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So this is pretty short and random. A friend and I are getting really bored with our lack-of-love lives. The guys at our school sucks. So my question is, where can we go to just hit on/pick up cute guys? we're 17, and there arent any like clubs for teens or anything.
kay thanks.

You can find tons of cute guys at the mall.

And I mean tons.

Well my teeth are not so white , as to what i feel comfortable with. I have a very pretty smile but i feel sort of out of place when i do smile because my teeth are not what i want them to look like . Is there anyway i can make my teeth whiter with out going to the dentist , i heard something about baking soda , but i dont know how to use it with my brush. Help please.

Well, actually, they do make a Baking Soda toothpaste [by Arm & Hammer, the company that makes baking soda], so you could go out and buy that. I'm sure it's not that expensive, but it's going to taste like sh*t. After all, it is baking soda. If you don't have the time to go out and buy it, just put regular toothpaste on your toothbrush, take a pinch of baking soda, and lightly sprinkle it on top of the toothpaste so that it sticks.

You could also try Crest WhiteStrips. They run for about $45 dollars I believe.

Can you list some really good words that would make a story a lot better if I included them? I need to keep in mind that every once in a while I should put in a word that's maybe difficult but very expressive and maybe gives off a noticeable meaning like grotesque.

Atleast 5 words would be good. Thank you.

**thesaurus

Basically, you're asking for descriptive words that stand out.

Heinous
Pertain
Prodigious
Extraordinary
Staggering
Execrable
Grim
Odious
Captivating
Gratifying
Stunning
Delicate
Devout
Seraphic
Perspicacious
Rational
Endow
Facile

I used thesaurus.com. Just type in a simple word [example: kind], and you will get many results.

Oh, and it's also very crucial to use the words in the right context.

What is a good alternative to MSN Messenger that would let me use my same password and screenname that I use for the normal MSN Messenger?

Theymos' answer is great, but there is also another website called meebo.com. It lets you use IM online. I use frequently.

can u get pregnent from fingering yourself??????

thanks

FYI:

The columnist that said 'yes' was being SARCASTIC.

Oh, and stop calling the questioner dumb and stop saying that she asks stupid questions.

Leave her alone.

Hi I'm 14'f,
After school i found blood in my knickers so i showed my mum and she said that it was my period and it went on for about 6 days and i wore pads and it seemed like a period but 2 months after i haven't got my period yet, so i also masturebate as well so did i pop my cherry (hymen) or is it my period i'm really scared what is it?
thanks in advance

Your hymen would have popped when you were masturbating, you would [obviously] know. However, there are many ways to pop your hymen. Like trying to put in a tampon, horse back riding, stuff like that. It's most likely your period.

I keep hearing people talk about this alot. I know I should know this, but im not sure. Okay, where is your clitoris?

Thanks
=]]

I'm going to be very vague. There are many younger users on this site.

It's the little bump near the opening of your vagina.

You're bound to get lots of information.

thats it, i am always itchy.

like my back and stomach, and sometimes my arms.

Any ideas why?
or how to stop it.

its so horrible.

i can barely get to sleep at night because of it.

help, please.

I'm not sure if it's eczema yet. It might just be a allergic reaction to your clothing. Try wearing a loose cotton shirt and some comfortable shorts/sweats when you sleep. I wore my hoodie to sleep last night, and I was going through the same thing that you just explained in your question.

Make sure to limit the amount of iodine (salt) in your diet, and make sure your soap, shampoo, conditioner, lotions and other skin treatments are gluten-free too.

Itching can also be caused by poor circulation.

hey. well, i'm 15/f and i'm a freshman in highschool. well, i'm really out of shape, but i've been working out alot and eating healthier. i've been thinking lately and i want more friends and want to be more social because i'm kinda shy. but i also think cheerleading is fun. when i was younger i used to do those little cheerleading clinics, but then i stoped cheering. well, just out of the blue today i started thinking, and i'm thinking i want to become a cheerleader. i have a couple of friends that are cheerleaders, 1 of them is one of my best friends. but i know i'm bigger than all of the cheerleaders, but i think that over the summer i can loose weight and by the next year tryouts i will have lost some weight. but i just think it might be kinda weird to be a bit bigger than everyone else. what do you guys think?? and i can't do a lot of stunts and flips, and stuff. but idk. should i even try?? or just forget about it? i'm a pretty bubbly person, so i've got that part covered. but am i cut out to be a cheerleader???? i'm gonna ask my friends for advice too, but i'm just wanting some more opinions. so any advice!! thanks!!

I think that you're off to a great start.

You should talk to your cheerleader friends on how to improve your stunting and tumbling.

Going to an open gym or attending some clinics would be beneficial as well.

Ok this may be a stupid question but how do you turn off the pop up blocker? And will that cause virus things to ruin my computer? Because I want to IM and it is saying I have it blocked so how do I unblock it with it still being protected against viruses?

Firefox: Tools >> Options >> Uncheck 'Block Popups'

Internet Explorer: Tools >> Internet Options >> Privacy >> Uncheck 'Block Popups'.

