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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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Ok so i like this guy, and ive liked him for a couple months now and we flirt well flirted all the time *n* stuff and everyone said he liked me...well now its summer and we've only hung out once and well lets just say it was interesting..anyways and we never talk on the phone or anything..i mean i tried calling and he had nothing to talk about..but i dont think i just like him..i think i might love him i always think about him and he just seems like the guy? but idk!my friend said ive gone all the way up the hill and now all i have to do is come down but what happens when i get to the bottom..will he be waiting? we dont talk at all and we dont hang out or anything...what should i do? Sorry its kinda long...

Hm.. well is there a reason why you guys dont hang out? If you asked him to maybe he would. Does he like you? Personally, I dont think that you love him. You just have a big crush on him and you care about him a lot but love isnt something you can say to everyone. Maybe the feelings he has for you now are'nt the same feelings you have for him? Im not so sure on what to tell you in this situation. But your friend is right. I think you are just waiting for him and thats not good. Move on. But before that start to hang out and get to know him better and see if he likes you. If he doesnt like you in that kind of way Im sorry. ♥//

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i didnt kno wut category to put this in but o well....ok i JUST got braces and they feel really weird and i cant bite down all the way. I wanted to kno if any noe could give me some advice about braces....pls help thx! ;)

Your mouth will be sore for like 1 or 2 weeks and thats just normal. After then you will be able to eat without your mouth hurting. ♥//

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Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do?

If she said she wanted to then she does. If a girl doesnt want to do anything like that then we will simply just tell you how we feel about it. You can ask her if she is for sure she wants to and for her to tell you the truth. ♥//

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I am in a wedding August 27, I am 5'3 and 120 pounds. My stomach isn't big but a little chubby. Does anyone know how I can tone it up in 5 weeks. Please Help, what can I do????

Crunches,situps, running walking no sweets should do it! It will take less then 3 weeks if you stick to it. [[ ♥ ]]

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Hey...I was wondering if I was having normal period pain or not. I have a slight fever, not very high. And I'm having pains in my stomach (everywhere not just in the lower part) and some back pain. I'm getting headaches and after I eat I feel like I'm about to throw up. Plus I'm suffering from a loss of appitite. I should have started by now but i'm a little late. Is this normal?

I dont think that its just your period. I understand the pain in the stomach which are cramps. The way you get rid of cramps is just drink some milk and rest. When ever I was on my period I feel weak and everything so thats normal. I had headaches but you just need to take a pill and take a nap. It works and when you wake up take a shower. It seems like you have a flu or a cold. [[ ♥ ]]

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You see.. i got back on weight watchers this week because my school's starting soon (too soon) and i want to slim down so I'm not the biggest girl in my class anymore. What are some fast pace exercises i can do (websites) or what are some tips. The weight watchers is working, slowly, but i want to speed up the process.

Thanx

Woah.. I read what mkanaspiration said and some of those facts are true. But you can become sick because you are'nt eating. Thats just what he/she said! I mean 1 apple a day?? Noo not good at all! All you have to do to loose some weight is eat more fruit and veggies! Cut sweets. Eat a normal meal without as much fat && calories. Eat on a smaller plate with tons of designs because that will make you think you ate more on a smaller plate! Dont eat fried or baked things. Drink tons of watter! You are supposed to drink 8 cups a day so every hour drink one. Dont drink soda or juices unless its like diet snapple. That has 0 % sugar and calories and its healthy! If you are craving a snack dont take chocolate. Make yourself a fruit salad or a healthy smoothie. It will make you full and its yummy. You still have to exersise daily. Dont over due! Do 45 crunches during the day and then at night. Go to www.toneteen.com everything is on there! ♥//

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is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this)

Its possible && not a big deal. They wont get in the way but if you feel like they will and if they are uncomftrable while making out just take them off. Your eyes will be closed anyways. [[ ♥ ]]

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okay im 13/f and ive kissed a few guys but i've never made out but i want to but i dont know how.. please help

Its hard to tell someone how to make out but all you have to do is relax, follow his lead , close your eyes and use tongue if you want to. ♥//

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okay my friend got fingured by her boyfriend. shes just about 2 weeks late for her period, and she keeps asking me if that could have affected her period track. she keeps thinking shes pregant, but i know that cant be the case. can someone finguring you cause you to skip a period? or any thing? please post and fast with advice!!

