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why do people have anal sex? it looks and sounds really gross. it sounds painful. Am i right about this or is actally like as good as regular(vag.) sex? (link)
Because the anus is tighter it's more pleasurable for the guy. There are also a lot of nerves in the anus and after getting use to anal sex it can be pleasurable for both partners. Some people enjoy and others don't, it just depends on the person.

I actually have tried anal sex, my boyfriend really wanted to. The first time was excruciatingly painful. But we had went about it all wrong. I was in a positing where I was basically sitting on him and his penis went in too quickly and yeahhh. The second time was much better, it was in different position obviously. It still isn't something I like though, vaginal sex is much more sanitary and enjoyable compared to anal sex. That is my opinion though.


hey everyone, im not really new to advicenators, but i havent been on in a while. i made a new account, and im trying to upload a picture, but it says everytime that it is too big over 15k. does anyone know how to fix this. it would be a hugeeee help :] (link)
If you willing you can go to www.downloads.com and download a program called Irfanview. It resizes pictures.

You can also open the picture with paint and make it smaller by using this http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4p1ratk
and outlining the pic.
Then copy it to a new paint window and you can adjust it with the dots at the corners.



Does anyone know where I can find a comment box that looks like this:

http://i15.tinypic.com/4ykj49e.jpg

Thank you! (link)
Just right click on the picture go to properties then copy the location url go to my wackospace.com make a comment box and for the background paste the url. You can make a total custom one with that picture like you want.

Good Luck!


I have skinny legs,a normal tummy,and a normal butt,and a short short torso(long legs).but i always have trouble finding jeans for myself! what stores sell jeans that run small,low rised and tight? anyone? thanks so much =]! (link)
Hollister & American Eagle. I have like the same body type and I have the same problem finding jeans like that. I love Hollister and AE jeans they are all i wear now. Try those! If you don't like those then you can always try express.


Hope I helped.


15/f

i made a really good friend with this one girl, and i became friends with the rest of her group as well. well, everyone told me " dont hang out with her, shes such a bitch." and i didn't really have anyone else, like i sat at there lunch table and everything. so i was like, well oh well, they seem alright. well, the carnival was in our town this week, [well it just started yesterday] and sooo,, i was gonna go with the one who i became really good friends with. because 2 of the girls were at their lakehoues, another one was sick, and another one left, because her mom found out she went 500 dollars over her cell phone limit or something. soo, then me and my really good friend were gonna go, well im walking down towards where im suppose to meet her, and she calls saying "hey i cant go sorry" and i was like. okkk. so then i walk all the wayy backkk, [it was a very far walk] to where my parents were. well. they left. and then i tried calling them a million times. but then my phone went dead. so then i walk down to the carnival by myself. i finally found my parents, and i ended up spending the night there with my family. -__- well, in the middle of it though, i see my one good friend, who said she wasn't coming. and i'm like.."Hey i thought you werent coming here?" and shes like "ohh well, my mom didnt want me walking down to the carnival just the two of us. and so.. then i saw them, but will hang out tmrw." and she walks away.


So, now i dont know what do. should i stay friends with her? am i overreacting? i havent talked to her yet.. what should i say. (link)
It sounds like you need new friends. You aren't overreacting they are just trying to blow you off. You need to find some new friends that aren't like that you should stand up for yourself. I would tell her that you no longer want to be friends with any of them because they are just using you.

Good Luck!!!


Well my mom has notice the smell.
And asked me why it smelt like that.
And I thought iwas just from using a carboard tampax.
But sometimes it smells
And sometimes it doesnt.
Do you think she just doesnt relize that it could be something wrong.
She knows I am sexualy active.
And I dont always use a condom :[
Shoudl I ask her to take me to the doctor?
But I do hold my blatter alot.
Could that be it?
I have to go to the gyno, anyways.
Becuas eI am on birth contorl
Shoudl I have them chekc it out
OR with theyy be able to tell as soon as they do the chekc up?
My mom said it could just be my nutrition.
I really do need help on this.
Like i have nothing else wrong iwth me
It just smells
Butnothing else is wrong.
(link)
It depends if you are talking about your actual urine that smells bad then I would go to the doctor. If you are talking about your vagina then it could be your natural odor everyone vagina has a little sent. But none the less I would go to the doctor because it could be a yeast infection or something a lot worse. You could have a uti [urinary tract infection] if you don't get that cleared up it can turn into kidney failure. Regardless i would seek a physician just to be on the safe side.

