ok..this is like the nervous racking summer ever! cuz next year is jr high. elemtry skool ended bad (6th grade) and lke i got in a fite with my best friend that said im not kool enough for her and that like totally gave me huge dent in my selfesteem..but i really do have good other friends that im happy with. im so freakin scared about jr high like if ill be kool or whatever..idk..and im just stressed...and is there any advice you could give me of how to start out jr high and not be like a total looser..not being rude or anything..ok thanks ill give yall 5 ratings!
_*Hallie*_
I started Highschool this year.... honestly, its alot easier than Jr High. I can say 'Geek or prep, dun care what ya think about me. Your sorry ass opinion doesn't matter to me, so go sodomize yourself with a broomstick, ass hole.' now. :P
Jr High is rough. But don't worry about popularity or that shit alot. Just your grades. Same thing applies in Jr, those others who think they're better than you can go eat some shit.
If you really want though, all you need to do is know how to speak like you live in the ghetto and dress like it too. Oh yeah, and shitty rap or hip hop is good for that too. If you're /that/ willing. And pimp out all of your stuff yo. It is cool up in that.. heezie... thing... yeah. o_O;;
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man i'm new to halo and i suck, can anyone give me some tips to help me kill lol. like wat are some tips for close combat, and sniping.
Halo 2 I guess, since its the one with Live.
Close combat : Stick them suckers with plasma grenades if you can, and use a duel-wield of the SMG's. Or if you can, grab the sword. Also, never stop moving. You're dead meat if you do.
Sniping : Anticipate where your target /will/ be and fire there. The bullet isnt that fast and if you time it right, it'll fly right through they're measely helmeted head. :)
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Does it hurt to like... masturbate? Will it pop your "cherry" if you go too deep or something? I don't want it to hurt so much when I do it with a guy so I'm trying to stretch it. Please help! I rate high.
There really isn't much you can do to avoid the pain during your first intercourse. You could stretch it now, but it would just go back to its normal form a day or so later. If you push something large inside you (ie a toy. ) it will probably hurt, but if you're simply stimulating the labia/clitoris, it shouldn't hurt, 'less your fingers are all dry. Baby oil or vaseline helps there, because the sad fact is, with women, they gotta be extremely hot to have a good self-lube going.
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i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help! ((i dont wanna do it person))
I don't really see why she should be so grivieous(sp) against you about this. Did you like this guy you went to prom with first, or did you like LBB ( Little baby boy since thats the only ref to him you made, so I'll refer him as so.) first? Maybe you liked the other guy first but after prom you just didn't seem to like him... so you noticed LBB and started dating him?
Try explaining that to him... that you were going with that other guy first and not him. If he can't respect you just because you didn't go to prom with him instead of the LBB guy, he really doesn't deserve a girl like you.
When it comes down to parents.... just try to be as friendly as possible no matter what. Eventually they'll catch on. Most of them do, anyway -.-
If you want to tell her why, you might try asking LBB. He could relay it to her somehow in a different way than you could, since she isn't angry with him or anything.
:-\ Hope I helped...
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me and my boyfriend have not had sex but for some reason the last 2 times he has fingered me, i bled. is that normal?
If you were a virgin the first time, yes, it should have, if your hymen hadn't been ruptured anyway.
Could be the fact he isn't using lube or his nails are out of control though. Might have a calus too on his finger(s) he's using.
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Can you get pregnant from giving head sence the cum goes in your mouth with sperms in it?
Nnnnope. Only way fertilization occurs is if intercourse takes place. Stick with that, its safer. >:
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awhike ago i had a question about my mom having a yeast infection and she went to the doctor and they told her she had cervical cancer, thats what she told me on the phone. she was also really messed up on tranquilizers and i couldnt understand what she was saying..what does cervical cancer do, and is she going to die? What do i do?
Cervical cancer. Bah. Cancer in general. Ugh.
Cervical cancer causes the normal cancer issues, and also causes infertility. Basically if she has a tumor in the cervix, she can't give birth or the child might have birth defects. It might eventually spread to the fallopian tubes, then an egg won't even pass.
Pray that they found it early, otherwise.... I don't know what to tell you. =\
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i just had surgery and its going to leave a scar... the surgery was on my face.. but what sort of medication/creams should i use to make the scar less visbale?? thank you so much!!
You might try cocoa butter. That seems to work with alot of my scar problems from nasty cuts I get on the job. ^^
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K, this is probably a really weird question...but what does masturbate mean?
Masturbation is the act of self love. Stimulating one self sexually without the aid of another, of the same or opposite sex.
So in simple terms, you're pleasuring yourself, by yourself, for yourself. I personally see it as a safer alternate route for all the fantastic unprotected disease ridden normal sex with other women/men.
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Okay I am 14 and a girl.. and The guy I am with is 22 and a guy.. He works at a jail.. Do u think it is wrong for us to 'be together'
Umm.. yes... it is wrong... the guy is 8 years older. Thats twice over the minimum age for being a minor. So basically it's wrong /and/ illegal.
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I have had two periods in one month. Is this normal for a thirteen year old girl? I don't know what to do because the first one I had ended on the tenth of this month. Then, two days ago, I had one that ended TODAY! It only lasted two days but I skipped a lot of periods last year after I had first started my period. I don't know if this is normal. Is it? HELP! PLEASE DON'T BE RUDE ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I WILL KILL!
