about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do?

DOES HE MAKE FUN OF YOU IN A WAY HE THINKS ITS FUNNY OR JUST TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS? IF HE IS JUST JOKING AROUND HE DOESNT WANT TO HURT YOU AND HE REALLY DOES LIKE YOU... ITS A WAY OF FLIRTING THO AND HE PROBABLLY DOESNT KNOW ANY BETTER. BUTT IF HE IS DOING IT TO HURT YOU THEN DONT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY WHEN HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU. THATS JUST NOT RIGHT BECAUSE HE IS MESSING WITH YOUR HEAD AND YOUR HEART. [[ ♥ ]]

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i want to stop watching porn what should i do?

WHATS WR0NG WITH WATCHING PORN?? L0L WELL.. IF YOU REALLY WANT TO STOP.. THEN YOU JUST HAVE TO TRY KEEPING YOURSELF BUSY. TRY DOING OTHER THINGS. WHAT EVER YOU LIKE. GO PLAY SOME SPORTS WITH YOUR BUDS AND STUFF AND YOU WONT THINK ABOUT PORN SO MUCH. BUT YOU CAN STILL WATCH IT ONCE IN A WHILE. [[ ♥ ]]

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Does anybody know the lyrics to right here waiting by stained? Or like a link to where i can find it-thanks

WWW.AZLYRICS.COM SORRY IF I DIDNT GET YOU THE LYRICS TH0. IT THAT DOESNT HAVE IT GO TO GOOGLE AND JUST TYPE IN THE SONG NAME AND THEN LYRICS. ♥//

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I think I like my guy best friend. We used to have a relationship, but we broke it off (this was 2 years ago)... I know for a fact he doesn't like me (I asked who he liked, and he told me he liked my one friend who doesn't like him)... my friends think he likes me, and it does seem like it.. but I guess not.

One thing I'm thinking about is moving on, but I don't particularly want to do that. Any other ideas?

YOU DONT KNOW F0R A FACT THAT HE DOESNT LIKE YOU. HE ACUALLY MIGHT. IF HE DID LIKE YOU HE PROBABLLY WOULDNT OF TOLD YOU BECAUSE HE MIGHT OF THOUGHT YOU WOULDNT FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT HIM. I HONESTLLY THINK YOU SHOULD MOVE ON. IF NOT RIGHT AWAY MAYBE YOU SHOULD FIND OUT IF HE REALLY DOES LIKE YOU. SOMETIMES WHEN YOUR GUY FRIENDS FLIRT WITH YOU THEY MIGHT NOT EVEN NOTICE BECAUSE THEY THINK ITS JUST SOME FRIENDLY WAY!

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my friend and i are both advice columnists on advicenators, but we both just recently asked each other questions, but there have been no unaswered questions in my inbox, and my friend told me he was sorry because he had a long answer to my question, but i have NOT received an answer from him. is there something wrong with my or his username or something?

THERE ISNT ANYTHING WRONG WITH THE SITE. IF Y0U DIDNT RECIVE IT THEN HE DIDNT SEND IT. HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE. IT TURNED OUT THAT MY FRIEND FORGOT TO CLICK SUBMIT. BUT HE PROBABLLY DIDNT SEND IT IF YOU DIDNT GET IT. IF HE DID THEN TRUST ME YOU WOULD OF GOTTEN IT. ♥//

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what kind of music is this grateful dead, frank zappa, little feet, the who, rolling stones, led zepplin, pat b., santana, weird al, rage against the machine, jimmy hendrix ??



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i'm dating a guy who treats me like a princess, but when we're in the bedroom, he treats me like a prostitute. he spanks me(lightly), pulls my hair, and says things like "your're so, so dirty. someone needs a shower, she's so nasty." what's up with him.

THERE ISNT ANYTHING WRONG WITH HIM ITS JUST THAT MOST GUYS SAY THAT DURING SEX. ITS JUST THAT HE IS JUST RELLY ENJOYING IT AND HE LIKES IT ROUGH! L0L IF YOU DONT LIKE IT YOU DO NEED TO TELL HIM. JUST LET HIM KNOW N0T TO TREAT YOU LIKE A PROSTIDUDE IN THE BEDROOM. JUST D0NT TAKE IT SEROIOUSLY AND HE WILL STOP IF YOU JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. ♥//

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ok i've been rele horny lately.. and i've been having sex with my boyfriend aggressively i mean i don't think he minds but i don't like it..how do i stop becoming as horny all the time? i mean i dont watch porno and im as average as average can get? i dont get it?

