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should i trust her?
15/f
i made a really good friend with this one girl, and i became friends with the rest of her group as well. well, everyone told me " dont hang out with her, shes such a bitch." and i didn't really have anyone else, like i sat at there lunch table and everything. so i was like, well oh well, they seem alright. well, the carnival was in our town this week, [well it just started yesterday] and sooo,, i was gonna go with the one who i became really good friends with. because 2 of the girls were at their lakehoues, another one was sick, and another one left, because her mom found out she went 500 dollars over her cell phone limit or something. soo, then me and my really good friend were gonna go, well im walking down towards where im suppose to meet her, and she calls saying "hey i cant go sorry" and i was like. okkk. so then i walk all the wayy backkk, [it was a very far walk] to where my parents were. well. they left. and then i tried calling them a million times. but then my phone went dead. so then i walk down to the carnival by myself. i finally found my parents, and i ended up spending the night there with my family. -__- well, in the middle of it though, i see my one good friend, who said she wasn't coming. and i'm like.."Hey i thought you werent coming here?" and shes like "ohh well, my mom didnt want me walking down to the carnival just the two of us. and so.. then i saw them, but will hang out tmrw." and she walks away.
So, now i dont know what do. should i stay friends with her? am i overreacting? i havent talked to her yet.. what should i say.
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I think it's important that you you treat this girl fairly. You can't judge others by what they say about her, you need to find out for yourself.
What ended up happening in regards to the carnival definitely seems suspicious. I'm not really sure what you should do about it because even if you confront her, she could very well lie to you about the whole thing, and it is very likey she will if she lied to about it already.
My advice to you is to just wait and see what happens. I wouldn't exactly trust this girl with any secrets you may not want shared, but I do think it would be a little drastic to cut her out of your life completely because of one event. I would put this even into your long term memory and if anything should arise like this again, you'll know what you're dealing with. Until then, I would just be courteous but careful.
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It sounds like you need new friends. You aren't overreacting they are just trying to blow you off. You need to find some new friends that aren't like that you should stand up for yourself. I would tell her that you no longer want to be friends with any of them because they are just using you.
Good Luck!!!
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