Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for one and a half years now. He was in the same college, two years elder. Passed out the year we started dating and started working. We haven't ever had major problems except for once when he couldn't clear a major exam and his parents blamed it on his distraction because of me but we eventually got back because he got a good job and he loved me.

We just spent the last ten days together on a holiday with his friends and a couple of mine and then at his place alone for a couple of days.
We got into a petty fight two days back and he told me he really thinks we should see new people. He feels since I'm just 19 and he's 22 there is a lot more in life then getting serious for each other.

I let him be for a day and when we met next to talk this out he said he doesn't want to see new people. He was just saying that to make me angry. But he feels like we should break up because he thinks relationships are restrictive and he feels bound and he can't be himself. He told me he wants to still be with me and do all the things we used to do like go out for dinners, watch movies etc but he can't be physical with me. He feels when we do he gets too emotionally attached to me and he doesn't want that .We are too into each other.

He accepted that he still loves me and will because I'm a huge part of his life and he doesn't want to feel this way for any other girl. But right now he feels like he isn't fit for relationships and he can't see himself in one ever, even in the future. He knows i'd wait for this to work out but he said he didnt want to give me false hopes. He would try to make this work out too but right now he cant.

He feels now that we are bound by a relationship he would be able to express his feelings better in front of me. He loves me as much as he loves him mom and best friends and he wants me to be there but he said he can live without the sex.

We agreed on neither breaking up or dating. And I couldn't accept calling this a friendship so we just agreed on not defining it till he clears his head. But I can't stop feeling hurt and insecure.

I love him. But I can't understand what happened to him suddenly. What am I supposed to do? I'm in a delimma because I want him and this relationship back. Is there a chance ? Is this just a phase and should I just play along by giving him time?

Q: okay so i and my bf are about to complete 2yrs. he doesnt have time for me. he is with his friends. he is not romantic and mostly he is very immature. and i expect a lot from him. i want him to spend some time with me, talk to me,go out with me. but thats not the case. we stay far away. he does take a day out for me in a month. but otherwise we get only 7 hrs together and in that 7 hours also we get only 1 hr to be together. he does feel insecure when i tok to some other guy. i just sometimes feel that its me only putting all the efforts in this relationship. and its no use tokn to him. bcz it wont change anything. he just has so many important things in his life than me.

Q: So I'm in a lesbian relationship. Me and my girlfriend have been talking about having children. She wants me to carry the child but wants it to be her egg which is totally acceptable. However, I really really hate the name she wants if its a boy. The name is Ta'Ziyah and I HATE it! But she said she had that name picked out since she was a teen. And she won't give it up. I've had the name Christopher picked out since I was 8 but she doesn't like that. So now I feel like I don't want to have a child with her and I have no say in the name because it won't be my egg. What can I do to make her change her mind and change that hideous name?

Q: There is this junior in my drama class and he is so cute, and I'm a freshman. I caught him looking at me a lot once. But I don't think it meant anything at all. My lines in are play are directed to him... and it's a really nasty pickup line (out of the subject). Do you think that there is any possibility that he likes me? I mean I guess that I'm pretty attractive and I talked to him once.

Q: I feel scared to ask my parents for a snapchat facebook Kris even an instagram because of how over protective they are what should I do

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Q: I'm 20 and I broke up with my first love a year ago. I loved him with every fibre in my being and did literally everything for him, even if it went against my morals. I spent all the money I had on getting him expensive gifts and I stuck with him, even when he couldn't care less about me. When we broke up because of the fact that he didn't wanna deal with commitment, at this stage in his life, he wasn't upset, not even for a day. It's been over a year and I've been the only one carrying all this pain and I've been holding so much hope that we could get back together, someday. We still see each other and he kisses me and that's what gave me hope that he still likes me. But last night, he told me that he'd never even think of marrying someone like me and that he needs a submissive kind of girl who doesn't pick up on the wrong things he does, like I did.I always picked up on all his lies and everything he hid from me. It hit me all at once, last night that he's been using me this past year and using my vulnerability. I cried in front of him for two hours straight and he kept saying the same things like "You're not my first love so I can't hold that much love for you" and "I told you I didn't want a relationship" "My first made me lose all my emotions" . I don't know why I'm so attached to him or why I'm even this devastated over a jerk like him. I just need someone to talk some sense into me. I worry, that I'll never be good enough for someone. What else can I do for someone to make them appreciate me? I allowed him to cross so many limits of mine and went above and beyond for him, and I get this, in return. How will I expect the next guy in my life to appreciate what I'll do for him and not break my heart again?

