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confused with this man
i am 17 and i have been dating my bf for 11 months at 8 months he asked me to marry him i said yes..then we talked about moving in a place i was thrilled..1 week before our 11 months we broke up(not seen eachother in 3 weeks) . he said he wanted to be single.two days later we got back together and that same day talked about our place again? whats wrong with him???who does that! isnt that wierd??advice
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That is kind of weird.. But you 2 have been together for awhile.. and if he isnt a player anymore.. maybe just needed some time to himself to see if this is what he wants.. and if its the right thing to do.. It's better that he did that now... that way when your about to get married he says I cant do this.. I'm not sure if this is what I want.. but.. if you feel like he's not honest about wanting the marriage and the place.. talk to him and see if its what he wants..Hope I helped
~*Jackie~*
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I think he should get another chance. He probably just got spooked alittle by marraige, even though he brought it up but at the same time you should be watching for signs that he could do this during marraige. Be sure your ready for marraige and that you love him because once your married thats it, thats all you get. You really only get one first marriage.
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Pressure. Every gurl feels it and every guys does to.You said he was a player type. Well now that hes changed hes wantin to marry u its pressure on him i would say.Give it time.
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Well, maybe he jumped in a little too soon. I wouldn't dump him for being scared. You are a little young yet to be engaged. Definitely sit down and talk to him. Probably all you two need is a little time and planning. You need some money to get married and have a life together. He may not have all of his ducks in a row like he thought. Just be patient with him and tell him how you feel.
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dude, your only 17.. dont marry the guy!! plus, hes an ass for doing that shit to you-- dump him for good!
-xXoBrianna
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You're 17 years old,this is really too young to be talking about marriage. You've got your whole college life ahead of you. He seems very emotional talking about being together forever and shit. Talk to him,for real,and be like why did you break up with me if you were serious about all this bullshit.
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he may love you alot but then feel the presure of being young and wanting to have fun. Ask him if hes really serious about moving in with you and being committed. Tell him straight up you want to kno wif he is mature enough to handle that.
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It sounds to me like he just got scared.Things were getting serious and moving along and just one day it kinda hit him,like "Whoa,what's goin on?" and he sort of freaked out and ran.He probably didn't know what to do.I would still be with him,make your plans,but don't like,rush it in any way!I know you say you haven't but you know what I mean.Let him know that you are thrilled about all of this and you love him so much but you don't want him to feel pressure or feel rushed.Tell him you just wanna make that clear to him!Guys are odd creatures sometimes,lol but so are us girls!!I have a feeling it will all work out for the best!I know it isn't much but I hope this helped!!!Lemme know how it goes!! :)
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I understand that he brought it up, I just meant that if he knows that you understand how he's feeling, he won't be so freaked out. It's a classic case of cold feet and you just have to work through it.
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Maybe he just has commitment issues. I don't think he's trying to keep his options open, and it sounds like you are getting along fine. Maybe for him it was just too much too fast. Talk to him and see if he wants to wait another month or two before talking about moving in together again. I think that's all it is though, and I don't think that anything is wrong with your relationship.
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i think that he might have just broken up with you because he was afraid that he made the wrong decision-- you must be an awesome girlfriend because he came crawling back!! ;) Hang in there chica!!
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If you've talked about marriage and moving in together then you at least trust him enough to talk to him. Ask him what was up with the whole ordeal about breaking up, and how you don't understand that whole thing about breaking up and then getting back together.
and yes that's kind of weird, but i don't know if he was high or drunk (not saying he does that but ya never know) or maybe he was having a bad day. Or maybe he's bipolar? i dunno but seriously talk with him
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