WELL.. YOU'RE FINE. I MEAN ITS OKAY IF YOU ARE HORNY ITS JUST PROBABLLY YOUR HORMONES KICKING IN. IF YOU DONT WANT T0 KEEP HAVING SEX WITH HIM THEN JUST SIMPLY TRY T0 STOP YOURSELF. BUT ITS JUST A GOOD THING YOU ARE ONLY HAVING SEX WITH ONE PERSON. YOU WONT BE HORNY ALL THE TIME AND THERS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. YOU'RE FINE =D ♥//

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ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE

FIRST 0F ALL.. ITS N0T GOOD CALLING YOURSELF A SLUT.. THINK OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE MIGHT SAY! I THINK YOU SHOULD STAY WITH RICKY. I MEAN IT SEEMS LIKE YOU HAVE MORE FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM THEN GREG.. AND EVERYGIRL NEEDS A GUY WHO'S GO0D IN BED =) L0L AND PLUS SINCE HE IS SWEET AND EVERYTHING.. THEN THERE YA GO! JUST DONT DO ANYTHING YOU WILL REGRET! ♥//

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My friend told me that he was moving away...I'm very bummed about it but I dont know what I can do...Can someone please help me like how did you feel and what did you do and everything. Thanks a lot!

I KN0W HOW YOU FEEL. ONE OF MY BEST GUY FRIENDS IS MOVING ALL THE WAY DOWN TO FLORIDA.. AND I LIVE IN MISSOURI. =( DO YOU KNOW HOW FAR AWAY HE IS MOVING? IF IT ISNT THAT FAR AWAY YOU BOTH CAN TRY TO MAKE PLANS TO WHERE YOU CAN HANG OUT AND STUFF. EVEN THO MY FRIEND HASNT MOVED YET.. BUT HE IS REALLY SOON IM GONNA MISS HIM A L0T! I MEAN HE WAS LIKE MY BROTHER AND I DO FEEL BUMMED. WHO KNOWS WHEN I WOULD SEE HIM AGAIN. =( WE COULD STILL TALK ONLINE AND ON THE PHONE BUT IT WOULDNT BE THE SAME. YOU COULD ALSO DO THAT WITH YOUR FRIEND. I KNOW ITS NOT MUCH BUT ITS THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP IN CONTACT AND ITS DEFENETLLY BETTER THEN NOTHING!! HE WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR FRIEND NO MATTER WHAT NO MATTER HOW FAR AWAY HE MOVES!! ♥//

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will drinking a lot of water help you lose weight?

N0T UNLESS YOU ARE EXERSING AND EATING THE RIGHT FOODS! ♥//

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Hmm do you think guys are more attracted to girls with Straight hair or Curly ??

Depends on the guy!! =) Straight hair is better tho! ♥//

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hi um.. i was wondering my boyfriends black and what r the chances he has aids ? and if i made out w/ him could i get aids through salivia please respond soon ! i will rate 5's on every question thnx !!

Just because he is black doesnt neseserlly mean he has AIDS. I dont know the chances that he could have it.. you would have to ask him. He might have aids but who knows. If he does your chances are pretty high. ♥//

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okay so me and my boyfriend are getting rele close 2 sex... and i'm a virgin.. i'm like scared i'm not rele good at intimate stuff i mean i blush juss kissing him i dunno why tho it always was like that. like is there anyway you like not be scared any tips or something? i mean should i even do it.. i think i'm ready.. i guess. please help me i don't kno where else 2 turn thx (=

I dont think you are ready because you are'nt even sure if you are. I mean if you really were you wouldnt have any thought about it. Make sure you wont have any regrets about it tho. I really cant tell you or give you any tips on how not to be shy during sex lol. It all depends on you. When you are doing it just think of it as fun and something you and your boyfriend are sharing because you love each other! I dont really know how to explain but if you feel that you are ready then just go for it. But for now I dont think your mind is made up. Oh and be safe !♥//

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does anyone know how to change your screen name on aim? any real answers and i'll rate high!!! thanx

Do you just want to change like the look of it? Like the letters and stuff? Well go on My Aim then Edit Options and then Format screen name! ♥//

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does anyone think its bad to bring your bible to school or stuff like that? I mean my friend does and i want to but am scared someone might hurt me because of it! but i really LOVE god and want to like spread him with people but am scared to! thanks!

