theres this one guy in my drama class that i used to like but then hes always talking or bothering me after or during class. how do i get him to stop? ignoring him doesn't seem to help...
queenbianca2004 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 1:38 pm: Well mabye he likes you too. You need to try and talk to him and see what is going on...
hope I helped
Bianca
br0ken_x_smile answered Saturday January 8 2005, 12:33 pm: stand up to him a nd be like fu%^ off and like push him or something and then im sure hell leave you alone =] make sure that this guy wont tell on you if you do it... nd try to do it in a kiddig kinda waty ! i do it all the time and i get away with it... heheeheheh [ br0ken_x_smile's advice column | Ask br0ken_x_smile A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:43 am: Tell him to shut up.
hottdancer134 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:12 am: Well... that's very interesting...well depending on how he's bothering you, you could verbaly tell him that your fed up w/ him annoying you. But whatever you do don't let him know that it's bothering you cause that just makes things so0o0o0 much worse!
Karen answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:12 am: The only thing you can do is to just talk to him and tell him that he annoys and bothers you when he talks to you. I think he might like you because that's how some guys show their feelings but I'm not sure. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
NikNik answered Saturday January 8 2005, 5:03 am: Just tell him in a very nice way to leave you alone and that you feel like hes bothering you and you want your space and for him just to leave you alone because its bugging you and getting on your nerves, hope this helps!!-Nikki
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Shelbyjune answered Saturday January 8 2005, 3:48 am: I read one advice. Don't just tell him to leave you alone. It might hurt his feelings. Often his talking or bothering you is because he likes you and can't find a way to let you know. Do you really not like him at all? Or are you just uncomfortable around him because he is acting really weird now? And yes, ignoring him will only make it worse.
You might try reacting to him in a very level-headed, almost expressionless way. For example, if he makes a joke and you find it ALMOST funny, smile and say "Not bad" or something noncommittal (that doesn't give him hope). By doing this you are recognizing him without hurting his feelings but not encouraging him either.
If this doesn't work, then approach it more directly. Ask him why he keeps talking or bothering you. Chances are he'll go really red in the face and get really embarrassed and I'm not sure you want that . . . [ Shelbyjune's advice column | Ask Shelbyjune A Question ]
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