, there will be fights, and maybe even a break up or two. And when it comes to guys who act depressed to get what they want, they will act insane when you break up with them. Happened to me. And what happens is.. they make themself seem all depressed which makes you feel bad, and worse about you'reself. But maybe im wrong, he may not really be like that. Also, if he really likes you as much as he says, he will definatley wait. And getting to know someone before you go out with them is definatly a GREAT moral. So that was a good choice. =) dont ever do anything if you're not ready for it, especially setp into a relationship. Hope i helped. =)
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I've been tweezing my eyebrows for a while now but it's getting too difficult to find a shape I like. Today I'm going to get them waxed but I'm nervous. Will it hurt alot? Will I be really sore afterwards? Do the people who do it find the shape they like for you?
Thanks!
I've personally never had them waxed. I've had them threaded. Sounds painful, but its not. It lasts for a good 3-4 weeks and the lady shapes them for you. The first time you may feel a pull but after going several times, it no longer hurts. So if the waxing doesnt turn out the way you like, try that next time! =)
hope i helped.!
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Hey its me again.... I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too
OK... if i do decide to tell him how i feel i have an idea and im wondering if its a good idea or not....
i wont be seeing him for two weeks coming up should i have my friend on the last day before the 2 weeks go up to him and be like i think *my name* likes you but i dont know.... then he can think about it or w/e??
Definatley a tuffy, and i think all of us like our best friends at one point or another. I know i have. And i was in the same spot you were, do i tell him and risk loosing the relationship or just let it go unknown. Also the fear of feeling weird around eachother also comes into consideration. Well here, its a win win & a loose loose situation no matter which you choose. If you choose to tell him, you could win by him liking you back, but you could loose by finding out he doesnt like you in that way, and having to deal with feeling weird. But if you dont tell him, then you will have to deal with the never knowing how he feels, and the positive would be you will always act the same. But i went for it && told my best friend and he ended up havings ome feelings there too. Its kinda fun, because you already know sooo much about eachother && a lot of the best relationships start out with friendships. You dont wanna regret not telling him !
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if you eat alot in a short amount of time whats a good way to burn the calories off faster?
please help
i rate high
Depends on what you're eating. If you're eating pasta & such you can run it off easily! But, if you eat like junk food you may want to keep working out && you will burn the fat off =) Hope i helped.
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this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is?
Aww hunn thats not a bad thing at all. It's called.. "vaginal discharge" it can appear for many reasons. For example if you have you're period, emotional stressors, nutritional status, pregnancy, usage of medications - including birth control pills, and sexual arousal. =) Happens to the best of us. Hope i helped.
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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
thanks
Wow, i'm very sorry to hear that. But the best thing to do, is to tell someone. And yeah, he was you're boyfriend, but still, he RAPED you. And that cant always be stopped, so its NOT you're fault, cuz maybe you couldnt have done anything bout it. It's going to be hard to tell someone, but the sooner you do, the better you'll feel. If you're uncomfortable telling someone you know, go to a counsler perhaps, or tell one of you're best friends && maybe they can help you from there. Good LUkc with this, and remember its not you're fault. And remember if you dont do something, theres a good chance he'll do it again, maybe not to you, but to some other girl. And you know how it feels.. dont let someone go thru the same pain, if you can stop it. =) good luck. hope i helped.
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Is it weird that he refuses to shoot his load in my mouth? He always squirms when he's abotu to cum so that i take my mouth of it
Maybe he's just be considerate. But if it really bothers you that he doesnt shoot into you're mouth, then say something to him. You should be able to talk about that if you are willing to be sexual active with him.
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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay first of all, remeber that this boy broke you're heart 7 months ago, and is now just remembering that he needs you. Thats a lil fishy to begin with. Not to mention if hes done it before, there a good chance it can happen again. Not saying for sure. And about hanging out, isnt he trying to prove to you that he's nicer & not like he used to be? Because if he is, then why should you be the one reminding him that you were suppose to hang out? It kinda just seems liek you're re-making you'reself available too him if you were to ask him to hang out, play harder to get in situations like this. Hope i helped.
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