I D0NT THINK ITS A BAD IDEA. G0D WILL ALWAYS PROTECT YOU AND NO ONE WILL HURT YOU IF YOU HAVE THE BIBLE. I MEAN MANY PEOPLE BELIVE IN OTHER GODS AND HAVE DIFFERENT RELIGIONS. YOU REALLY CANT SPREAD GOD. I MEAN ITS JUST THE MATTER 0F FACT IN WHAT YOUR FRIENDS BELIVE. I MEAN YOU CAN PRAY TO GOD EVERY NIGHT FOR YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND I THINK THAT WOULD BE GOOD. ITS A GOOD THING YOU WANT T0 BE CLOSER TO GOD THO. G0D BLESS =) [[ ♥ ]]

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ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!

WE REALLY CANT TELL YOU WH0 YOU SHOULD PICK.. BUT ii`LL GIVE YOU MY 0PINION. I THINK YOU SH0ULD GIVE MATT A CHANCE. I HONESTLY D0NT THINK DATING YOUR BEST GUY FRIEND IS A GOOD IDEA. ii MEAN IF YOU BREAK UP THEN THINGS WILL DEFENETLLY BE WEIRD BETWEEN Y0U! GET T0 KNOW MATT MORE. YOU DONT HAVE TO TAKE MY ADVICE IF YOU DONT WANT BUT ITS YOUR LIFE AND ITS UP TO YOU! HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE! =) [[ ♥ ]]

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I was dating this guy for a couple of months, and everything was perfect. He was the first guy I could actually say I loved and cared about, and he loved me too. I was a freshman and he was a senior when we started dating. What's the problem you're wondering ... well he turned 18 and graduated at the end of May. His father is the real problem though. His father got a new job in another state, and moved a couple days after his 18th birthday and graduation.[he got to stay in his father's old house] This guy I was dating also stopped calling me [we talked every night!] the day his dad moved. His dad told him several times when we dating that he should be careful and it eventually got to where he told him to stop dating me because he thought we were having sex and doing things. We were never even close to having sex! Well its been almost a 1 1/2 months since we've talked. He never called to tell me he was breaking up with me, but I did find out that he told someone that his dad made him break up with me. I tryed contacting him several times for several weeks, but he never answered his phone or called me back. I need advice on what to do. Should I try to forget him and move on or what? It's driving me crazy not knowing anything. What do I do?

Thanks 15-Female

SINCE HE IS 18 YEARS 0LD HE SHOULD OF HAD THE BALLS T0 STAND UP T0 HIS FATHER. I MEAN HE IS OLD ENOUGH TO MAKE HIS 0WN DECISIONS. YOU DONT HAVE T0 GIVE UP AND F0RGET ABOUT HIM. Y0U SH0ULS KEEP TRYING T0 CONTACT HIM! MAYBE HE IS JUST REALLY CONFUSED AND HE D0ESNT KNOW WHAT TO DO. GIVE IT A LITTLE MORE TIME AND MAYBE HE WILL CALL YOU. IF HE HAS A SCREEN NAME OR AN E-MAIL ADDRESS YOU CAN TRY CONTACTING HIM THERE! KEEP CALLING! I MEAN IF YOU REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER THEN JUST TRY TO MAKE IT W0RK. CALL HIM A LITTLE LATER AND IF HE DOESNT PICK UP HIS PH0NE JUST LEAVE A MESSAGE! HE WILL TALK TO YOU BUT JUST D0NT WORRY TOO MUCH! [[ ♥ ]]

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Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya!

TRY READING G0 ASK ALICE! I THINK THATS A GOOD BO0K! =) [[ ♥ ]]

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Last year i went out with a girl that i loved so much and she broke up with me for another kid. Lately i find myself liking people but then not liking them when they like me back. i feel permanantly scarred from this girl who did this to me but i dont know how to get myself back on my feet. Any of you have some advice for me?

YOU HAVE TO GIVE THE OTHER GIRLS CHANCES! DUDE.. N0T EVERY GIRL WILL TREAT YOU THE SAME AS YOUR EX DID.. TRUST ME! YOU SEEM REALLY NICE AND CARING AND THAT GIRL IS INSANE F0R DUMPING YOU! YOU CANT JUST SIT THERE AND NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. I MEAN SERIOUSLY GIVE A GIRL A CHANCE. SHE WILL PROBABLLY CARE FOR YOU A LOT MORE THEN THE OTHER GIRL AND SHE WONT FAKE IT. YOUR HEART WILL GET BROKEN AT TIMES BUT THEN AGAIN YOU'LL BE FINE! YOU CANT JUST LET THAT GIRL RUIN EVERYTHING FOR YOU. THERE IS NICER GIRLS OUT THERE AND JUST TRY NOT TO BE SCARED. G00D LUCK!! [[ ♥ ]]

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