i think I'm pregnant... my preganancy test came out negative but i have the symptoms. Im 15, and i dont know who the dad is. And i dont want a baby... what can i do?
no rude bitches....
Watch for your period, and go to a doctor if it doesn't show at its expected time. The best of luck!! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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ok... i have to write an essay for my 9th grade english class about romeo and juliet. We have to dicuss whether or not they were in love. I feel that they werent really in love, just lust. I need help in finding information to prove my point, which is that romeo and juliet werent really in love. If any one has any advice about this please tell me! thanks
I don't really have any advice for ya, just an opinion...ARE YOU CRAZY?! Romeo and Juliet were totally in love! Look what they went through just to be together, their families wouldn't let them be together, so they ended the fight by killing themselves so they could be in heaven forever together! They were totally madly in love! If you think it wuz just lust, then you must not have really understood it...I suggest reading it again, then writing your essay. Much Love!!
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Jessie
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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!!
That's called stalking, you can go to a counselor or vice principal at your school, talk to them about it, and have them talk to him and/or his family, saying you don't feel comfortable with him around, and they'll do somethin bout it. Hope this helped! Good Luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?
thank you
In high school, you can finally be your true self. There isn't necessarily more or less drama, there is most definately drama. Because there are so many different types of people, in their own little groups, and One group just never seems to like any of the other groups...So they spread rumors bout each other. Friends always talk about other friends, if they talk to you about other people, then they talk to other people about you. It won't end in high school, but they won't think your life is perfect. In high school, we realize everyone is unique, and weird, cause let's face it, we're all a lil weird...but they know the other isn't perfect. So no worries, enjoy Jr. High while you can, and when ya get to high school, have fun bein you! Much Love!!
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I live in Utah and I expect everyone to have big opinions on my religion because it is different. My boyfriend is LDS (morman) and I am Lutheran. We have breifly dicussed if we were to get married, where would it be at. He wants a temple wedding and I want my chruch wedding. There is no way I would convert. But we seem to argue about this a lot. I am scared I might lose him because of this. How can I settle it without losing him?
If you do get married, have an outdoor wedding, on a beautiful spring day...I'm not sure who should marry the two of you. But outside is romantic, like in a field or on the beach. And if you have children, let them chose their religion. For now, just say it's the religion you were raised with, and you feel you can't convert. Good Luck, Much Love!!!
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Jessie
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15/f i'm having a party on saturday for my birth day and i would like to know ideas for games and just fun stuff to do so that this party will not be boring. there will be guys and girls. also, any tips would be great! thank you!
7 Minutes In Heaven!!! Well, if I wuz havin a party this Saturday with guys and girls, that'd be the first thing to come to mind for my party! Just find out what the people comin like, and try to compromise! That way everybody has fun playin their favorite games, and all go home happy! Make sure there is dancing! There has to be dancing! Since you say you're 15, I'm takin a wild guess and sayin you're turning 16...Well Sweet Sixteen, Ya Gotta get down with your bad self!!!! ~*ShAkE dA BoOtAy*~ Avoid board games...boring. Certain card games if it isn't alot of people, poker or somethin, stuff like that. Avoid the hokey pokey! :) Games that get people thinkin, and their blood flowin, and there can be shoutin! Stuff like that! Hope I helped! Have Fun! and Happy Birthday!!!! Much Love!
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Jessie
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hey, for ela we have to bring in a poem or song lyrics that we like and read them to the class...anyone have any suggestions? (they have to be appropriate for school obviously) thanks!
Ashlee Simpson's lyrics to "Autobiography" Awesome Song! ~*Got Stains On My T-Shirt, And I'm The Biggest Flirt, Right Now I'm Solo, But That Will Be Changing Eventually, I Laugh More Than I Cry, You Piss (Tick) Me Off Goodbye, Got Bruises On My Heart, And Sometimes I Get Dark, If You Want My Auto, Want My Autobiography, Baby Just Ask Me*~ lol I love that song! Where it says piss, just say tick...more appropriate! Have fun!!! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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hi . ok well here it goes. im 14 and i have been going out with this guy named anthony , he's 16. we have been going out for a month and ive practically fallen in love with him . and he's like in love with me . well he is on probation for burglary and he told me he is not that kind of person anymore . and i said to him that if you mess up then i cant be with you. he understood and said ok. well before he met me he's done some crazy things. one of them is drugs. pot , coke , x , etc. well i told him i dont want him doing ANY of that because i hate drugs and a lot of my friends have gotten hurt and i love him to much to see that happen to him. so last night we were on the phone and we were watching cops and they did sum drug bust. and it was coke . and he's like "yea i did that a couple days ago". i got really pissed and yelled and screamed and started crying. and like he promised me he would never do that and he says he loves me and would do anything for me , but my relationship feels like a big lie. i really need some help or someone normal to talk to because my friends are all messed up to like that. im not that kind of person. he said "i have not found anyone yet like me" and im like "well if yout hought i was that kind of person , then your wrong." he said a lot more but theres to much to type. someone IM me at xIxMissthugxIx@aol.com . someone please help me with this.
