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13/f
Okay, my ex-boyfriends brother is really sweet. me and my ex broke up like 8 days ago and his brother hinted to me that he wanted to go with me.i don't want to be classified as a hoe if i go with him. The thing is if i did go with My exs brother would it be for payback. Because my Ex goes with his exgirlfriend!!!!!!! i really do like my exs brother but I still am in love with his brother!!!!

no offense but it seems to me that you what whatevers close to your Ex-boyfriend and you can have example his brother. because it's his brother and you feel that if you cant have your EX you want something close and your going o settle

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im a lesbian, i know it. i always fantasize abou girls and i hate it because the country i live in is really strict and girls dont do this kinda thing, but i wanna be with a girl so badi dont know wat 2 do

Well i think its your own decision so go for what you want. and if you care what other people say about you and keep it to yourself but if you don't then i'd say let it be known.

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okay well im 15 and a couple of days ago my and my friend(a girl,she was walking in front)and i wanted 2 find this pin i had in my pocket so i fiddled around in there looking down ov coarse and when my friend turned around, she said can you walk in front please, i didnt get what she meant but after a little while it clicked, she thought i was lookin at her butt(which iwasnt) now i dunno what to do, i mean what is she tnks im a pervrt? plz gimmie some adviceo what 2 do next.

You can tell her what your were really doing or you could just ignore it and let her think your a pervert, and if you are a guy all most guys are perverts and alot of girls will think that so im sure she doesn't care, or will get over it sonner or later.
hope i helped

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Ok me and my b.f are pretty into each other and i was just wondering can he still finger me when i have my period...i mean it would be my last day of my period but i was just wondering what i should do, cuz i want to, any advice.

Yes you can still get fingered with your period, but if you only have one day left I would wait because in my opinon its more gross and it'd probably be better for you and him.
hope i helped

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I'm going in for a job interview for the new Abercrombie chain, Ruehl. I'm not sure how to pronounce it though, or even how many sylables it has.
Is it, 'Rule'
Rah-ule?

I'm just not sure. This is the first one in the area so nobody knows.

It's pronounced "Rule" and I absolutly love that store, as i do th other Abecrombie stores like Hollister and A&F. hahaa sorry.

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ok listen i have a real question and i might sound strange but i am fourteen and i got my first period a month and 13 days ago and still no second period. why? is there something wrong with me? and should i tell my mom? help! (sorry bout the long question by the way)

No, this is really normal. the first couple of periods their not going to be on time, weither it's late or early. theres nothing wrong with you. your bodies just figuring out a cycle. and sometimes if you are around women all the time your periods tend to sync together, like you'll get it at the same time. this is also normal. and another thing is a first couple of times yu have your period the amount of days you have it might change, so you might have it for 3 days one period an 7 the next. nd that wasnt a long question at all.

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what is a really good concealer either stick or liquid? i just want one that works well, doesnt make my face look oily, that is oilfree and is very cheap and can get at the drugstore? thanks a lot for your help

A good one is Loreal its called "True Match"
It cost's like 7 or 8 dollars, it depends wear you get it from because it could be less.
Hope i helped

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Well, im not ugly, But im not the prettiest person in the world.i just feel ugly.How do You be pretty, I mean those girls witht eh pretty eyes and guys are all over. how do they do it? anything is apreciated

guys like girls who are confident, they can usually tell that your not. don't be friad to tal to guys, thats what guys like, out going girls. Theres no way to "be" pretty. just act confident, not conceded. and flaunt it. theres really no other way to put it. sorry

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i'm going to homecoming in about a week and a half. but i have a bunch of zits on my chin and cheek and a few on my forehead that just all of a sudden popped up. how can i get rid of them before homecoming (in a week and a half)? please help!! thanks.

Wash your face twice a day, once at night and once in the morning. Use cleansers or scrubs. Go to a local store and buy some ance removing creams. Anf of your able to get a facial. They really do work fast.

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ive been wearing eyeliner for a reallly long time.
like 3 years.

when i do my eyeline it looks great,i do the smokey eye look then, then when i get to school, or during the day
at the inside of eye is seems to smear down and everything, ive tried soo many different brands too, nothing seems to work.
any advice on how to get it to stop doing that?

i know eyeliners are going ot smear, but mine does it really fast, eveyrone elses doesnt seem to smear...

