I agree with babegyal.
I think you should sit your mom down, by herself.
Tell her about this relationship with this guy, tell her he's a really great guy, and you'd atleast like to spend SOME time with him.
Your dad's just being a dad.
My dad still has problems with me going out, and I'm almost sixteen.
Your mom may be thinking of how she acted as a kid your age, maybe she thinks she done something that she dont want you to make the mistake of doing, early sex maybe? I don't know.
You definately don't need to let your brother know anything about the relationship, brothers tend to twist things a little.
I dont think you should bring up sex however, unless your mom does.
Good luck with your boyfriend!
Hope I helped!
AA

It really just depends on what type of straightener you have.
When I straighten my hair, I blow dry it a little, to get most of the water out, and I let it air dry the rest.
When its dry I partially straighten it, I don't make it perfect.
I sleep on it so it will lay flat to my head the next day.
Then the next morning I straighten it again.
I wouldnt recommend straightening it on a high heat level.
A CHI brand straightener is a good straightener.
Be careful not to frizz your hair.
If it helps, I use heat resistance, it causes less damage, and makes your hair look even healthier.
I suggest VO5 Heat resistance, you can find it at walmart, in the shampoo and conditioner section.
Hope I helped!
AA

1) A girl loves it when a guy shaves, it shows that he cares about his body, and has good hygiene.
2) When shaving your area, I usually let it soak.
Then after the hairs get loose, and not so stiff, I moisturize it with soap, and massage the hairs, this also helps to loosen them up.
Then, I rinse the soap off, and cover with shaving cream and just shave away.
Be careful not to shave too fast though.
When you shave, shave from bottom to top, but not so much straight up and down, shave at an angle, this prevents rash, and cuts!
Hope I helped!
AA

Thats normal.
My boyfriend does that.
Its even worse during sex.
Its not really a rash, its just lots of redness.
Nothing to worry about.
It just means he's really horny.
Hope I helped!
AA

It doesn't smell unless you have bad hygiene.
Hope Ive helped!
AA

Summers Eve- Towlette- Dont use while on period, cleans vaginal area, leaves smelling fresh.

Douche Kit- Squirts up into vaginal area, use after period. Cleans vaginal area.


Many women take the issue of genital hygiene very seriously, to the extent of sometimes becoming obsessed with it. The vagina is something that is very simple to clean.
The external part of the vagina, the labia, should be cleaned twice a day using clean cold water. Since the genital area is moist and warm, bacteria can grow easily. When you use hot or warm water you are creating an atmosphere for the bacteria to grow more irrevently.
Women often use perfumed soap and other products with strong scents in a hope to change the smell of the vagina. This can cause infection. Washing the inside of the vagina with soap disturbs the natural balance of substances.
When the natural balance is disturbed you are at risk of developing an infection that is caused by bacteria.It is also important for the area to be cleaned following sexual intercourse. Washing should be performed using a singular front to back motion to avoid bacteria around the anus from coming into contact with the vagina or urethra .
Cleaning the vagina is just one thing but there are things that you needs to take into consideration. The kind of underwear one wears and the way it is washed makes a difference. Cotton underwear with good coverage help reduce the likelihood of perspiration and the transfer of bacteria from the anal region to the genital area.
The vagina has a self cleaning process, normal vaginal discharge is usually clear to white and it is a necessary part of the body's regular function. As discharge leaves the body, it takes bacteria with it which helps in keeping any vaginal infections at bay.
Excretions from the vagina, perspiration, and urine can build up making it even easier for the bacteria to grow which is why one needs to clean the vagina after urinating. These bacteria can cause urinary tract infections (UTI's) or other vaginal infections.
Hope I Helped!
AA