Everybody deserves a second chance, granted what your boyfriend did was wrong. Let him know this is his last chance, and if he screws up again, then it's over. Now since you love him, it'd be hard leavin him, and it'd hurt for awhile, but it'd only make you stronger in the end. If he does screw up, and you do leave him, then hopefully he'll realize he needs to do somethin, and stop usin drugs! One can only hope...Hope this helps! Good luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Okay,I was with this girll for like the longest time..Months & months.Everything was good then suddenly she broke up with me..She didnt give a reason.she still tells my friends she loves me but isnt with me again & I dont get It.should I talk to her or would that make her mad??:(
Definately talk to her, do you love her? If so, she probably feels in the same place as you. Talk to her, ask her how she feels. If it's the answer that you seem to be hopin for, then go hang out, get caught up, and save the first date for a little while...maybe this weekend! If it's not the answer you're hopin for, then go to your guy friends! Guys always have some sort of party in mind it seems...Wait, partying leads to bein drunk...don't do that, go to chucky cheese or something like that. lol Just kidding! Everything will be fine, no harm will come from talking to her! Just be sincere when you do, tell her how you feel. Hope this helps, and good luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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i want to decorate my bedroom for my sweet sixteen! i am up for any ideas but i have to stay cheap. can any one give me ideas or good websites?
Not sure how exactly you should decorate it, but I have advice on the color you chose for the walls. Shouldn't do red, starin at that would make you mad. Black is too dark...Grey would put you in the same mood as black...not really a good one. I'd suggest maybe a yellow, or baby blue, or a lilac purple...or this is what I wanna do with mine, take blue, purple, and silver, and do a sort of sponge thing to the wall. Or maybe with red, yellow, and pink...It takes alot of work, but it looks so awesome afterwards! Hope this helps! Have fun!! Much Love!
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Jessie
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I really love this girl i am talking to i mean i lvoe to talk to her and be with her as much as possible, i am 17 and turn 18 in about 4 months we are talkin about movin in together do you think that is a good idea she is already 18
When you love someone you want to spend every second possible with them...now since the two of you are just dating, and are still teenagers, when you move in together, at first, yeah it'll probly be awesome, but after awhile the two of you could get annoyed with one another, bored with each other, because of being around them so much. Married couples do it, but that's different, some how, and I honestly can't explain the difference. Just another difference between adults and teenagers...we're rebellious. We think getting out on our own is the most awesome thing ever, and even more so with a boyfriend or girlfriend. I, personally, wouldn't go for it, just to keep the relationship you have. Besides distance makes the heart grow fonder...After not seeing each other for a period of time, when you finally do, it just makes it so much more worth while. If that makes any sense...Hope this helps. Best of luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Alright, I came to the realization that I love this guy that I have been friends with for nearly 5 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me so we talk on the phone. My question is, should I tell him that I love him? Would it freak him out? Would it make things wierd? Should I tell him why I love him? Im in a biit of a spot right now. All comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much.
~Nokomis~
I can totally relate to this one. I'm in a very very similar situation. This guy, who I've known my entire life, and is actually my best friend lives in Ohio, where I used to live, but we moved to Florida. He's about 758 miles away and 10-12 hours...And I love him more than anything. I plan on movin back in 2 yrs and 2 months, and I think there is maybe a small chance of somethin happenin between us then, we think that if I had never moved then somethin would have happened between us...But he knows I love him, and we're still as close as we ever were, if not more. Tell him you love him, he won't be freaked out, maybe a little surprised, but in a good way. And if you have a strong friendship, and can tell each other alot without judging one another, then things shouldn't get weird. I read this quote once that said somethin like since you never get to see them, hearing their voice is the closest thing to touching them...It's so true. Tell him how you feel, you might be surprised, for all you know he could feel the exact same way. The guy I love doesn't, but at least he knows...Hope this helps! The best of luck!