No it cant affect her period && she is not pregnant. Its okay that she is late barely any girl gets their period on time. I , sometimes get mine every 2 months. ♥//

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What are different ways to style sidesweeping bangs? Im getting them tomorrow - should I cut them to the bottom of my ear? Cheekbone? Longer?

You should have them cut right by your cheekbone. That looks the cutest. ♥//

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How long are you supposed to give a handjob for?
thanks hco babe!! |[♥]|

You can do it for about 10-15 minutes. ♥//

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this is a lame question but i want a new sn and ive been thinkin fer one fer tha last couple hours and i got nothing do you have ne ideas? thanks

I would be able to help you if I knew what you liked and what things you were into. ♥//

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ok hey my name is veronica and you no the style is ripped jeans and my friends tell me that i wont be popular if i dont get ripped jeans or i wont be in style and everyone will think im werid should i listen to them or just go buy me a pair of jeans that cost 60.00 DOLLARS!

Your friends are soo wrong!! Even if you dont have ripped jeans doesnt mean you cant be popular. That kind of made me laugh. Ripped jeans are really cute && they are in style but if you dont have a pair doesnt mean you dont have any style and that you wont be popular! Just dont listen to them and get yourself a pair if you truely like them! I got a pair lol they're just really cute. ♥//

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15/f.
My bf pissed me off n really hurt my feelings w/o meaning to. now im not so sure and i want to take a break. but im afriad if i find out i do still want/need him he won't want me back... help...

Since he didnt mean to hurt you why dont you try to fix things? If he truely still loved you he would take you back but you never know. Before taking a break try to work it out. ♥

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wuts the song that goes "its not always rainbows and butterflies its comprimise. . ." and who is it by? hurry please

thanks

She will be loved by Maroon 5!

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k so i have this friend who is really annoying and a lot of our friends know it. we used to have group get to gethers with everyone. shes never invited anymore but she always calls me and stuff for sleepovers and i just cant say no or tell her how shes annoying.dont say that whole sit down with her shit im not interested in that kind of advice..:D thanks

Since you dont want to talk to her then try writing her an e-mail or talk to her over AIM! She might be a little dissapointed but she should understand. ♥//

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I was wondering...what stores sell good sunglasses for teens at good prices. If you could tell me the price ranges that would be really helpful too. Thanks!

Forever 21 has really cute ones. They are about $5! American Eagle && Aeropostale sunglasses are about $16-20 but they are adorable! Pacsun, JC Penny! There are some at Hot topic lol.. ♥//

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Alot things have happened to me lately..my parents split..my dad moved out..and my friendships are coming and going. I'm depressed. How do i get over this?

Ehh.. I used to go through depression but no I am completly over it. You need to find who your true friends are at this point. They will all be here for you. Spend a lot of time with them and doing things you all enjoy. I know its tough for you right now but you just have to understand that its your parent's decision. They didnt want to be together anymore but it doesnt mean that you cant see them or love them any less. So many parents split up and its hard for everyone. My close friend always told me if your parents ever think of getting a divorce think of the good things not bad! You get twice the Christmas presents, more money and 2 rooms! I just laughed at him but thats what you need to do. It will take you some time until you get over it but just take all the time you need. Hope everything works out! ♥

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iS THiS LEGAL ??

Haha! I knew you were gonna ask this. Since dowloading music isnt legal I dont think movies are eather. ♥//

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what the hell is a body shot?

Its when someone take liquoir and licks it off at any part of your body. Like your stomach or breasts. ♥

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