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Jr HigH
ok..this is like the nervous racking summer ever! cuz next year is jr high. elemtry skool ended bad (6th grade) and lke i got in a fite with my best friend that said im not kool enough for her and that like totally gave me huge dent in my selfesteem..but i really do have good other friends that im happy with. im so freakin scared about jr high like if ill be kool or whatever..idk..and im just stressed...and is there any advice you could give me of how to start out jr high and not be like a total looser..not being rude or anything..ok thanks ill give yall 5 ratings!
_*Hallie*_
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well i went through junior high and now i am in high school i would say just be yourself people like other people who are themselves and not who try to act or be like something there not 6th grade isn't really hard personally i think it is the easiest grade 7th 8th get harder just be yourself and everything will go good.
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I live in mattoon(a really small town!) but any wat we start middle school (jr. high) in 6th grade. i started out hanging out with a bad crowd! and it didnt turn out good so i started hanging out with the people that im best friends with now.(this might not help but)I think the first year is just trying to be yourself and find your new friends beacause if your town is like mine there will be a coupe of other elementry schools going to to so your going to find a ton of new freinds and i reallt think that the labels like preps geeks nerd band peoples all that is aloud of crap i hate being called a prep it the stupidest thing ever just dont listen to the labels and have fun with your friends
hope i helped♥
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Well that friend definitley wasn't worth your troubles.
To tell you the truth, the most popular people in junior high are specs in high school. They have to work their way up. They're competeting against a lot more people, and a completely different crowd.
I'm in high school, and though junior high was a lot of fun (my friends made it that way) it was a lot harder academically then high school.
In high school just don't be late to class, know where you're going, DON'T judge anyone until you get to know them, some people look scary or mean, but are really the nicest people you will ever meet.
Don't skip class, it's fun for a while, but you'll almost always get caught no matter how careful you are. Don't be annoying and follow around the upperclassmen. Don't tag along with people unless you're positive they want you there. Go to the sporting events, have fun, meet new people. Join a club if you can, even try out for a sports team if you're school allows the youngest grade.
My school system is
Elementary- K-5
Middle school/Junior high- 6-8
High school- 9-12
So it junior high only 7th and 8th graders could be on sports teams.
But anywho, just be yourself, meet new people, don't be a pest, focus on grades and remember... you start off with a clean plate in high school. Everything you do in middle school won't be remembered. Do your best and enjoy it. If you mess up, next year, or even high school will be your second chance.
Good luck and have fun :)
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I started Highschool this year.... honestly, its alot easier than Jr High. I can say 'Geek or prep, dun care what ya think about me. Your sorry ass opinion doesn't matter to me, so go sodomize yourself with a broomstick, ass hole.' now. :P
Jr High is rough. But don't worry about popularity or that shit alot. Just your grades. Same thing applies in Jr, those others who think they're better than you can go eat some shit.
If you really want though, all you need to do is know how to speak like you live in the ghetto and dress like it too. Oh yeah, and shitty rap or hip hop is good for that too. If you're /that/ willing. And pimp out all of your stuff yo. It is cool up in that.. heezie... thing... yeah. o_O;;
♥EJ(ST)
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Middle school (or Junior High. Whatever) is brutal and painful, but just ignore all that and smile. Who cares about being cool? Once you get to high school you will realize that the coolest people are the ones that completely shun the idea of being "cool" and do their own thing. And in college, everybody is waaay too insane to care if you are "cool" or not! So why not get a head start on this and try not to conform to everybody else's ideas.
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Its no different. You're all just a lil more mature now and you have boobs. Thats all.
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Hey, i know how jr high can be...all you have to do is keep in mind your moving up to a new school with the same classmates since kindergarten..it wont be like the first day of kindergarten where you dont know anyone..it will be the same friends moving up with you. just be friendly,socialble, dont get a bad reputation (like smoking, drinking, etc) and you will be fine, honest! not everyone will like you...but if you stay e positive,friendly, etc and make new friends..you will be popular.
to start out..
-make new friends
-dont bump into people in the hall...know where your walking..noothing gts mee angrier than the new kids bumping into me, not knowing where they are goin (im in 10th grade)
-dont be stuck up or snotty..
-be confident..your friend you thought with isnt a real friend if she said your not cool enough. a key point in being popular is being nice also.
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