Q: I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything?

Q: So I had been a Wiccan for months, and my dad had the bad idea of it. That every Wiccan was a witch. That witches are evil. That the Horned God is associated with Satan because he has horns/antlers. I have never felt comfortable in Christianity, but felt comfortable in Wicca, like I was 100% safe and nothing would ever hurt me. I'll be turning 18 in a few months. Should I just light candles in my room, try to tell the Horned God that I'm sorry and that I'll move in with my friend when I turn 18 and become a Wiccan again?

Q: I'm a 14 year old male and when I masterbate I can't cum and I need to know why.

Q: I am a girl,age 23. my father has died in 2009, my mom is alive but she never take care of me. i live with my elder sister,she has 3 kids. she always quarreled with me. if i don't do any household work, she got angry with me. i have boyfriend,who never let me cry,he love me so much.i didn't meet with him for last 3month because my sister never allowed me to meet with him. i stay my room whole day lonely.nobody of my family call me or ask me anything. my study is also hampering day by day. for my condition my boy friend also feeling very bad for me and his study also destroying day by day.i cant tolerate this anymore.it is seem to me that my death is the nice solution for all.my family will get rid of me and my boyfriend will get a better life.i have no way to live.what should i do beyond this?

Q: My husband is in the military and after 13 years he is separating due to medical reasons. He wants to move back to our hometown to be near both of our families, primarily his mother and aunt. Well, I am hesitate. I didn't have the best childhood due to both of my parents being alcoholics. They both still drink heavily and can get violent and emotional when doing so. My oldest brother still lives in the area and drinks excessively as well. To top it off, my sister-in-law and her husband live about an hour away and love to drink and party and are somewhat open swingers. Their sexually active 15 year old daughter is free to do as she pleases and their 12 year old son is often left on his own. While I respect my husband for wanting to be near his mother and his disabled aunt, I am having a hard time dealing with the fact of being near the rest of our family. While it would be nice to be near family, this is not the situation I have envisioned. I don't want our children thinking drinking excessively and having multiple partners is okay. Should I accept the fact we are moving back and deal with the situation as it comes or continue trying to talk my husband into moving somewhere else?

Q: Okay so, My best friends name is Lindsey and she is a lesbian who recently came out. Sometimes we cuddle and we made out once. I used to be 100% sure I was straight but now I don't know. Lindsey just makes me feel really special and I want to hold her in my arms all the time. I don't know if I just like her as my best friend or more than that. And even if I do like her more than that I wouldn't want to tell anyone because I'm scared that people will think I'm a complete lesbian and then they won't like me. People as in boys. I just need help, like how do you know if your gay or not? Oh I'm 15 and a female by the way.

