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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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my friend dated this guy in november, they lasted till around january. then she was like yuck, and got anoyed by him or something
Well me and him were really close through out like december-marchish/april
and like we were all Best friends for life and like always calling eachother, IMing eachother, hanigng out, talking to eachother- everything
Well then he like stopped talking to me as much, and he usaly was the one who talked to me.
Well idk like he will talk to me like twice a week and thats like it.
WEll anyways back to this.
That guy, and my friend are like flirting none stop now ,and i think thats why he like stopped talking to me, and hes so caught up in her, and shes so caught up in him. And she like trys to show off in front of him.
i dont know, its just really anoying me

HELP
on how to get him to talk to me again
and stuff
xox thankss

Talk to the both of them about how this makes you feel. It's not gonna get better if you just sit there and let it happen.

my boyfriend and my one year is coming up quick! like in 2 weeks i need ideas of what to get him!! i never thought it would be this hard. i made him a scrapbook for valentines day and i'm continuing it with more pictures.. but what else? i've already done the picture frame thing so any unique ideas??

Make him a cd with all the songs that make you think about him on it. Cheesy but cute.

Today is the 7th.
I had sex for the first time on the 4th,
and he did "pop my cherry."
I bled a little bit that night.
But I have been "spotting" (bleeding lightly) everyday since then, including today...

Are there any other possible things that would cause me bleeding this long besides being pregnant?

We did use protection...but I don't know if the condom broke sometime in there because i'm so tight being a virgin at the time.

Help!=[

If you did use protection, there's a low chance of pregnancy. Just take a pregnancy test if you're scared. Nobody here is magic & we can't tell you for sure.

ohkay so i really want to get my mom somthing special for mothers day. she really deserves it.
i want to buy her somthing, then i want to make her somthing, like a card but i dont no what to say in the card.

can you help me what to say? i want it to be really sweet and that she knows that i love her.. because i dont reallly treat her like i love her :\

and also what should be a good thing to buy her?

thanks. a lot

Say something from the heart. Nobody here can tell you what to say because she's not our mother. She's yours.

Buy her something usefull, something she'll love. Or you can do some really nice things for her around the house & make her breakfast in bed. It may require getting up early, but it's a nice thing to do. =)

A couple of days ago i started getting a really sore throat and now it's just scratchy and really annoying. Sometimes if i swallow i'll feel like i have strep or a fever but i don't. Any thing i can drink or take would be helpful just to get rid of this scratchy and sore throat!!!
and i went to my allergy surgeon person today and he ordered a pill that supposedly makes things swell less and these things in my sinuses are swollen well the side effects are:
-swollen face
-increased appetite
-being very moody
-getting hyper
-feeling loopy
-gaining weight

i guess i just really like the way i am and i don't want any of these side effects i'm 13/f i weigh about 98 or 99 lbs and i'm about 5' 3'' i know i'm tiny i guess i really don't want to get chubby in the face. should i really be worried? or just ignore it and let the medicine work.

please help.
thanks!

If you're feeling sick to your stomach, the best thing for you to drink is ginger ale. Don't drink anything with color. Don't drink orange juice. It has acid in it that could potentionally harm your stomach, and it will make you throw up more.

I suggest you see a doctor because NOBODY here is a professional at this, & we can't tell you the most effective type of healing. In the mean time, get lots of rest, eat crackers & drink ginger ale.

I'm going to summer school this summer, but it's not at an actual school, it's an online class. I'm taking it so that next year I won't have to take it and I can have minimum day to get out of school early my senior year. :]

This is my question. The class lasts from May 23-July 23, and the syllabus says that I'll need to spend a minimum of 10 hours a week on the class doing assignments and reading the textbook. Do you think I'll have enough time to do the class, work part-time, and have a social life?

Thanks!!

Yeh. Do two hours a day, then go to work & then go out on the weekends.

im 17/f. i dont ever feel happy anymore. i feel like im faking it all the time. i have absolutely no friends. i never go out with people. i talk to people in school but never hang out. i feel jealous of other girls who have best friends they hang out with and can count on. i dont have a boyfriend. im slightly buliimic but still feel fat everyday. i feel like such a failure. people tell me im pretty and no one would ever guess any of this is true about me. i lie all the time about having friends and stuff like that. how can i be happy and enjoy my life?

You need to see a counselor. These problems you've got will NOT get better on their own. See a doctor so you can eliminate your eating disorder & so you can get your life back.

Talk to your friends about things. You may think you're being a burden to them, but that's what they're there for. They WANT to help you. And remember, if a guy is only interested in sex, he isn't worth your time & you need to ditch him.

so i know this guy through my brother, (i never met him, but i spoken to him online a couple of times) he gave me his number and i wnat to text him and be like we should hang out but i dont no how to say it...help please

Just text him & be like "Hey, remember me?" and then keep texting. Build more of a relationship & be like "So what are you doing next Friday?" or something like that & ask him to a movie or whatever.

What are some good websites that have MySpace layouts on them?

Other than createblog.