Hope I Helped


Does any one know of any good stage/ring name ideas for a girl? Or any unique name? Thankss (link)
- Karinda Alurane
- Opal Jane
- Diamond Kane
- Anea Williams
- Amya Bailey
- Adrina Gras
- Sky Trinity


I have no idea...

hope i helped


It's weird.

Why is it when ever I pee it smells really bad?
I am a girl and I am 14.
i am sexualy active.
Does that have anything to do with it?
But when ever I pee it leaves a bad smell.
And when someone goes into the bathroom they can smell it
And they think I liek took a shit or something
Do you knwo what it could be?
Do I have a disease? (link)
It could be from taking certain medications if you have diabetes, vitamin B6 Supplements often make your urine smell. If you eat asparagus it makes your urine smell as well. There are a lot of causes but you could have a medical problem and may need to seek a physician because things like kidney stones, urinary tract infections, etc. can be dangerous and the cause of your problem.


there's this kid that i met over the summer. hes a friend of a friend's ex boyfriend. lol. anyway whenever we see each other he hugs me and tells me i look nice even if i look crappy. i want to get to know him better. the most we've ever talked was over myspace and the conversations are pretty much "hey whats up?" "nm you?" "nm just got back from work." "thats cool". im going to get his screen name tomarrow for aim but i dont know what i should say. i dont want to be to aggressive and play 20 questions.
---what are some good questions that are going to really tell me what kind of person he is? (link)
You could ask him what he looks for in a girl..
What he likes to do [hobbies etc..] ummm.. a lot of times the type of music guys like says a lot about them.


Good Luck


any pointers on how i should make a move on my boyfriend when we're alone at the movie theatre? (link)
Depends on what kind of move you mean... if you mean to kiss the grab his hand and look over at him.

If you mean like get freakkkyy in the theater then rub his leg and start making out with him.

Good Luck =]


what do girls like to see guys do. This may seem stupid, but im wondering what girls like to see and what gets them going. Also what qualities do girls like in guys. (link)
Complements all the way... girls like it when a guy tell her she is beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, etc. Girls like to be kissed and shown that they are wanted. Girls like guys who are honest and caring about her feelings. Someone who isn't boring or rush her to do things but at the same time not like shy or anything.


Hope that was the answer your looking for


my siblings and I have really gotten used to the stray kitten that is in front of our house.
my mom hates cats so she wants us to give it away
we rele dont want to give it away but we have to because once it gets rele cold it wont be able to live outside
wat is the best way to give away blinky (kitten's name)
to ensure that it is in a good home where it wont be abandoned again
by the way the kitten was abandoned in front of our house (link)
You could ask around. Ask your friends, close relatives etc. if they are interested in a kitten. If not you could always take it to a no kill shelter and chances are it will get adopted.

Hope I helped.


can someone explain to me how to french braid your own hair? (link)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=q6M7WzzYPWI


Hi. I am 21 years old and had my period once when I was 17 years old. can I get pegant? how do I know if I am ovulating?? and can I carry a baby (link)
If youve only had one period ever, and havent had one in 4 years, you should deffinately go see a doctor. Irregular periods are common, but this is past the point of irregularity.