Q: hey my name is zohra and iam from india. my age is 22. My story is firstly my fb was open and my frnd sent a frnd request to a guy frm my profile and after acceptn he initiated the convo with me. the next day when i went to cafe he is in my college he was there he was looking at me the whole time but wen i look he turns away and this kept on happenin wen iam not there he always searches for me coz my frnd alwayz notices him and he makes a point to sit n frnt of me or sit at a place where he can see me but he has a really high ego problem. Then I started initiatin txt wid him he alwayzz was the one to prolong it and always I end the convo. when i went to watch the match in cafe he txted me where am i wen i tld him iam there he came n 5 mins but we never spoke face to face tat day i tld him hi after that he alwayzz initiated convo wid me but n txts he will not reply he looks at me so many times my frnd alwayzz catches him lookin at me... when i tld him that black stud suits him he tld me that he has lost it but he changed to black stud after a week. When i tld he looks good n traditional dress so fr every friday he wears traditional dress. and then when i was so confirmed that he likes me i confessed to him but he tld me he likes me as a frnd but i tink he s lyin its so obvious with his actions that its nt frndshp so i tld him its okay so he txted me i hope you get over dis and i tld i will he dint reply after that. the nxt day i put up a pic wid my brother he also changed his watsapp dp wid his sister and he changed his status to the greatest weakness of humans iss there hesitancy to tell the other person how much they love them when they are alive.and the nxt day n cafe he still looks at me still sits n frnt f me smiles also i really dont understand this guy and f he sees me wid other guys he stares at me. and so i txted him v can jus b frnds as you said you can b normal wid me cancel out wat i confessed to you but he did not reply. oh by the way i confessed him by texting not in person. so wat should i tink wat s goin on n his head. my frnd says may b he expected you to tell him to tink overbut i never did tat m frnd s dam sure tat he lyks me me also but my frnd says may b he needs sum tym wat shld i do wid him ????? should i just move on or should i wait for him????? you tink he has feelings fr me?????????iam too confused he s confusin me too much and his frnds alwayzzz tease him wen iam around its so obvious everythn s so obvious but cant he jus accept it??????????

Q: What would you do in this situation? Both my husband and my brother go on long-term vendettas--some for life whereby they will never speak to someone again. Their vendettas are over things I do not consider to be terribly serious. I dislike confrontation and strive to avoid it and now find myself stuck. My brother gets offended easily, is mad at me over something that I consider minor and has cut me off. I apologized in an email for anything hurtful that may have happened but he never replied. He is executor of our parents' estate and has a fiduciary duty to finalize things but has gone quiet and not finalized the estate 3 weeks ago when he had said he would (before the falling out). If I mention this to my husband, he will want to end relations with my brother. So in a sense, I am acting as a buffer between the two. It's eating away at me. On the one hand, I feel I should let my husband know that my brother is on a vendetta and hasn't finalized our parents' estate; on the other hand, if I tell my husband this, I know he will never forgive my brother and it will be the end of our family relationship.

Q: I have liked a boy in one of my classes since 3rd grade, and im almost out of 5th now(aka I'm 11). I want to acualy TALK to him before the years out, but a:I'm too shy and b: I have absolutly NO CLUE what to.say. any Advice?and obvosly I'm a girl.

Q: I had asked my girlfriend some questions about our relationship but she said she wanted to take things slow, she is not even ready to make out. Im curious as of how slow she will take this relationship? If you have ANY answer to this, pls let me know soon...

Q: So, I am about to have a baby and someone mentioned that there are a bunch of places that will send you baby stuff in your mailbox if you just ask for it? How do you do this? Is there a list of companies that do this, or do you just have to write everyone and hope they send you something? LOL!

Q: My birthday is in 10 days. I want to do something small on the Sunday. I was thinking karaoke bar? Just me my boyfriend and another couple.. I am over 21 but don't drink too much... I just want to have a fun time with the friends closes to me. Any ideas besides Karaoke bar? Maybe skating and dinner?

Q: My partner and I have been together for just over 3 years and in that time things havent been bad but havent been the greatest. I am 26 he is 22, from the beginning I saw signs that something was up. When we first started dating if I didnt want to do something with him one night he would drive by my house several times asking if I want to see him - or just appear at my door. if I said no - he would get upset and not talk to me for hours.

We moved in together 2 years ago - and things have been getting worse...and I am starting to realize it now (everyone can see it). I am told when to get out of bed, when I can go to bed, when I can do everything, calling me stupid blaming EVERYTHING on me - He has a very short fuse - to the point i am scared to say anything to him. Just the other night we got into an argument (he wanted me to call someone and I didnt want to) he got VERY angry - got in my face clintched his fist and swung - stopping it less than an inch from my face. and stormed away. I have never been so scared - he has never done this kind of a thing before. and about 50 mins later he apologized and wnats to move on. But i dont know if I can. It scared me. Is this abuse? Should I leave??

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