(JUST KIDDING...:-)) Seriously, though, if you're mature enough to answer a question like this, please do. I'm sick of this! HELP!
Yeup. That's puberty for you. It's perfectly normal, thats what puberty is. It's a big change in you, and mos tof the time your lifestyle though. The only advice I have to help is to always carry the following with you
1) Keep your tampons/pads/liners, whichever weapon of choice with you at all times in your purse/handbag, whatever. If it decides to sneak up on you, you can use them to counter it's sneak assault.
2) Painkillers. Midol, Pamprin, Ibuprofen, all do their thing for the cramps. I personally keep them in my pocket when I hang with the girl friends. PMS is not good when you're an unaware guy. So I suggest you do too. :P
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every one told me that my second period would most likley be late..but it was not..is this normal? and does that mean that most likley all my other periods will be on time to? thanks..i would appreciate any advice.
Oh, you're fine. Probably better on you too, than having it sneak up on you out of no where.
It doesn't necesarily mean your other periods will be on-time, but they might be a bit more scheduled you could say. o.o Completely normal, though, all girl's menstrual cycles are different..
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Okay, I'm just a bit curious. Everybody thinks cutting is so freakishly horrible and everything. Well in all honesty, I don't see the harm in it unless you're making cuts deep enough for stitches or something. Otherwise, you may have a mark or a scar - but no real damage done..? When I get extremely upset - it usually helps calm me down, in a BIG way. What is all the hype about..?
Cutting is bad more because is a psychocematic kind of thing. The logic I've received froma sking cutters why they do it is that 'if they cut themselves, they will have to worry about the cut and not their problems, who will care, will they be ok, etc.'
There is harm in it. You're cutting yourself. That's not the answer to problems. It's also the fact that most people can't stop themselves once they start. It's like nicotine. And over time it can become a problem. I've seen cutters who act like its nothing big, and do it right in front of me. It's unsettling to watch someone desicrate their own limbs like that.
I guess then, what I'm saying is, that after awhile, it gets out of hand and then it gets scary.
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I need some songs with a latin beat.
I don't mind if they are English or Spanish.
I want it to be something like Jennifer Lopez - Lets Get Loud.
That you can dance to.
And I don't care if they're old or new.
Try Oye Como Va by Santana.
Belanova's Tus Ojos is more a latin pop, but its a good song. Look up Hot Te Amo++ at www.flashplayer.com, you can listen to it there with a flashplayer video.
Wish I knew more :-\
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What is herpes?
I've heard of it but I never really knew what it was;
and how do you get it?
Herpes is an STD ( sexually transmitted disease ) That, well, you get from having unprotected sex. Either intercourse /or/ oral. Herpes is like a really bad acne for your crotch. You get nasty outbreaks of boils, and it isn't much fun. Herpes has no cure, but there are ways to keep the outbreaks from being as severe as they tend to be.
So basically, it's just another good reason to use a condom.
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There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?
I do this with girl friends alot too. We're just joking about, and we know we can stil do it if they laugh and joke back. But if you're becoming uncomfortable with it, just as him to stop. Tell him how it's hurting you, and if he's a real friend he'll stop.
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I know that every girl down there is unique, but im not a lesbian or anything but i see pretty girls in magazines and all of them dont have any visible things in their bottoms. like my question is, is it unattractive to have larger "lips" than most girls and will guys be turned away by it? I dont wanna sound weird its just i dont know who to ask without seeming like a weirdo. lol thanx!
Theres nothing wrong with having large major labia (outer if you prefer). Most labia are large because of the womans arousal, or it could just be that way. I don't really care, personally, as long as I don't have hair in my mouth afterwards -.-; I guess it just depends on the guy. If a guy can't love you though, just because you have large labia, it means he's not worth it. If a /guy/ is picky about sex when it comes to that, he must be shot. :p
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Im a fifteen-year-old female and I use the finishing touch on my mustache, but it doesnt cut the hair close enough,and it grows back really fast the next day, i dont wanna shave and im allergic to nair and other depilatories. I was wondering..would getting it waxed be almost the same thing? Will it grow back like my mustache does now or will it be all nasty n stuff? And if i do get it waxed does it have to be real long, cuz if it does that will be real nasty! Thanks in advance!!
-DeZ
You should either get laser or waxing. Waxing is not permanent, but after a few times yo uonly have to go in maybe every month and a half. Laser is permanent, though. Shaving only encourages growth really (i.e. my sideburns >_> ) Waxing doesn't take too long, and its really not that painful. For the first time, maybe, but you get used to it.
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My boyfriend and I went on a date yesterday, and when we got home we started making out. After that he sat me on his lap and I felt something poking my butt, so im pretty sure I gave him a boner. I'm wondering how you would tell if you gave a guy a boner and what you should do if u did and dont want to go any further, but i dont just wanna ignor it. My boyfriend and I are really close, if that changes anything.
Definitely gave him one... but you don't have to do anything about it. We get them all the time and have our /own/ ways of dealing with them -.-;. You shouldn't ignore it though, then he might feel you're ignoring /him/.
We take care of ourself when it comes to things like that and the other side isn't wanting much more from it, if you catch my drift. So dun worry about it :p
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How many years older should a guy be for a girl to date?
How many years younger should a girl be for a guy to date?
I say as long as neither of your are minors in the situation (4 years younger than the other) and its legal, then either way. Girl older than guy or guy older than girl, or girl and guy born at the exact same time. o.O
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