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im pregnant but not with my boyfriend!
I am 14 years old and i am 3 months pregnant...as if that isn't a big enough problem i have another big one. I am pregnant but not with my current boyfriend. How do I tell him that im pregnant?
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You are going to have to tell your parents that you are pregnant first. It'll be scary, but obviously, they're going to have to be told eventually. They can help you figure out how to go about telling your ex-boyfriend what he needs to know. You should probably talk to a counselor (even if it's not at school to help you figure it out). If I were you, I would put the baby up for adoption. I know that that's a huge decision to make but trust me when I say that you are not ready to be a parent. No 14-year old is. After that, you're gonna have to get yourself together to make sure that this doesn't happen again.
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Well, obviously, your allowed alone with a boy, because of your current situation. However, you just need to bring your boyfriend over, tell him you need to talk to him, and its very important, I'm sure your parents know, because your three months. Sit down with him, dont beat around the bush, tell him your pregnant, but its not his. Tell him you DIDNT cheat on him, unless you did, and that you understand on whatever actions he takes.
Or if you cheated on him, tell him you have bad news, and if he doesn't want to continue being with you that you totally understand, because if you cheated, then you should understand.
Tell him your pregnant, and who the father is.
If thats such a good idea.
& maybe consider telling the father, if you havent already.
Best of luck to you and your baby.
Good luck with your boyfriend.
Hope I helped.
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its very responsible of you to tell your current boyfriend that your prego so theres a bright side to your situation. i would say that you would have to sit him down in a private area and just go out and say it im pregnant im three months along but its not yours, you dont have to say that to him that its not his but it would be nice. i dont really know your situation so if you love him tell him that if you cheated and what not and you know you made the mistake but if its just a new boyfriend tell him that you hope he understands.
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hey!
wow okay;um i would just be completely honest with him.if you lie its only going to make things worse.just get straight down to the point and ask him not to say anything until you tell him the whole story.hope the best for you.and i hope everything works out.
-hope i helped!
Sarah.
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