My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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Location: Virginia
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Age: 15
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What does "BFF" mean??? (link)
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Best Friends Forever
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okay here's my story..i had this realli mean ex b/f who treated me like crap! i cried n cried over him every single day we were dating and somewhat after we broke up! so one day i decided to stop all my crying and get even! he has this g/f that he never even met before! lol but he is always telling me and everyone how much he loves her! haha yea..anyways i got my friend who lives in texas to start talkin n messin around with my ex.. ( i told him that she was my homeschooled neighbor)---like she would say stuff like "ohh your realli sexi..i wanna be with you" and just completely act that way! and my ex was always telling me how he never cheated on me and how he never would cheat on anyone..blah blah blah! so basically i was also testing his skills to see if he is a player! well guess what i found out..he is! he was telling my friend how much he likes her and wants to hang out with her and all that crap! and i have everything saved! so yes he does cheat! and he was also telling my friend that he doesnt have a g/f! what a loser! so anyways..he unblocked me from the computer and writing to me ever since i hooked him up! so we were getting along perfectly..then my friend told him that it was just a joke..she wasn't my neighbor..and everything..and now he's soo ticked it isn't even funny! haha i told him off majorly tho yesterday! but anyways..what should i do?! should i apoligize?..but he's done soo much crap to me before and now i'm in counseling because of him! so i don't know what to do! please help! i will rate you! (link)
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ok First of all i wanna say wow ur awesome! for tellin him off like that.I wouldnt apologize hell learn to get over it.its a sweet word called Revenge.You saw he was a player so u basically played him back.dont apologize. Good Job! n good luck!
xo`amanda
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is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad... (link)
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nope.Its ok for u to want them to get divorced!.
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ok, well i cut. and i dont want to hear the "oh dont do that! blah blah blah" im really trying to stop and i dont need anyone to be pressuring me right now. but anyways..i usually cut on my shoulders so no one can see and so that i dont kill myself. but the other day i cut my wrist. and i mean, i wanted to, but i didnt want it to bleed...and i didnt even push hard. i just ran it slightly across the skin. and it just started bleeding. im fine and everything, but is that normal? like is the skin just really delicate there or something? (link)
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I think its normal.The skin right there is probably delicate bcuz its close to vains.GOod luck n i kno u can stop if u realli want to!
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i have a boyfriend kevin but i want another guy named mike and kevin is like the hottest guy alotta ppl like him n mike is just soo much nicer n there is a less chance of him hurtin ur feelings becvause kevin is the kinda guy who would cheat on you and has already done alotta things that i dont know if im into yet...but lately i have been talking to mike alot and hanging out with him when im goin out wit kevin n i have NO IDEA what to doo....because alot of girls would be lucky to have kevin and i think i have alot more feelings for mike ... what should i doo?? (link)
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Dont go out with Kevin jus bcuz ud b lucky to.Thas not y u want a bf is it? tell mike how you feel mayb u have a better chance wit mike! bcuz guys like Kevin will break ur heart as soon as they find sum1 they like.
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help! (link)
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I think u did the right thing! no gurl should have to go through with that.But i would talk to him about ur feelings maybe over the fone tho.See how he feels n maybe get him into sum anger management classes.GOod luck! if u need more advice u can IM me or leave on in my inbox!
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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it. (link)
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Im realli sorrie about your cuzin.Its not your fault this happened no1 could stop it.Yes i think you should talk to your parents to b more supportive bcuz its not her fault im sure she didnt wanna get preg. GOod luck! tell me how it goes. and again im realli sorrie
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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up? (link)
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Ask her who she likes the most tell her that if she likes ur bestfriend more then u dont want her to keep leading you on.Tell your feelings to her about the whole situation n u 2 work it out! tell me how it goes! n good luck
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this is a continuation to my question from earlier about the boyfriend doing the new things in bed.
well i asked him where they came from and he told me that we needed to try new things. alot of people told me he may or may not be cheating. like i said im just suspicious becuase we havent had sex in a while, and then all of a sudden we do and its all this crazy wild shit. i'm not saying that i didnt like it... its just strange. strange since we havnt done it in a while, and also cuz he didnt even like discuss these new techniques with me, he just went about them. and of course i went with them cuz they werent bad ideas and all. also, i am pregnant, so like my sex drive is always down, and his is always up. i read that this is very normal, like there is just something that turns guys on about thier woman being pregnant, and there is something that turns woman off about being pregnant, i guess cuz we get all fat. but yeah, because of my low sex drive, i kinda have been pushing him away. could there also be a possibility that he just gave me some space to wait for me to want to do it again? or maybe he got self consious, and was thinking he wasnt that good anymore and wanted to find some new techniques for us to do to make things better? i dont know, but i am like really beating myself up wondering where he got them from. what i really need is a guys oppinion. and if there may be any girls who have experienced this sort of situation that would be good too. (link)
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i thnk maybe since u were pushin him away he thought that u werent intersted in the same kinda sexual things that u 2 always do. So he found some new things.I dont think hes cheating on you! Congrats on the baby! hope everything works out.GoOd lUck
xo`amanda
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umm this guy asked me on a date a couple weeks ago but it was like well since we like eachother we should hang out some time and i was like yea and then he was like well i hafta go but i'll ttyl about hookin up and i was like ok . .nd i was like really happy n stuff but he hasnt said anything about it nd like i dont kno if he still likes me bcuz i always have to i.m him and then he'll talk n stuff but like i dont kno it seems like he doesnt and all my friends say to just ask him to the movies or sumthing cuz i realli wanna kno if he still likes me but on the othher hand i really dont wanna get rejected cuz i like thys one a lott . .i need help
-iCEd lAttE x0x (link)
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Go for it! take a risk.Most likely he will say yes.But u'll never know unless you ask.