Keep your firewall on to keep viruses out.

this isn't textbook abuse but, my guy friend always has to make it known
that i am stupid, ugly or w/e. he makes it his priority to smack me in the
head you know that "V-8" thing in front of ppl. like he's trying to break
me. I know this isn't that "oooo he likes you" cause he does it to every
girl that he's friends with, except one. sometimes all i wanna do is cry
becuase some of his comments are so rude and mean. i am so sick of it. i
wanna leave and not be friends with him but my bff girl is like "your just
being stupid he isn't that bad" ofcourse shes the one that isn't verbally
abused. what do i do???/ help me.

Is telling him to fuck off out of the question?

You should give it a try.

Obviously, he doesn't see how far his behavior has gone.

Take some action, and be assertive. He has no right to push you around like that.

I want to know what I should do. I have been thinking an really wanna do something new, I was thinking Breast Implants. I am a 34A an want to be a 34C. So is there any other things that work besides the surgery that costs over 3,000 dollars? I heard there were cremes an stuf so just wondering before I go fork out all of the money :) Thanks!

Cream will not work. You will waste money.

Breast size is based on genetics and sometimes hormonal levels.

If you are under 20 or so, you should wait because your breasts still have a quite of bit of growing to do.

Please think twice about getting surgery. Does Donda West come to mind? What about disproportion? I'm sure that your insurance plan doesn't cover breast implants.

Do your 'homework' before you go and get a boob job.

can anyone explain to me in detail no websites or links, what you exactaly do to a guy when you roleplay: he is sick and you are the nurse, because i am lost here. thanks

Well, roleplaying is exactly what the name makes it sound like, playing a role.

It doesn't mean that you'll act like this in real life.

Just pretend that you're a nurse checking on a sick patient.

Pretend to put a stethoscope on his heart and say something like 'Wow, your heartrate went up. I guess it's because I'm here'. You get the idea.

Keyword: Pretend.

what is the HOOK of a song?

theres the chorus, verses, and the other parts but whats the hook in detail?

'A hook is a musical idea, a passage or phrase, that is believed to be appealing and make the song stand out; it is "meant to catch the ear of the listener" (Covach 2005, p.71). This term generally applies to popular music, especially rock music. '

what is the rue21 store? does that have any relation to forever 21?

Some places have Rue21, and some places have Forever21 [or vice versa]. The places that don't have R21, have an F21. The places that do have R21, don't have an F21.

Hope that made sense.

how do i change my login date

What do you mean by change?

You need to clarify.

Heres how to hide it:

http://www.somemyspacecodes.com/hide-last-login.php

I got a male ferret from petco about a year ago, and he's recently been biting me and drawing blood. Ex: yesterday i went to put him back in his cage and he bit my finger and it bled, then today he was chewing on my new shoes and i picked him up and he bit me hardcore. I have a really bad anger problem, and the only thing that stopped me from cutting his head off or throwing him out in the cold is that i care about animals alot, but not him. I think it's because my mom used to let him out like 3 times a day, and i let him out once. I have hit him a couple times, if he ever nips at me, so i think that might of made him meaner, i don't know what to do with him. But if he stays in my house, he deffently wont be taken care of anymore.

http://www.petplace.com/small-mammals/how-to-keep-your-ferret-from-biting/page1.aspx

Take a look at that article.

It provides some helpful tips.

So I'm doing spring track for the first time and our coach was really nice and gave us a training sheet. I'm a sprinter and on the sheet it says 3x100M striders. Does that mean I would run three 100m sprints (run 100m, break, run 100m, break, run 100m break) or run 300m? I know it's a REALLY stupid question, but I want to make sure that I'm doing it right.

You would run three 100m sprints.

I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half now. We're currently living together. We're both still virgins and that's not the problem. My guy... he's just not that affectionate and it's very discouraging to me. When he comes home from work, he won't even come and hug me or kiss me or say hello and it makes me feel sad, like he doesn't WANT to come see me and kiss me. When we go to bed at night, he's just like "good night" and that's it. Nothing more. I really don't think he's losing interest in me, because he's always sort-of been this way. Is there any way that I can encourage affection from him? Any ideas that'll make him want to come give me affection?

Please help! :]

Oh, I'm 18/F

1] He might be stressed because he comes straight home from work.

or:

2] He's lost interest.

I'm almost positive that it's the first. Try giving him a massage when he comes home, or try making his favorite dinner.

Best of luck.

well..i was on and off with this one boy for 2 and a half years..from 7th grade until the middle of 9th. we still have feelings for eachother and still love eachother. we've tried to get back together but we're both so stubborn so it never works. well now he has this girlfriend and i'm so jealous! he tells me all the time how he doesn't like her and is going to break up with her & is just using her for sex. i don't tell her because i don't like fighting with him. well today she had ALL her friends IM me bitching at me..calling me a whore and fat and ugly. and it was so annoying. and i asked her why she is doing that..well why they all were saying that and she said cause i apparently "did stuff" with her boyfriend..thats not true at all. she said i gave him a blow job. and had sex with him and stuff. but i didn't do that. cause, honestly i'm a really good girl and have a lot of respect for myself. well she basically told everyone it was true and i don't know what to do. the boy [we'll call him bob] heard about it and is mad at me because i'm "starting rumors"! but i'm not. i don't know how to make this all go away. i hate fighting with people i don't know and ahh idk. help me. anhy advice on this and ill rate high =]

She's jealous of what you and the guy have.

If any of her friends come up and start bashing you, tell them to fuck off.

They'll eventually get the message, and this will eventually blow over.

Move on.

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