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Website: My SiTe
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Location: i am albanian nationaly (somewhat greek)but now i live in florida!
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Age: 18
AIM: eftiola5050
MSN: capkenja_1@hotmail.com
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a guy friend says u look sexy or u look cute, or good in a particular outfit does that mean he likes u?? (link)
it might...but remember that there are lots of guys that just like to flirt...or just tells u that b/c thats wut he thinks in da moment....just b/c he says u look good once or twice doesnt relly mean that he likes you...u've to see the way he acts around you 2 ;) ....but it might u never know...u just have to see wussuh...like how he acts when he round u...wut he does...bla bla ;) u know how they do ;)) xoxo


hey.. well ive been hangin out wit this guy for a while now.. n like one time he kissed me, like a peck on my lips, n then he did it again n then he slipped some tongue.. he was the first guy ive kissed.. n well hes experienced, i dont kno how to makeout!..lol... like ive tried going along with him and its jus wierd.. haha we were goin at it for like 5 seconds n then i found myself sucking his tongue as if it were a noodle..lol...n thenanother time he kissed me we tried to kis again.. buh it was jus really wet. n we didnt do it anymore after that..lol.. im so embarressed cuz idunno how to kiss n he wants to make out buh im jus really bad..so umm how do you actually makeout?..how do you have your lips against theirs n everything?!!.. (link)
hey, well listen to b good at makin out n stuff...def. needs experience but each person has their way...u kno by kissin lot of ppl u learn new ways...n u can use them while makin out wit a guy n w/e but it doesnt rellly have a specific way...it just comes aoutomatically...so i bet da guy liked it when he was makin out wit u...thats y he wants to make out wit u more n more ;) so dont worry bout it...let it go wit da flow ;) hope i helped...if anything else holla ;) xoxo effy


ok im just curious...if your pregnant...will you bleed at all? and if so how long after do you bleed? (link)
hey, well if ur pregnant...u dont bleed...u dont get ur periods...till u actually get the baby out...well if ur pregnant n u bleed ...then u lose dat baby u gonna have...xoxo effy


ok i have a ?...when do u have ur period can u have sex? and if you do will blood be all over the place?? (link)
hmmm i wouldnt recomend that....n yes if u do blood will b all over da place ( i think)xoxo effy


ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want?? (link)
hi, well i think u should def. talk to her n tell her how u feel...tell her that you care bout her brother so much..that all u think bout its him n everything...so tell her to understand you n put her self in ur position for a while....so she can understand you better..if she doesnt she is not such a "good friend" xoxo effy


Okay.im 13,im 5'5 and I weigh 120 lbs...i have a nice tummy and everything and i have good arm muscles.but my legs just don't work.When I wear a bikini,if i put my legs close together,at teh top they touch!and it looks kinda wierd.What are some leg work outs i can do?Please answer..thanks.bye (link)
no thats perfect!!!!u can run....(to fix up da legs) or go to the gym n there are special machines for da legs..use them or u can go riding bikes ;) xoxo effy


my little sister i always a pain. everday i would say hi to her and she would just give me a nasty look and go to her room. i am nice to her most of the time. we get a long once in a while, but rarely...ahh what do i do to win her over? (link)
hi, hmmmm well i would say dat one time that u get along wit her...talk to her n tell her how u feel..tell her that it hurts u when she act da way she does...i'm sure she'll understand...if she doesnt then treat her the same way...may b she will change then...n if not then i'm sorry! xoxo effy


i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people? (link)
a job will help..depending on wut u do :) xoxo effy


i'm 17 and never kissed anyone, how pathetic is that? the thing is, it's not like i'm ugly or anything because i know many people who have liked me or would've kissed me, but i don't want to make things weird between my guy friends by doing anything with them and the other guys who have liked me are not exactly top rate...another thing is that i never even tell people who i like cuz i don't want to be embarrassed...i don't know what i'm waiting for - someone who i feel comfortable with?? the perfect person who doesn't exist? i'm not the kind of person who would do things just to make myself appear cooler but as i get older it just gets more embarrassing to say i've never kissed anyone (link)
hmm...well may b you're tryin to find dat perfect guy outhere...n give dat special kiss...you kno sometimes just dont look to high...just give a guy a chance n dont think bout to much wuts gonna happend next...*live like there's no tomorrow* u never kno wut happens....give a guy a chance...u might b suprised :) xoxo effy


A Soldiers Tears



I was scared stiff
For i knew that this pain wouldn't ever lift
I took one last look at my baby
Hoping one day maybe i would see her again
I looked around
I saw 20,000 frowns
But we all knew
As the wind blew
Today wont go by fast
It wont be a thing of the past
It will stay in our minds forever
Please someone just pull the lever
He gave us the go
And we all began to flow
I felt a tear
Symbolizing my fear
I knew it was the end
Good bye my dear friend
We began to march
And we formed our arch
We placed them on our shoulder
The wind made it colder
The leader yelled."FIRE!"
And we raised them higher
I looked at the guy across me
And i wondered why
Why did we have to shed each others blood
And sink into this warm flood
I wanted to just be their friend
This all has to end
But this country is full of hate
Each and every state
So I pulled up my gun
And i fired one
It hit him in the leg
Then he fell to his knees and started to beg
"Please Lord",he said!Just let there be peace
Im sick of the fights!
We should all have the same rights!
The Lord said yes i know theres to much hate
But you make your own fate
All the guns began to burst
It hit me first
I looked down and i was about to drown
Everywhere blood
Making a little flood
Men everywhere fell
It looked like Hell
OH GOD PLEASE HELP US NOW!
Bloody terrified yells
From all the brave males
I knew i was about dead
I would now go to my dark bed
I would never see my family again
My last memories were of these brave men
I began to fell numb
This world is so dumb
How would this make anything better
It would just make peoples faces wetter
This isnt a solution
Its a deady pollution
But as i lie
About to die..
I take my last deep sigh...
And i wondered.....
Why?
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dats a very nice poem...keep it up :0


