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He's My Friends Boyfriend and i know I shouldn't but...
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okay i have this friend were not too close but we are close and well here we go.
her boyfriend he has a crush on me i can tell bad and she can but she's let it go.
At first i told my self no because he's taken but now i'm starting to like him.
I just don't know what to do and i really need advice so please help!
thanks
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I always say,"chicks before dicks". Even though you guys aren't mondo close, you guys are close still, you said so yourself. Are you going to toss a friendship aside like that and hurt her feelings over one guy you're probably going to continue seeing on later in life?
Plus, if he's sitting there liking other girls and looking at the behind her back, he doesn't seem very honest to me and he doesn't seem that interested in being with one girl, which isn't fair to your friend, and wouldn't be fair to you if you dated him in the future. How would you feel if your boyfriend was sitting there, thinking about other girls and liking other girls behind your back? I doubt you'd like it very much, right?
Even though you might be starting to like him, I would just set your feelings aside, because it's only going to wind up in drama and hurt feelings in the end, and I don't think this guy is really worth going through all of that for.
I hope I helped.
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You don't actually like this guy. Your friend should come first. You just like the attention. Don't settle for the first guy that shows interest in you. Make sure he's worth it.
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That's a toughie! Well, there's no two ways around it; it's either your friend or the guy. If you pursue the guy, your friend is going to be mad, say you stole her boyfriend, and you don't care about her because you did that to her. If you choose the guy, then it's probably going to be extremely hard for you not to pursue him, if you like him that much and know that he likes you.
I can't help but, think that your friend is being a little too niave. If she knows that he likes you, then I don't think she should let it go. She should talk to him about it, even though he'll probably just deny it, then take it from there. If I found out my boyfriend, liked one of my friends. I would probably break up with him, but that's just me.
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Have you ever heard the saying...."chicks before dicks" its sooooo true. especailly during school. I mean a boy can last a day..but a best friend can last forever. i mean..how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and he liked her...and then she started liking him..itd suck right? i mean i totally understand where your coming from and i know it must suck to be in that position..but i would just wait and let what happen, happen and dont try to rush anything you know? if you were meant to be hed break up with her..and he will someday and then hun hes ALL YOURS =P hope i helped you out. goodluck hun!
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Just wait and see what happens. If that doesn't work, simply talk to her or you make him break up with her. Then you ask him if you aren't that close of friends.
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