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well..i was on and off with this one boy for 2 and a half years..from 7th grade until the middle of 9th. we still have feelings for eachother and still love eachother. we've tried to get back together but we're both so stubborn so it never works. well now he has this girlfriend and i'm so jealous! he tells me all the time how he doesn't like her and is going to break up with her & is just using her for sex. i don't tell her because i don't like fighting with him. well today she had ALL her friends IM me bitching at me..calling me a whore and fat and ugly. and it was so annoying. and i asked her why she is doing that..well why they all were saying that and she said cause i apparently "did stuff" with her boyfriend..thats not true at all. she said i gave him a blow job. and had sex with him and stuff. but i didn't do that. cause, honestly i'm a really good girl and have a lot of respect for myself. well she basically told everyone it was true and i don't know what to do. the boy [we'll call him bob] heard about it and is mad at me because i'm "starting rumors"! but i'm not. i don't know how to make this all go away. i hate fighting with people i don't know and ahh idk. help me. anhy advice on this and ill rate high =]
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"honestly i'm a really good girl and have a lot of respect for myself."
i'm really glad to hear that. and because you have a lot of respect for yourself, you shouldn't let yourself be put in this situation. if people are harassing you for no reason, don't pay them any attention. just tell them that you don't want to deal with them anymore and that they can take their frustrations elsewhere. they only say things to you to get a rise out of you. if you quit responding, it will be pointless for them. besides that, it's the guy's business whether or not he likes/should break up with his girlfriend, so it's best for you to stay out of it. why are you jealous of him if he is just using her for sex? you imply that you're not like that, so what makes you think that if you and this guy eventually end up together that he's not going to expect stuff like that from you? anyway, my best advice is that when people say mean crap to you that isn't true, just ignore it. they'll forget about it, honestly. and eventually, you'll forget it ever happened.
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She's jealous of what you and the guy have.
If any of her friends come up and start bashing you, tell them to fuck off.
They'll eventually get the message, and this will eventually blow over.
Move on.
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