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so theres this boy..
okay i know you get ALOT of stuff like this.. but i would be really greatful if you could help me out..
theres this boy.. lets say his name is "bob" =P.. in my town there are two middle schools that go into the high school.. its like the third week of school and im starting to get to know people from the other school.. "bob" and me went to opposite middle schools [were freshman by the way] hes in my english class and all the people in my class are.. well.. antisocial.. except him, his friend and then me and two other girls.. my one friend "dee" is in the class. she is SO funny when were with our other friends.. guys have different opinions about her though.. some guys think sshes "SOO HOT" and others call her a man. and the other girl "trix" is in a lil group with her friends.. but she was flirting with "bob" when our class had to go to the computer lab or something.. but whenever were in class i always catch "bob" looking at me but when ever i catch him he pretends to be looking around the room.. sometimes he'll hold my gaze though.. i dunno if he thinks im UGLY or PRETTY or what!! i fool around in my class but he always laughs.. i dont really talk to him so i dunno.. he might be into "dee" cause i see him looking at her sometimes =\ our class kinda knows us as the two girls that ALWAYS fool around or are always laughing with eachother.. so i dunno if he thinks were wierd or annoying or what.. and i dont plan on asking him. this friday me and some of my girls are gunna go so something im thinking of asking him and some of his friends but i dunno how to. i might get someone to ask him if him and his friends wanna come with us. im afraid to ask him myself though..
please help.. i know you get a lot of this and i dont reeally talk to him but i wanna get to know him..
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Well I would just ask him to hang out with you and all your friends, because if you have someone else ask and if he does like you then he might think you dont like him because you didn't ask yourself. And you don't seem shy by the way you seem to act. Most guys like outgoing girls too. If you and "Bob" and all your friends and him do hang out I suggest you don't totally fool around and act like a total retard ( not saying you are ) because he might get the picture that your not a serious person, so if you do ask him a question about him liking you or you liking him he might think you are joking. But when your around him act like yourself, guys like girls who are confident, not conceded and outgoing girls also. There's a possiblity that he likes you because he look's at you, because when I like someone I usually stare at them alittle. sorry that it was all over the place :/
hope i helped though!
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Ok, i was in the same situation your in right now.. so i think you should just ask "bob" to join you and your friends on friday in whatever your doing.. some guys like girls to not be shyt around them.. on the other hand they do.. so just take a chance and say "Hey "bob" me and my friends are oing to do something this friday, how about you and some of your friends join us..." well hope i helped.. let me know how it goes.. take care... nikki
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i think you should just be like "hey bob me and my friends are hanging out this friday. do you and some of your friends want to come?" This way he will see that your at least a little interested in him. Be brave and just do it, i mean why wouldn't he want to hang out? it's not like it's alone with you, it's with your friends and his friends. if he does hang out with you then just like pay special attention to you and see if he gives you the same attention baack.. you got to show him your interested.
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