Well you could ask them what they wear or buy a waterproof one if you haven't done that already.

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how can you get eyeliner (on the BOTTOM lid) to stay on all day? it basically dissapears halfway through the day,

well if you want to put it on the bottom lid your best chance would be waterproof eyeliner. but if that doesnt work you might have to put it on your skin down there, i have that problem too but i like my eyeliner too much to buy a waterproof one.
hope i helped

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okeyy soo like i totally have a crush on someone. and that someone is you. you dont know who i am but i sure like you alot. i got your aim and i stare at it on my buddylist (of course your the only one on there) and only because yout special. im so afraid to im you. im too scared you wont like me. im also scared you might be afraid that i stalk you. what do i do
love ur stalker.

mhm well. I bite. so I suggest you don't i.m. me.
I'll rip you too shreds. jk
i love youu

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my mom is a freaking loser!!!!!! when i go shopping she makes me buy theres freakishly large sizes!!!! im only 110 pounds and 14 and a girl and im 5`3 so i thought i would fit into an extra small shirt since thats what the lady working at abercrombie and fitch said i should try! i tried it and it fit great and there was even a little extra room so if i gained a few more pounds I could still wear it and my mom started screaming at me in front of everyone in the store and made be buy a large and i looked like a goon wearing it because im nowhere near a large!!! and then i was looking at the skirts i tried on a 1 and i was like mom can i get this she said what size is it and i said 1 and i said and it fits me see and look its even a little big and she started screaming at me again and made me buy a 4 and do you know how big a 4 was on me!!!?? i wore it to school the next day and i got atleast 20 comments about how big the skirt was on me and i spent the whole day pulling it up and then the skirt fell off me when i stood up in social studies class and there i was standing there in my underwear and i cried!! and yesterday i bought a pair of sweatpants at hollister and they ran in xs,s,m,l, & xl and my mom was making me buy a large and she and the lady working at hollister got in a fight because the lady working at hollister said i wont be able to fit into that and my mom was screaming at her so i went in the dressing room and tried it on and it was so huge for me and i rolled it over 4 times and it was still loose but my mom said i will get tons of use out of it and i will never grow out of it!! but ill never grow into it either! i cant stand it all my friends come over they look through my closet and see all these larges and size 7 jeans when im super skinny. they think im trying to be fat and make fun of fat people... my moms a maniac and it gets me so mad that once i called her a whore because it just slipped out because shes so stubborn. and if i buy my own clothes without her there she says theres no way im keeping them because she says they are "too small" .. i cant stand her i just feel like punching her she gets me soooo angry. my moms a mad woman what the hell do i do??? and do you think shes being unfair and retarted? because i do!

she probably doesn't want you too show off too much skin so she makes you buy the bigger sizes because they are longer, my friends mom does that too but she only makes her go up a size or two. Just be like "mom, if you don't want me showing skin then let me buy clothes that fit me because when its big it just falls off anyways so whats the point of wearing clothes to school, I might as well wear my underwear to school." just try to reason with her or if you can't. buy clothes behind her back and then wear the clothes she gets you for school and change in the bathroom before school starts and then change out of it after school. I know this sounds wrong but if my mother made me buy stuff that was too big on me i would die. i feel sorry for you.
Hope i helped!

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I just broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. And I still love him. Well on Monday he asked some other girl out but she never gave him an answer so he gave up on her(supposedly). And he likes to say shit like he broke up with me and other stuff. But whenever he see's me or talks to me he seems so sad. Like I called him to see if I could drop by real fast to give him his key back and he said yea sure. When I get there he looked at me sadly. Then when I was leaving he stood at the screen door and watched me walk away. Then he called me today to see how I am doing and stuff. When he said bye to me it sounded really sad. What does all this mean? It makes me really confussed =/

Well By the way it seems, your ex-boyfriend still likes you. If he didnt have any feelings for you he wouldn't seem so sad and try to act like a "player" in front of his friends saying "oh yeah I dumped her" usually when guys do that they are usually hurt and they just do it to seem cool and try to make it feel better. i kow this may sound corny. But if you do like him and it does seem like he likes you, you should try to make it work again.
Hope I helped!