OMG! I was in the same situation.
Me & my boyfriend have been dating eleven months.
We had sex and had done everything else, besides me giving him a BJ, around 4 1/2 months.
About 3 months ago I started giving him head.
I really didnt want to at first, but I knew he would go along with what I said.
I think your saying that you don't want him to cum in your mouth, that you want him to cum else where? You should be able to have sex after he cums, maybe not directly afterwards, but yeah, you should be able to have sex.
He shouldnt care to kiss you as long as he doesnt cum in your mouth. Because if he has good hygiene he should smell, or taste bad (lol).
My advise, you don't have to do this, just a suggestion.
Steps ... lol...
1- Give him head, but dont let him cum.
2- If you have unprotected sex, then just climb ontop of him, without letting him get off from the BJ, and go at it.
-If you have protected sex, have a condom nearby, and put it on him, use your mouth, this is a turn on.
3- After you have sex, and YOU get off, move back down to his lower area, if he has a condom on, take it off, and start giving him head.
If he isnt wearing a condom, give the penis time to dry and then give him head.
I promise theres no taste as long as you have good hygiene also.
4- Give head, until you want to stop, or he gets off.
Good luck with everything!
AA

My advise is to tell this guy how you feel, you've said yourself that he's told you that he loves you. However, there may be a downfall to this. You say your friends with benefits at the moment, consider if he doesn't want to start a relationship. Hopefully he's not a jerk & he really finds hope in you guys.
Maybe he's not made the move, because he's unsure of where you stand, if you want to be with him or not.
You should most definately talk to him.
Goodluck!
AA

Dont kill yourself, thats never the solution.
You have a loving wife at home, and probably kids that you haven't mentioned.
Yes, you are in the wrong, by wanting to tell her husband, for revenge, and by having an affair.
If you tell anyone, I think it should be your wife, she's earned more honesty that anyone.
You won't kill yourself, or you would have already done it. Turn to God, don't think of suicide. God's always here to help you, no matter what.
Don't say you cannot go on, when you can. & dont use High BP as a pity act.
You need to get this prostitute out of your mind, and care for your family!
I hope you make the right decisions.
Goodluck!
Have faith.
AA

Labioplasty, is a surgical procedure that reduces the size of your labia.
Women usually go through this surgery when their labia is oversized, hangs, or shows when theyre wearing everyday clothing.
Heres a link with more information.
http://www.cosmeticsurg.net/procedures/Labioplasty.php

She cant be pregnant.
The only way she could have got pregnant, was if he ejacuated near her vaginal area, and some of the semen soaked through the pantyhose, and underwear, and that would be a 1 in 100 possibility.
Your friends safe.
Reassure her of that.
Though, if she plans on going further, go with her to your local health clinic to set her up on birth control, her parents dont have to know.
Hope I helped!
AA

Maybe no one appealing has asked you, because they think that you dont want a girlfriend, seeing that you havent accepted any of your offers. Or maybe, they like you, but they're like yourself, and their afraid of rejection.

My advice, have a very close friend with you, that you never fight with, and doesnt make fun of you.
Sit down with him, and call the girl of your choice.
Say "Hey, this is -Jake-(example name). I was wondering if you'd like to catch a movie and dinner this friday/saturday night. My treat."
Give her time for her response, and if she rejects you, dont get all torn up about it.
--Accepts say "Thats cool, I'll pick you up/meet you there.
--Denies say "Oh, well I'm sorry to bother you, maybe some other time"
You have to think of rejection in other ways, maybe her parents wont let her date, or maybe she just doesnt feel like she's ready to date.
And when you think of rejection, dont think of it as harmful, think of it as she just wasnt for you.
Hope I helped
& Goodluck with those butterflies!
AA

Your most definately not fat.
You wear a 32 C. So thats got to be atleast 5 lbs of boobs lol.

Go to www.myvirtualmodel.com & see for yourself that your not fat.
Goodluck with your findings.
AA

Like, drop.
Like you drop a bag of groceries.

I'm not pregnant, nor have ever been, and theres some questions that I cant answer, but I'm going to answer what I can.
My cousin got pregnant at eighteen, she had a hard time doing it though because she had been on the pill for 4 years.
I dont think your too young, and no one on this site should be able to tell you that your not old enough to make your own decisions.
However I dont think you can become pregnant only being off the pill for 3 or 4 days.
It takes a month for your pills to become active, so my assumption, it probably takes a month or two for them to become inactive.
You said you have very supportive parents, thats a good thing.
When you have this child, if you and your boyfriend cant support it fully, financially wise, then I'm sure your parents will help you, and besides you will support it will all the love that it needs.
I know from the experience, the fright of becoming pregnant, which in your case it isnt fright, its hope.. I felt the same thing though, I felt like my stomach was bloated, and thought it was getting bigger the very next day, when I knew it wasnt. Thankfully, I'm not pregnant, but I hope things work out for you...
I'm sure your not completely protected, where you've skipped pills, here and there, but your still protected.
I encourage you fully. I wish you luck, and hope you get the answers your looking for.
Goodluck!
AA

Well, obviously, your allowed alone with a boy, because of your current situation. However, you just need to bring your boyfriend over, tell him you need to talk to him, and its very important, I'm sure your parents know, because your three months. Sit down with him, dont beat around the bush, tell him your pregnant, but its not his. Tell him you DIDNT cheat on him, unless you did, and that you understand on whatever actions he takes.

