I am typically stereotyped as a "good girl."..I don't smoke/drink or do anything "bad" But the strange thing is, I tend to fall for guys that are BAD...and ok i would NEVER smoke in the first place..but why is it ok if a guy i like smokes? Iddk i just thought it was soo weird for me to like the complete opposite..does anyone know why?
MelLeDisko answered Friday September 29 2006, 11:40 pm: Haha, ALOOOTTT of girls tend to go for the bad boy "secretly sensitive" type of guy. Because since most girls, especially the "good girl" types are SO good, that whenever we're hanging out with bad guys, it brings out the "bad" side in us I guess you would say and it's sort of thrill-seeking and adventurous and fun. And it's something new to experience and it's a person whose the complete opposite of you, which makes liking them even more interesting. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Friday September 29 2006, 11:30 pm: I think that's exactly the reason why- because he's so different. He's the complete opposite of you, and does things that you wouldn't dare do. So I think that attracts you to him. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
clouded_bluee answered Friday September 29 2006, 11:08 pm: alot of girls like the bad boys, thats normal. you like him because he does all the things you dont do. because maybe you fell if i date/like a bad boy i wont be classified as such a good girl. and when the guys are atotal oppistie it's less easy for you too but heads, as if you were exactly the same, you know what i mean?
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HoNeStMiStAkE16 answered Friday September 29 2006, 11:00 pm: I totally know why..i was in your position..see your the one who doesn't do nething bad..but lets face it..its boring never doing nething right? then you meet a guy whos like the life of the party and its fun hearing his stories and how he deals with life. Have you ever heard the sayin opposites attract? totally true..just remember "bad boys"=Bad..some bad boys are cute..but i got hurt real bad from one..so just be careful. Its not strange its normal. I hope i helped! [ HoNeStMiStAkE16's advice column | Ask HoNeStMiStAkE16 A Question ]
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