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Jessie
P.S. The guy I love even commented on your question...it's a small world after all...lol
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I am 17 and i am kinda seeing a 18 year old, she has a boyfriend but they havent got along or had sex or anything for a couple of months. we started talkin and started going out on dates and seeing each other. We had sex after like 2 months of talkin and now we have done it about 15-16 times, and she broke up with her boyfriend, how long should i wait to ask her out
I've already given you my answer to this one! Go for it, she's practically yours already! Besides you're just such a sexy beast, how could she possibly refuse?! lol The best of luck!! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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Ok my neighbor is bi and she invited me over one time with her and another bi girl who i didnt kno was bi but then we got really really drunk and i made out with both of them and i woke up and i thought it was REALLY gross i mean ok and then i found out they werent drunk but i was and so they kept telling me i was bi and im like NO IM NOT and they keep telling me i am soo i dont believe them but am i?
Not technically no, if you don't believe in that sort of thing, then no you're not. They played a very mean trick on you. There are people out there who will experiment with other types of sexuality, but not fully cross over...just say you did that. It looks better than saying they got you drunk...and be careful of who you trust. Hope all works out for the best! Much Love!
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Jessie
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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...
If you have had spotting, then you shouldn't be pregnant...There are no really early signs. Just watch for your period, and take a pregnancy test. If it comes out positive, then go to a doctor, and have it professionally checked just to be sure. Take the 3 birth control pills...Avoid sexual activity for awhile. There's a chance you could just be gettin sick at the same time you think you might be pregnant...which doesn't help, just freaks women out more. But just do a pregnancy test...that way you can be sure or not. The best of luck to you! Much Love!
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Jessie
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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!
Sweetheart, that's called rape! You need to call the hospital, and head to the emergency room if you don't stop bleeding. Call the police later on the guys that did this, and if you haven't takin a shower between now and the time it happened, then that's for the best, because you would still have evidence on you that they touched you. Meaning fingerprints and stuff...No girl ever wants it to happen, and it's not your fault. Alot of girls always end up blaming themselves, and I never knew why, but for future reference, it is not your fault! The best of luck!! Much Love!
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Jessie
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i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ?
Believe it or not, this is perfectly natural for that type of friendship (meanin big bro/lil sis) When a guy and girl are best friends, and I mean really close, one always falls for the other. Its because they are so close, and they know each other so well, and if there was to ever be a relationship that friendship would be a great foundation for it. But it always happens, my best friend is a guy nearly 2 years older than me, and he was my first love. I never saw it as weird, granted we live in 2 different states, but I thought it made since because he were so close for bein that far apart, he knows me better than anybody, and I can really tell him anything and everything, and he actually fits my description of the perfect guy...well the perfect guy for me I guess. There's a chance you do like him, and just never really thought about it because you thought it was just big bro/lil sis, sit down and think about it, and I mean really think about it, then talk to him. Ask him what he thinks...if you decide to become more than friends, don't jump right into it, you don't want to take a chance on ruining this friendships, because believe me, these types of friendships are very rare...Hope this helps! Good Luck! Much Love Sweetie!
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Jessie
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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.
Ignore him! You're better than they are, and they apparently know it! You are an intelligent person with enough common sense to know what is right from wrong! Just because you don't smoke, drink, or have sex doesn't mean you're a loser...And violence is never the answer, as corny as that sounds, it's the truth! If you are really going to have to deal with him for a long time, then yeah just ignore him, don't take anything he says to heart...he's just trying to bring you down because it makes him feel better about himself. So Hope it all works out, stay smart and strong! Much Love!
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Jessie
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couple of nights ago i had sex with one of my best friends we were really into the moment and we did it without a condom i pulled out way before i came and she orgasmed and the next mornin she started her period. i know im prolly being paranoid but i always hear theres a chance of a girl being pregnant even if the guy didnt cum so if anyone knows how high the chance of her being pregnant is please tell me thank you.
Wow, ok if you didn't cum, then there's no chance of her getting pregnant. In order for the girl to get pregnant, she needs the semen...NO worries hun, just a lil paranoia gettin to ya. Hope the freindship stays tight!
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Jessie
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Ok, im fat and i need to lose alot of weight im in 7th grade and i weigh 205 lbs. how do i
Healthy food my friend! There are a ton of diet websites these days, go to one of them, you can put in what you've eatin that day and it tells you bout your health, and if it has improved or not...They got so many diet programs now a days too, Jenny Craig, Slim Fast, and the Atkins thing...just look around, see what you like the best and go for it! It takes time, so if after a month you haven't lost a lot of weight dont fret! Stick to healthy foods, and beverages. Exercise is really really good, you won't be able to do much at first, but that will improve as time goes by...Hope all goes well! Much Love!
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