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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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theres this one guy in my drama class that i used to like but then hes always talking or bothering me after or during class. how do i get him to stop? ignoring him doesn't seem to help...

Tell him to shut up.

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My bestfriend and I... dont really get along... we can't be around eachother for more then 10 minutes or we'll start fighting.. n i have 2 other bestfriends (all four of us are bestfriends lol) and they think it gets annoying but me and my friend are trying to work it out but we cant.. n i just wanna kno if u think this is a good friendship.. so tell me wat u think.. thanx a bunch!

Sorry Sweetie, but that doesn't even sound like a friendship too me.

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I went out with a guy for 3 months and we eventually told eachother we loved eachother and we both meant it. he dumped me and i have never gotten over it. Recently my friend told me that he is thinking about getting back together. Should we try again or just stay friends?

Sorry babe but if he loved you and he really meant it then he would not have dumped you. What you really need to do is to find out why he dumped you. If its not anything really bad then try the relationship again.

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hey...okay so i like this guy and eh likes me and were going to turnabout together this year...and im really into him and im getting kinda attached but hes changing schools next year...im a freshman by the way..i duno wht to do..how can i stop myself from liking him so i am not crushed when he changes schools?

That doesn't matter even when he does switch schools you can still go out. My boyfriend moved from Florida (where i live) to Virginia, and we are still going out.

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ok last night i cut myself in the leg. its not deep or anything just like scrathes and i did it with a really dull razor. i did it because i keep fighting with my friends and i can't help it. i had a dream about it that night and i can't stop thinking about it!! i definately don't want to do it again and i most probably won't. DON'T SAY "TALK TO A PSYCHIOTRIST, CAUSE I DON'T NEED TO!!" i just need to figure ot why i would do this and why i can't stop thinking about it, i mean like i know why. i just feel really screwed up in the head and shocked that i would do this. am i screwed???

My friend Christiana cuts and so do other people at my school. As long as you don't do it again you should be fine. But I would recommend that if you do it again or whether you do or not you talk to a school guidance counselour. They can help.

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Alright, I have noticed on some people's advice columns that where it normally says "[view]" and it is linked to see the question some of you have it saying other things such as "[xoxo]". How did you do this? It would be a great help. I'm trying to spiff up my column so I was hoping someone would know how to do that. Thanks ahead of time.

Well you have to have a paid account, but since I have an old account I am able to do this. You go to column settings and create/edit your own styles and scroll down untill you find the headings.

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How did you get your headings links to say different things from the regular? Thanks xo

Well you have to have a paid account, but since I have an old account I am able to do this. You go to column settings and create/edit your own styles and scroll down untill you find the headings.

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On the flap outside of my vagina, i have this bump, and its been there for about a month, im still a virgin and ive NEVER done anything like fingering or blowjob or that stuff. I do shave, do you think its just a razor burn? Or what do you think it is, and what are ways to get rid of this? Thankyou

It is just razor burn. Try using lotion that usually clears up razor burn. But FYI you'll want to use sensitive skin lotion.

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does anybody know if claire's or hot topic does belly button piercings? thx ahead of time!

No. They have the belly button rings but you have to go to a piercing parlour.

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OK here deal Me and Bestest best friend both like the same guy((im pretty much over him this is all about my bestest best friend)) BUT he doesnt like ethier one of us like that you kno he likes a lil slutty 6th grader((we are in 7th grade))now my bestest best friend lets call Katie so Katie has a real serious relationship with her current b/f((he got her a real diamond bracelet for chirstmas)) but she likes this guy alot more i really dont kno why but he juss has that chram i mean he is real sweet and stuff i juss dont kno what to do i mean bcuz im worried that Katie might ruin her relationship with her current b/f ((we are real open about this subject so i could talk to her about it))

Well she will most likely end up ruining her current relationship. Talk to her and tell her basicly what you said in the question.

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last time i checked my column was yesterday. i had 40 rates and it was at 4.58.. today i looked at it, i had 38 rates at 4.55.. what's wrong with my stupid column?