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Do any girls know of anything I can do to get rid of cramps? Im having them really severely and its hard to move. Thanks. (link)
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Take Midol.Use a warm water bottle.It'll Work ive tried it plenty of times!
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if ur invited to someones birthday party and you dont realli kno them but u have talked b4 awhile ago but one of ur other frnds is frnds wit them and she told them 2 bring u .. should u get them a bday present or wat? like if its a "party" bday party, and ur not real close frnds, should u? thnx i rate (link)
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jus to b nice i wuld.But iss totally up to you! if u dont wanna get her nething tell her something like.."o i didnt have time to get ur presents but im gonna get you one soon" and shell most likely forget about it.Hope i could help!
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is wearin a thong slutty? like the purpose is so you dont have pantylines but sumtimes liek if usmones thong shows people think she's a slut. i was just wondering what evryone else htought (link)
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No its not slutty! i mean as long as u dont have it pulled half way up ur back iss fine!. Alotta grls wear thongs iss not slutty
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ok im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet... lately i have been really emotional like the other day i was at my friends and i called my mom to see when she was gonna pick me up and i just like broke down crying... and like my friend said how i curse alot and like idk why but i felt like i was gonna cry... is this a sign that im going ot get my period? and what are some other signs that im goin to get my period soon... thanx alot... i will rate!
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Its just mood swings. WHen its the right time for ur period to come itll come. YOu may even b like 15 wen u get it. Itll Come soon tho :-D
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Ok well i'm 13 and i was getting to know this girl. She just broke up with her bf. And she told me that she liked me. C the thing is i didn't know her that well and i started to try and talk to her more. I was starting to like her but i've only seen her once and only talk to her online. But i started to like her. Only i just started talkin to her 4 days ago. So i told her that i wasn't gonna ask her out until i got to know her better. The problem is now she's goin out with another guy. Is there somthin wrong with me should i have asked her out?
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OK. Im a girl so i kno wut shes doin. It sounds like shes tryna make her ex Jealous bcuz she got over him so fast. I think u did tha rite thing by holding off until u get to kno her.Give it time.
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im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx (link)
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well if u want a long relationship stay wit tha grl ur wit now...theres no reason to break up wit sum1 to go out wit another person for a week..believe me i made that mistake b4 ull hate urself if u do it.
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My friend is having a birthday/sleepover party this weekend. Problem is..I dont like sleeping over anybody`s house (just a problem I have) I do sometimes though..but i reeally dont like it. Plus, the friends shes inviting are people i dont know at all.Please help, i dont want to go to this party..what should i say to my friend? I really dont feel comfortable sleeping over someone`s house ive never been to before.My friend, whos going to be there, knows about my problem and im afraid shes going to tell.Should I make up a dumb excuse or admit my problem and jus hang at her house til like 10? I really dont wanna hurt my friends feelings or embarass myself.
Thank you soo much for the help in advance!!! (link)
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say your parents wont let u sleep over at her house this time cuz u guys have to do sumthin.
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I really like this boy, and i think he likes me. (i kissed him a few times.) But then my best friend comes out of nowhere, saying that everything he said to me was a lie. She didn't tell me the WHOLE story yet, but since then i havent been able to get in-touch with her. i dont know what to do. I wasnt to believe her because she's my best friend, but people warned me about her, how she lives to ruin people's lives. I dont wanna talk to the boy untill i hear the whole story, but i dont know how long it'll be before i see my best friend again. Wat shud i do?
p.s. Airie! i'm an auqaiurs too!! (link)
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Talk to the guy!. shes makin it all up shes tryna ruin it for u jus like ppl said. And ur best friend isnt prolly gonna come around for awhile until she makes up a good story to tell you!.
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i am 17 and i have been dating my bf for 11 months at 8 months he asked me to marry him i said yes..then we talked about moving in a place i was thrilled..1 week before our 11 months we broke up(not seen eachother in 3 weeks) . he said he wanted to be single.two days later we got back together and that same day talked about our place again? whats wrong with him???who does that! isnt that wierd??advice (link)
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Pressure. Every gurl feels it and every guys does to.You said he was a player type. Well now that hes changed hes wantin to marry u its pressure on him i would say.Give it time.
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This is 4 all the girls out there (but I guess guys could help too)! How do or did u get over ur boyfriend who just broke up w/ u? (Or if u are a boy, how do u get over ur girlfriend?) Well, it's totally draggin me down, but maybe sum ideas will help? (link)
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Just recently i broke up wit my bf.Wut i did was go out n have sum fun instead of sittin at home being depressed about it and to keep him off my mind. Hope i could help! n good luck =]
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