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hmm what to say?
there's this kid that i met over the summer. hes a friend of a friend's ex boyfriend. lol. anyway whenever we see each other he hugs me and tells me i look nice even if i look crappy. i want to get to know him better. the most we've ever talked was over myspace and the conversations are pretty much "hey whats up?" "nm you?" "nm just got back from work." "thats cool". im going to get his screen name tomarrow for aim but i dont know what i should say. i dont want to be to aggressive and play 20 questions.
---what are some good questions that are going to really tell me what kind of person he is?
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i just met a guy and we do know each other in person but we talk on the internet too (myspace and AIM).
we have a ton in common and we found that out by talking about music and sports and things like that.
it was kinda of dumb, but we messed around with taking turns asking questions ( i know you said you dont wanna play 20 questions ) but we talked about what i like in guys and what he liked in girls. so we didnt ask many questions, we just kinda started to talk about that. and i found out he likes me and that i like him. so anything simple can lead into a conversation.
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well if this kid is doing the things you say he is, he obviously wants to get to know you too, so its not as awkward for you.
you dont need to ask questions on aim, thats not really a good idea. you talk about things with him. like you say hey whatsup then the usual blah happens, then you can say wowww we need to hang out soon, i wanna see you. and if he says the same then you make plans.
thats when you get to know him. in person, not over aim or myspace. you do not want a cyber relationship with him, trust me i tried that, it does not work at allll. ask questions in person, when he starts getting flirty, ask him obvious questions like so hows your love life these days, then that shows him your liking him.
hope that helps you out :]
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You could ask him what he looks for in a girl..
What he likes to do [hobbies etc..] ummm.. a lot of times the type of music guys like says a lot about them.
Good Luck <333
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the trick is there never really is questions
just talk to him as a friend and guys admire that
so he will talk to you as a friend and go from there
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