Thanks.

www.createblog.com
www.whateverlife.com

15/f (Not Legal Age, Theoretical Question)

What happens when you drink alcohol and energy drinks together? The labels of energy drinks (such as Red Bull) always say 'Do Not Mix With Alcohol.' Why is this?

Thanks ! =)

Because they don't mix & it could harm you.

i love bottom apple jeans but i dont noe where to get them

f/14/salem oregon

Try stores like C3, or maybe you can order some online.

Click Search.

i am reallyy scard of spiders. i always feel like there crawling on mee. i cant even sleep in my room if there WAS/IS a spider in there. i cant stnad it any more. like before i go to sleep i look all around my room for one. then i find out this boy had two spiders in his ear! oh my god i cant even immagine how i would react if there was a spider in my ear. any way is there something i can do to get over this fear? anything?

You need to face your fears. You can't be scared of spiders forever. They're all around us, and as much as it kills me to say it -- we need them. =( In average, a human swallows 8 in a year while sleeping. No, you cannot change this, and there is nothing you can do to stop it.

Just make sure that there's nothing in your room before you go to bed, and check so there's nothing in your clothes. Besides, I'm pretty sure they don't wanna be in your room. Rooms tend to be warm [obviously], and they like cold/damp places.

Does anyone know exactly what life will be like on the 5th dimension?
from what i have been reading, there is going to be a sort of a split, well if it splits between people who want to be enlightened and people who are not ready then how will we be able to go visit them? will it have to be spiritually? what about day and night? there are no polar opposites on the 5th so will i start seeing that on earth since the whole galexy is evolving?
what about eating and sleeping?
they do not eat and sleep on the 4th and 5th they absorb energy so will we start to do that? I really want a detailed description of what life will be like...
I know the things like how things are going to be manifested and the peace and so on and seeing the spirits easier. So thank you for your quick responce!

Nobody knows because nobody obviously lives there. We're kind of 3D here. Not 5D.

Im 15 and never been kissed. ..or had a bf TO KISS, but thats besides the point.
Part of me wants to get it over with, and the other part wants to wait it out for someone good.

The longer i wait, the more ill remember it though right?
Is it even that big of a deal to wait?

...But what if i dont get my first kiss till im like..36...omg.

I doubt it'll take you til you're 36 to get kissed. I'm sure you're pretty, and I'm sure lots of guys would love to kiss & date you. They may just be shy or they may be your friend & not want to ruin the friendship.

In my opinion, keep waiting. You do wanna kiss the right guy & make sure it's something you'll always remember. I'm not saying wait for the perfect kiss, because no kiss is perfect, but just wait it out. The right guy will come along way before you turn 36.

OK i got my first period in august 2004 so i have had it now for near on 3 years, it has always been regular and near on on time give or take a few days.

Well it was due to come around the 27th of April (last month) and still isnt here.

I know all that stuff about what can cause it to be late like stress and change in diet etc etc..

Im not and have not been stressing over anything lately, diet has not changed, i am not worrying about it being late and have not been sexually active...

Is there anything that could be wrong?
Like what else could it be?
I am not trying to think the worst of it but i would just like to know.. hopefully you understand what i am asking

You can stress without even noticing it. The smallest amount of stress could possibly trigger your period, and it may not come.

If you know you have not been sexually active with no changes in diet, then you should be fine & it'll come soon. Stressing about it not coming will just put it off even longer. Try to relax.

I used to have a myspace, but somehow my parents found it(im not really sure how...i'll bet they looked me up, they are psychos like that) and made me either A. delete it or B. let them look at it whenever they want. They were afraid I was gunna get like raped or something because all of this hype about it in the news. At the time I just decided to delete it. But, now I want to get it back again. So, im wondering, is there a way that I can have a myspace where my parents wont be able to find it? Thanks alot!

If you don't put your last name & use a nickname, yes. Other than that, no.

Just make one & tell your parents. Make it private, only add people you know. Bands should be an exception, and don't give out any personal information. If that doesn't get them to budge, then just accept it until you're old enough to be allowed to have one.

Does anyone know what state Glenoke is in??? (from the TV show 7th Heaven)

Thanks soo muchh!!

I'm pretty sure it's a fake city, but on the show it's supposed to be in Cali.

how likely is it to get pregnant if you give a blow job or hand job in a hot tub and the guy cums in the water? also i have braces and was wondering if this affected how a blow job would feel to the guy, is it even possible to give a blow job with braces?

Not likely.
I don't think so.
Yes.

how many times does a teenage boy think about sex in a day. im a boy, but its not like im going to count, but im sure some sad psychologist has, so im wandering, what are the guys findnings? jus curious

It depends on the guy really. No teenage boy is the same. Some guys think about it a lot, and some guys don't.

Click search. If that is too long a title & doesn't bring up results, shorten it so it works for you.

DO the boys have to wear anything when girls give them blow job or is it just straight penis?

thankss

The guy should wear a condom because it'll protect you from STDs. If you don't want a normal condom, get a flavored one. They're meant for blowjobs anyways.

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