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Ok well i'm 13 and i was getting to know this girl. She just broke up with her bf. And she told me that she liked me. C the thing is i didn't know her that well and i started to try and talk to her more. I was starting to like her but i've only seen her once and only talk to her online. But i started to like her. Only i just started talkin to her 4 days ago. So i told her that i wasn't gonna ask her out until i got to know her better. The problem is now she's goin out with another guy. Is there somthin wrong with me should i have asked her out?
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Well if she really liked you she would have waited. I bet she likes you a lot, but maybe she just needs a boyfriend all the time and when she is ready she might give you the oppurtunity of asking her out. Good Luck!
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girls like to go out with every guy they think is cute... theres nothing wrong with you... your accually really sweet... its better to get to know someone then just go out with them. you didnt do anything wrong.
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No, there's nothing wrong with you at all...You did the right thing by waiting until YOU are comfortable...and to be honest with you, she COULD very likely just be trying to make you jealous by going out with the other guy. And if not, she's probably not worth your time anyways if shes gonna lead you on by telling you she likes you then hooking up with someone else. Hope we helped!
.:*Em and xTina*:.
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There's nothing wrong with you. You were right to wait to ask her out until you felt like you knew her better.
When she and her current boyfriend break-up (if they do sometime soon) you should ask her out if you feel like you know her more!
Good luck =)
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No there's nothing wrong with you at all. It's probably right that you waited. Because you didn't know her well. If you really liked her like you think you do, then you could wait until they're over with. Plus that way you get even longer to get to know her.
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Of course there's nothing wrong with you! You did the right thing. If you didn't know her and wouldn't feel comfortable if you were with her, then you're better off by not asking her out. It's her loss if she won't go out with you. Maybe she still likes you and is trying to make you jealous so you realize that you should've asked her out. But just let it go and find someone else who is worth your time.
P.S. maybe you and her could just be friends for now, if you still really like her and she still likes you. This way you can get to know her better, but not feel so pressured to making a commitment.
P.P.S. Rate me!
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well...you did like..miss the whole thing...but its better when u no her better...so u can still ask her out, but idk wut she'll say...if she likes this new guy a lot, then she will prob say no...so...tell her how u feel and just go w/the flow. hope i helped
me
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No you shouldn't of asked her out and i clap to you because you did the right thing because you shouldn't go out with someone if you don't know them. bravo!!
-Katie
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yea well if yooh liked her at all yooh should have asked her out nd even thoguh she has bf doesnt mean yooh cant so go for it .. well i hpope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me
[LyL qT x lOnLy] *megan
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No, you should've waited. She sounds like a skank!
-xXoBrianna
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no, you shouldnt be going out w/ people you dont know. Shes really unfaithful if she didnt wait for you and most likely desperate. Watch her break up with this other guy in a week .. or some really short period of time. I wouldnt give it too long. Shes a fluezy and obviously not that cool at all. Dont bother. If she ever does come back to you, dont take her in. You did the right thing dont feel upset.
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OK. Im a girl so i kno wut shes doin. It sounds like shes tryna make her ex Jealous bcuz she got over him so fast. I think u did tha rite thing by holding off until u get to kno her.Give it time.
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Maybe you should ask her what happened. To me, it sounds like she just wanted a guy to fill the void.
It's totally understandable that you wouldn't wanna sk her out until you got to know her better. You can still get to know her better if you want to, just as friends.
But if I were in your situation, I would ask her what happened. She says she likes you, but when you tell her you wanna have a friendship of sorts before a relationship, she goes and grabs another guy? That's not cool.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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hey man ive been through the same thing as u im 14 and ive been wit alot of grls. i know how they are. she wouldve wanted 2 know u better 2. the best thing 2 do is just keep tlkin 2 her till shes single again. u shouldnt rush into things if u dont think its right. follow u heard and hold u head up thug!
luvinmilizz05
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No that is her own damn fault, there is nothing wrong with you, that girl is just mean spirited...find another girl that will treat you better and not do that to you. If you really want this girl tell her that you need to see her more in person and not talk to her online anymore, and get to know her better b4 you ask her out, and since she has a bf right now flirt with her anyways she will like the attention ;)
IM me on sexybabiiJ and tell me how it goes ;)
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No, there's nothing wrong with you. It's good that you didn't ask her out without knowing her. Keep getting to know her, maybe she'll change her mind.
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