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Hey its me again.... I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too
OK... if i do decide to tell him how i feel i have an idea and im wondering if its a good idea or not....
i wont be seeing him for two weeks coming up should i have my friend on the last day before the 2 weeks go up to him and be like i think *my name* likes you but i dont know.... then he can think about it or w/e??
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friends are easy escapes but i don*t know if that*s a good idea, ecspecially before you leave. If you tell him it*ll mean so much more so i say go for GOOD LUCK! <3 chelsea
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hey chika.....if i were you, i would soooo go for him!!! because tha thing is; if you 2 r rilly good frendz then if he duznt like you tha way you like him, yall will still be frendz....right? and if he duz then you can say" yer boyfrend is yer best frend"
~~~HOPE I HELPED~~~ good luk with tha whole thing
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Definatley a tuffy, and i think all of us like our best friends at one point or another. I know i have. And i was in the same spot you were, do i tell him and risk loosing the relationship or just let it go unknown. Also the fear of feeling weird around eachother also comes into consideration. Well here, its a win win & a loose loose situation no matter which you choose. If you choose to tell him, you could win by him liking you back, but you could loose by finding out he doesnt like you in that way, and having to deal with feeling weird. But if you dont tell him, then you will have to deal with the never knowing how he feels, and the positive would be you will always act the same. But i went for it && told my best friend and he ended up havings ome feelings there too. Its kinda fun, because you already know sooo much about eachother && a lot of the best relationships start out with friendships. You dont wanna regret not telling him !<33 So if i were you.. i'd go for it ! =)
..HOPE I HELPEDD DAHLiin* Any more questions let me know..!
GOODLUCK!
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It would be better if you told your crush how you felt yourself. He probably already realizes that you're shy and you taking the initiative and telling him yourself will let him know how serious you are.
If you can't tell him face-to-face, write him a note telling him how you feel. Let him know up-front that you value his friendship and do not want that to change.
Good luck. I wish you the best.
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okay, the point is, unless you go for it, you'll never know if he would ever like you or not. And that would be brutal.
If you two are as really close as you say, then even if you do make a move, and he isn't into it, he'll get over it. Quickly take my word for it. The same thing happend to me a couple years ago-and even though things didn't work out romantically {and belive me, it was all for the best },it didn't hurt our friendship one bit. Sure, there were some initial weirdness between us, but now we joke about it. And were better friends then ever.So I say, don't just stand there-- Bust a move!
Good luck!!!
you know you love me,
Nicole
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im having the same exact problem..mayb we could talk about it do u have a s/n if so mines x3mxcxrx3 hope to talk to u soon =)
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If you tell him how you feel about him nothing will change && you wont loose your friendship. you never know if he feels the same way about you. If you dont want to tell him then have one of your close friends tell him. Just flirt with him and then if he flirts back with you he might have a crush on you. Just see how things go && I'm ure he would like you too. ll ♥ ll
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