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I am typically stereotyped as a "good girl."..I don't smoke/drink or do anything "bad" But the strange thing is, I tend to fall for guys that are BAD...and ok i would NEVER smoke in the first place..but why is it ok if a guy i like smokes? Iddk i just thought it was soo weird for me to like the complete opposite..does anyone know why?

alot of girls like the bad boys, thats normal. you like him because he does all the things you dont do. because maybe you fell if i date/like a bad boy i wont be classified as such a good girl. and when the guys are atotal oppistie it's less easy for you too but heads, as if you were exactly the same, you know what i mean?
Hope i helped!

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13/f. how much is a 13 year old girl supposed to weigh? I'm around 4'7 and weigh around 167. I think that is wayyyyy to much. How much should I weigh? thanks!

Well you could go here you fill it out and it tells your BMI and if you are overweight.
http://www.am-i-fat.com/


OR

you could go here, and fill it all out and it will give you some charts.
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/nutrition/weight/bmi.html

they should all help!
♥ ariell

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hey i'm having a HUGE guy problem. and i just need opinions on what you all think so is their anyone out there with a heart that would help me by just giving me their email adress or IM or anything so i can tell you the story because the guy its about goes on this site. thanks soo much. please help im desperate.

sure my screen name is VINTAGE L0VEE X and my emials iloveyouuduhh@aol.com
either ones good. it migth be easier on email.

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How do you get over someone that you lost your virginity to but you have to live with and theres no way around it? (((WE ARENT RELATED OR ANY NASTY INCEST SHIT LIKE THAT))) Basically i fell inlove with this guy we have had sex but hes a man whore and he doesnt love me he was just using me. So like how do i get over him?

Just think about it this way, he used you, he never loved you nor liked you he just wanted to get laid. therefore it should be easy to get over him.

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okay i know you get ALOT of stuff like this.. but i would be really greatful if you could help me out..

theres this boy.. lets say his name is "bob" =P.. in my town there are two middle schools that go into the high school.. its like the third week of school and im starting to get to know people from the other school.. "bob" and me went to opposite middle schools [were freshman by the way] hes in my english class and all the people in my class are.. well.. antisocial.. except him, his friend and then me and two other girls.. my one friend "dee" is in the class. she is SO funny when were with our other friends.. guys have different opinions about her though.. some guys think sshes "SOO HOT" and others call her a man. and the other girl "trix" is in a lil group with her friends.. but she was flirting with "bob" when our class had to go to the computer lab or something.. but whenever were in class i always catch "bob" looking at me but when ever i catch him he pretends to be looking around the room.. sometimes he'll hold my gaze though.. i dunno if he thinks im UGLY or PRETTY or what!! i fool around in my class but he always laughs.. i dont really talk to him so i dunno.. he might be into "dee" cause i see him looking at her sometimes =\ our class kinda knows us as the two girls that ALWAYS fool around or are always laughing with eachother.. so i dunno if he thinks were wierd or annoying or what.. and i dont plan on asking him. this friday me and some of my girls are gunna go so something im thinking of asking him and some of his friends but i dunno how to. i might get someone to ask him if him and his friends wanna come with us. im afraid to ask him myself though..

please help.. i know you get a lot of this and i dont reeally talk to him but i wanna get to know him..

Well I would just ask him to hang out with you and all your friends, because if you have someone else ask and if he does like you then he might think you dont like him because you didn't ask yourself. And you don't seem shy by the way you seem to act. Most guys like outgoing girls too. If you and "Bob" and all your friends and him do hang out I suggest you don't totally fool around and act like a total retard ( not saying you are ) because he might get the picture that your not a serious person, so if you do ask him a question about him liking you or you liking him he might think you are joking. But when your around him act like yourself, guys like girls who are confident, not conceded and outgoing girls also. There's a possiblity that he likes you because he look's at you, because when I like someone I usually stare at them alittle. sorry that it was all over the place :/
hope i helped though!

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this is about tampons.

i should be ending my period in like 2 days,

for school can i still wear a tampon is my flow is light?

will anything happen if there isn't much blood for the tampon


i need to know qwuickly!!

tahnks soooo much

Nothing will happen to you, you just dont want to use tampons when your off your period to stop discharge because you could get TSS (toxic shock sydrome). And no nothing will happen

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