hey. well, school will be starting in a few weeks, and i'm kinda scared. i'm scared about my classes, the work, and people. first, my classes. i got my school inrolment packet and can't figure out my classes at all! they have them all screwed up because it looks like they are just in random order of semesters. my middle school class schedule was easy. but now i have more classes on my schedule. and i'm scared about not knowing where my where my classes are. and on my middle school schedule it told my locker number and comonation. but it doesn't tell that on the high school one. next, i'm scared about the homework. i've never really been to great at school. i mean, i get a's and b's, but i just find it really hard. and i know that the work in high school will be much harder, and i'll have more of it. and i'm sooo scared of failing. what if i don't undestand it, or don't get it in on time? i can't fail, i just can't. and then people. i hate having so many older kids in one school. and i don't want them to make fun of me. i try not to care what people think of me, but somehow i can never overcome it. and i don't want rumors or anything to be made about me. but probably out of all of those, the thing i'm scared most about is eaither finding my classes and knowing where to go, or the homework. can anyone give me tips on what i can do to overcome some of these things??? i would like advice out of all of these pleaseeee. thank you so much! (link)
As for your schesdule, talk to your teacher about it either before school starts or on the first day. I'm sure she could help you out. The homework isn't that hard, at least, it wasn't for me. I guess it depends on if your in honors classes or not. I'm sure if you keep a good time schedule things will work out though. About the older kids..everybody's in school for the same thing, to learn. Just don't bother them or be an annoying freshman and I'm sure that they won't be a big deal. Although, it might take some getting used to but just imagine it as if you a fifth grader and the seniors are eighth graders, it's the same type of thing. Finding your classes is pretty easy once you know the school. Maybe some of your friends have the same classes and you can find them together, or maybe you can go a little early and explore. My school is pretty small, and the way i find my classes is because the top floor is all the 2-- rooms, middle floor is all the 1-- rooms, and bottom are 1- rooms, maybe yours would have a pattern to it too.

Just a Tip: STAY OUT OF DRAMA. That way there won't be any rumors and the older kids won't be annoyed with you.

Hope I Helped


okay im a 16/f and im going to hangout with my bf today at the park. and i want to know how do you straddle a guy? (link)
http://www.teendrama.com/dens/journal/2001/thanksg/images/straddle_mikef.jpg

like that =]

http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi115.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fn288%2Fangelina_32%2F046005.jpg&searchTerm=straddle&pageOffset=17


or just go here for tonss
http://photobucket.com/images/straddle/


are people apt to date within the same ethnicity or not and why? (link)
It always depends on the person who they want to date. Some people rather stay within their own ethnicity and not outside of it. In the past, people use to do that. However, now it's less common. No people date anyone who attract them, not due to their ehtnicity.
I'm Chinese and I haven't found any asians that I'm attracted. People date who they want and that's it. It's simple. Sometimes people only want to date and maybe get married + have children with their own ehtnicity because they want there baby 'pure' if you know what I mean. To me, I don't mind if I have a child half chinese and half whatever. Some people don't want to date the same ethnicty people they could be racist. Anyways, to answer your questino is YES. I hope I answered why previously.


i'm going school clothe shopping soon and i was wondering what styles were "in" if someone could give me some pointers...(link/pictures would be awsome) thanx
(link)
hey

babydoll tube tops are really in.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_347592_-1_12646_12635

plaid shorts are in.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_326988_-1_12645_12635

really long shirts are in.
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10101_10851_354669_-1_12156_12102

basic / printed tanks are in.
http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1000&size=&style=38174667&color=726&token=

"anchor" clothes are in.
http://hideyourarms.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/08/anchor_ls_navy_2.jpg




im a vegetarian (the only one in my family) so i need some help here.
can anybody give me some really good tofu recipes?
thanks =] (link)
you can do anything with tofu that you can do with other meats. it wont tase the same obviosely, but its an alternative. and with silicen tofu (the softer tofu) you can make caramel sauces, smoothies etc. like using it as a thickener in deserts or sauces.


why do people have anal sex? it looks and sounds really gross. it sounds painful. Am i right about this or is actally like as good as regular(vag.) sex? (link)
hey

well, for one, it's much more pleasurable for the guy cause it's tighter around his penis, making him more aroused. i personally [i've never done it obviously] would not like it, but some females are more aroused when it's anal sex. i don't know know why.

most couples think that regular vaginal sex is more pleasurable.. and obviously much much more sanitary.





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