Nothing is wrong with it. Two of the questions that had been rated were deleted so their count on how many times you had been rated were removed. As far as your rating, someone must have rated you a 1-2-3-4.

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On my bus the older kids are mean to my best friend. They always steal her stuff. Like yesterday she had a gameboy with her and was playing sims and this kid stole it and wouldn't give it back until she gave him gum. She had to jump some seats to get it back. Then today she wouldn't give him gum again so he started stabbing her with a needle. He treatened to stab me with it if I didn't move so he could get inm our seat. They my best friend threw the gum out the window and he and his friends started cursing her off and trying to cut her with it. I want to find a way to help but I don't know how. What should I do?

What you need to do is tell the bus driver. If that doesn't help tell your school principal. Our school sheriff said that when someone picks on a person like that they can be punished, expelled, suspened, if its bad enough they can get arrested. Also some people who get bullied, some not all, tend to commit suicide.

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I cried this morning, and I never cry. I haven`t cried in months so this was somewhat of a big deal and I almost killed myself but my friend calmed me down. I cut myself, I did it not because I wanted to hurt myself or was upset for any good reason just because I could, it's dumb I know. My mother hates me, like seriously unconditionally hates me and tries to ruin my life by thinking anything that makes me a bit happy is stupid or along the lines of stupidity. I can`t talk to her that`ll just make things worse, and I don`t want to bring my dad into this because he tells her everything. Why can`t my life be better?! What did I do?! xxOo

Well my friend Christiana is going through hell also. She cut herself and me and her best friend got mad at her and were crying. My life in a way right now is hell. My boyfriend moved away and yes I have been crying. But really in time it will get better. Maybe not right away. Maybe not soon enough. But in time, it will. Just anytime your Mom says somethings stupid say some stuff that she likes is stupid too. I hope life gets better for you.

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okay so my 2 ex best friends are comming to my house...and 2 of my other best friends house's to T.P. us BADLY!!! i know this for a fact because ive got resources...ANYWAYS...me and my 2 friends who are supposedly getting t.p.ed too are gonna call the cops on them...they have put us through so much crap the past few weeks so this is just our lil pay back!! do you think its to much? if you think that maybe it IS beecause i might want them to be friends with me again one day...trust me thats NOT gonna happen!!
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It's illegal to TP someones house. So yeah I would call the cops.

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I am going to a competion tomarrow i am so scard what do i do to calm my self?

Try meditating. It always works to calm my nerves.

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I have problems with my nose. I always pick it and people make fun of me ! BUT SOMEHOW I ALWAYS HAVE AN URGE TO PICK IT! kinda like my wedgies ;-) any ways can you PLEASE tell me how to get over this urge!
thanks
nosepicker.

When you have an urge to pick it just scratch it or rub it. If you don't have TOO many urges ask if you can use the restroom and pick it in the bathroom stall.

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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?

I would have the baby. You don't nescesarily have to keep it you could put it up for adoption if you would want to. Be like to your boyfriend, "I have made the biggest mistake of my life and I really am sorry I love you and I hope that you aren't mad but I can understand if you are." Something along those lines. I wish you luck in whatever comes.

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where did ur bf move to?

Spotsylvania, Virginia.

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why did u take your pic of you and jordan off? its really really when ppl have a pic on their column. if not that pic it would be kool to have atleast a pic of urself

Someone decided to be rude and call us retarded. If you think that I should put it back up I will.

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Hi its everybodiiez_fool im a columnist too...sry i haven't been updating in the past few days ive just been so caught up in a bunch of shit thats driven my CraZy =(. Me and my boyfriend have been havin some issues. I don't know if he still likes me like he used to becuz he's been acting shady lately and barely calls me. I did something to make him mad on new years eve and i dunno if he's gotten over it even though he said he has. I love him SO much he's my everything and i don't wanna lose him. Can someone just please IM me on AIM or yahoo or msn or w/e and comfort me? =(...my AIM is oOpassion kissez and my yahoo is lushiz_lipsxo my msn is sweetchic77@msn.com...thanks =(.

Ask him again and if he says he has then be like well you seem like you haven't. And when he doesn't call you call him.

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