Or if you cheated on him, tell him you have bad news, and if he doesn't want to continue being with you that you totally understand, because if you cheated, then you should understand.
Tell him your pregnant, and who the father is.
If thats such a good idea.
& maybe consider telling the father, if you havent already.

Best of luck to you and your baby.
Good luck with your boyfriend.
Hope I helped.
AA

Feed it IAMS atleast twice a day, nothing too drastic though, not alot of food. Keep water in his/her bowl. Be active with the dog. Play with it, make it happy.
To bond with him/her, when you walk it, dont leave it on a leash, this makes the dog feel tied up.
Give the dog all your attention when with it.
Buy some treats, they dont cost much, and when the dog does something you like, reward him/her, when s/he does something you dont like, dont give him/her a treat all day.
Hope I helped.
Good luck!
AA

I'm sorry for your loss
I really like this one...


My sister couldn't be here,
Because she lives so far away.
But I know she wishes she could be,
Since this is such a special day.
And though you cannot meet her,
I wanted you to know.
All about my sister,
And how much she loves me so.
She loved to tell me stories
She taught me to ride my bike.
She surprised me with pink roses,
And taught me to fly a kite.
We used to share fudge sundaes,
and ice cream in a cone.
And though you cannot see her,
I'm not standing here alone.
Cause my sister's always with me
Even though we are apart.
I know because she told me,
She'll forever be in my heart...



Again, I'm sorry about your loss.
AA

Honey, I'm going to be brutally honest.
No one, will EVER, have a love like that. I'm soo jealous of Bella. I've read all four books, watched the movie, unlimited times.
Edward is a dream guy. Completely and totally irrationally perfect. He's flawless, and he's so sweet.
Don't worry though, I felt the same way, like no guy could ever be soo perfect. No relationship will be perfect like Edward and Bellas.
I don't think anything's wrong with you, I just think your another girl, thats just inlove with Edward Cullen, like myself.
Lol.
Hope I helped you.
Goodluck.
AA

I've not been in this situation, so I know that my advice is not what your looking for, however, this coming June, I will be in your situation. My boyfriend is leaving for Nashville, Tennessee, and I live in eastern Kentucky. So I'll only get to see him on weekends =[.
I know how you feel, about not wanting to be seperated, and how you both would be devestated, however, I don't see why you all should break up, if your inlove with this boy.
If everythings perfect, then you should atleast give it a chance, when you go to college.
If you don't know how you feel about maintaining a long distance relationship, you should atleast try. I mean, college will be hard, but going to college and losing someone you love, may be even harder.
I don't know what I would do without my snookums. I just hope you make the right decision.
Goodluck.
I know my advice is confusing, mainly because I'm not who your wanting to hear from, but I think you should atleast give it a try.

Best wishes!
AA

Whats to say? I'm not so anonymous!
I'm a fifteen year old girl, that lives in the middle of no where, seriously! My parents are the best ever! They are the ones I go to for advise. I have an older sister, by three years, and a younger adopted brother, by 6 years.
I enjoy riding horses, swimming, camping, fishing, tanning, shopping, and hunting! So, I'm not your average girl. I HATE pink!
I have a best friend, of 6 years. She's beyond crazy! She inspires me in so many ways.
As for giving advise? I Love It! I'm here to answer any question you throw at me. Well, thats about it. Thanks for visiting my column!



If we value the pursuit of knowledge, we must be free to follow wherever that search may lead us. The free mind is not a barking dog, to be tethered on a ten-foot chain.



I'm absolutely inlove with Edward Cullen, from The Twilight Saga. My bedroom is decorated in him, I eat, sleep, breath, Edward Cullen =]!

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