most days i am all home alone by myself bcuz my mom and dad are at work...what are somethings i can do so that im not so bored? (link)
talk on da phone, go online, chill wit friends, go to the mall, go to the pool....n so on...listen to music...u can dance ;) n stuff so hope i helped :)xoxo effy


Hi, I'm 14 years old. And I weigh around 115 pounds. I don't exactly have a flat stomach but I'm not fat at the same time. I'm 5'2 and I think that I should loose some weight. I've been trying not to eat so much (I don't anyway) But I get light headed when I don't eat. What I'm asking is, is 115 pounds for a 5'2" 14 year old too much to weigh? I also don't feel good about myself because I don't have a flat stomach. Is there anyway I can get a flat stomach? I used to have one when I danced and did gymnastics, but I've quit those so I don't do any excersie anymore and It's hard to keep in shape that way. Also my parent's don't own any excersie equitment and I don't go to the gym. Thanks..*Love Annoyomous* (link)
gurllllll u aint no fat....ur normal n healthy gurl for ur age...ur perfect...wut u are its prolly thick...in meaning that u dont have small bone structure ;) but dat dont mean ur fat ur perfect...if u wanna get ur stomache flat just do some crunches :) dats it :-D oxox effy


what r some good products to remove makeup? say how much urs cost n where u got it plz! ill rate u!! also, how do u use ur products to actually get the make up off?? i need help to get my eyeliner off (both top and BOTTOM LASHES!!) i dont want my mom to think i look slutty, cuz she says ppl do when they were eyeliner, and sumtimes when i try to get the eyeliner/mascara off, itll take out sum of my eyelashes! i hate it cuz theyre my best feature n i dont want that happenning!! so plz help! (link)
hi,well i get this make up remover at walmart...doesnt coast much...its like 6$ at da most...n its called STRIDEX! ;) xoxo effy


what is the normal/ideal weight for a girl that is 5'8 and is 14 years old? (link)
130-145lb i would say...xoxo effy


i have a rating 4 and above how come im not a moderater? ive looked at the moderator faq thing and it doesnt say. (link)
have to b a member for at least one month...n have to b rated 5 or more times...n have to have the ratin persentage 4 n above...hmmm i think i'mma moderater n i have no idea...wut to do :-/ but oh well :) xoxo effy hope i helped ya


well my BEST friends parents are soo like protective and we cant do ne thing ts soo annoying how can we get them to loosen up? (link)
ay ay ay...if her parents are like mine...there is nothing u can do to loosen them up...trust me...but if they are hmmm a lil better then mine then u can hang out over her house...n convice her parents that they could trust their doughter wit u...by the way u act n stuff :) xoxo effy


hey how do you rate somebody?! (link)
well if ur someone who gives advice n u asked a question go clik in ur question...n view wut ppl wrote u ...n then there are numbers from 1-5 n u rate them....based on wut u think...if u think the answer is good give them five...if u think its ok give them 3 or 4 if u think its bad then give them2-1 ;) i dunno something like dat ;) xoxo effy n if u ask anyone in particular...go on their colum...go on ur question...click view...n u can rate :) xoxo effy


I'm having some troubles getting guys to come up to me and start a conversation. How do I get them to start talking to me more?

Signed,
Guy Troubles (link)
hi....well u need to dress up more sexy...put some make up..fix ur hair like everyday :) give dat perfect look out more often ;) xoxo effy


would it be bad to be a pimp for halloween??? (link)
no...afterall its just halloween :) xoxo effy


Damn girl i have this problem... c i was fine and then i somehow came accross one of ur pics and ever since then everygirl i see cannot even come close to what u look like and i heard that uz a nice person to talk to too plus u b helpin all thesse people and shit so u must b... mah question is how can i eva eva come even a lil close to gettin a girl as beautiful as u and as smart and as nice as u??? I mean dont get me wrong im ready to go to the end of the earth and back ;) but i dont think that would cut it so plz help me cause i think someone like u is what i need in ma life and what everyman needs too!!!
And dont get me wrong i aint no stalker its just that u too good to resist and that comes from da bottom of ma heart.
holla back (link)
hi,awww...wut u said its very sweet...thanks...i dunno wut to tell u..i'm spechless..but since i'mt taken n very much in love wit mah baby....hmmmmm there are planty of nice gurls n good lookin ones out there...trust me...if u wait...she will come to u...just give it sometime...when u least expect it ...it will b there ;) xoxo effy i hope i helped u...thanks again xoxo
if u need anything holla ;)




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