about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

my friend liked me, so my other freinds helped him ask me out. this is my first real boyfriend. i said yes. he was really, really, really happy. this happened today. i dont want to m/o with him, just like be friends still basically just like idk. he like lovessss me. its fine talking to him online, i feel akward talking to him in person. i dont know what to do. omfg help.

Do you like him in that way? If so, give him a hance. If you don't, try to give him a chance anyways. If things don't work out, then break up.

[view]

ok i'm tired of not being able to get over my ex. we went out for 3 months. the reason he broke up with me was because he said he wanted freedom but then i recently heard that he liked another girl so that maybe the real reason. i don't want him back but for some reason i get angry and jealous that he likes another girl. i'm not sure if i still have feelings for him but i just can't get over the fact that he got over me that quickly. so i need help on is how do i get over him? and i want to start flirting with other boys, no i don't want him jealous i just wanna flirt. so how could i flirt with other boys? thanks!

If you know you don't like him, then getting over him should be easy. If he's gonna dump you for someone else, you already know he's not worth your time. Stop wasting your remaining time getting pissed over dumb stuff. It's not gonna make anything any better for you.

Anyways, just flirt with other guys. Laugh at them, teast them playfully, smile, touch them.

[view]

Hi I am doing a powerpoint presentation tomorrow on the accuracy of severe weather alerts. I got the whole powerpoint thing down, but I was wondering what else I could do besides the powerpoint and my speech. Like, some of the other people had interesting hand-outs that had to do with their topic. I want something like that, but I don't know what to do. My topic isn't that interesting to most people, so I wanted something to make it better. I'm really not good w/ speaking in front of people, so nothing that will require me to get the class involved. Just some kind of handout or something to ask. It was to be 8-10 minutes long, so I need something to draw it out a little more.

Oh and any advice on giving speeches because I'm terrified lol.

Thanks in advance,
Erin

Make a quiz or maybe a note sheet for them. Maybe make a cross word puzzle of some sort that relates to your topic?

[view]

heyy, i want to listen to music for free, like just go on a website. do you know any? i dont want to download. anything besides myspace and soundpedia, and musixzone. i'd like to listen to the full songs, so not amazon. if you know any that'd be awesome :]. thankyou!

Yahoo has a music site. Just go to www.yahoo.com & type in Launch.

[view]

Hi Everyone, i'm Hannah Montana. i know i may be a popstar but i still need advice at times too. I know it may be hard to imagine. but its true. Hot-diggity-dog! what i need advice on is, on the show, do yall think i should date Olivar?
thanks so much. I love you all! *smooch*
- Hannah Montana

Wow. You may not be Miley Cyrus, but you're pathetic.

Lmfao.

[view]

pls i want to know if it is bad for me to have a girlfriend if i am not ready to marry.

Nope. It's perfectly fine. Not everyone goes into a relationship with the intention of marriage.

[view]

hey i am 14 years of old i just wont to ask wot is soo wrong about love bites? because my boyfriend daniel i stayed over his house for the weekend and he is 16 lk and we slept together and then he give me about 12 love bites and now i do not know wot to do lk plzz help me?? i need help i dont know wot to do lk

I agree with Sabine. The only problem here is that you're 14 years old, spending the weekend at your boyfriends house & having sex. Don't your parents say anything to you about this? Don't they care that their little girl is off opening her legs to a guy she won't be with for the rest of her life? You're 14 yrs old, you shouldn't be doing these things.

Hickies go away by themselves. If you didn't want people to see them, then you shouldn't have gotten them. Simple.

[view]

well i'm a teenage girl who is dating this amazing guy again (2nd date this weekend) and well, it's just that i've never really had a real relationship like this before and I'm not sure what i'm doing. After this weekend when I kiss him for the first time on our date, do I wait and see if he calls me? Or should I call him? (he says he'd call me about this weekend but he hasn't yet- even though i was the one who first asked him)


helppp me

Wait for him to call. If he doesn't, then you call him.

[view]

I recently had my nails done for the first time ever. (about two weeks ago) Well, last friday one of my nails broke at work (McDonalds) and I just took it completely off and threw it away. Was I supposed to save the nail? I don't mean to sound stupid but I don't have much experience in nails. I know I had a had french manicure and used the gel. also, do I go in to have my nails fixed every so often? I heard that you do but I'm a little confused.

Please, any information you guys can give will really help.
signed,
nailed confusion.

Nope. You didn't have to save it. They'll just replace it for you when you go to the shop.

If you want, you can get them fixed or you can wait for a while & get them done again. It's all up to you.

[view]

I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now. Our relationship started out a little rocky because, well to be honest, he had a girlfriend for 2 months. (I don't count those as part of our relationship, because we weren't really "together" in my mind). So we've had issues from the start. For the first bit of time that we were "together" but not really, I was never sure how long our little fling was going to last. But he did end up breaking up with his long-distance girlfriend, and we became official.

This is my first boyfriend. I went from being pretty much single for 18 years of my life to being in what feels like an extremely serious relationship, where we never spend a day apart. We have the same classes, the same friends, and we spend every night together. At first, this didn't bother me. But now I'm feeling like I need space. He says that I don't talk to him enough, and that I say one thing, but act a different way. Like I say I want to spend time with him, but I don't act like I do. Honestly, I just don't know what to do. He's right, and part of me thinks it's because I'm afraid of how I feel. Or maybe I want to feel things that I don't. I really just don't know. I need help.

I'm a 19 year old college girl, he's 23, and I need some advice.

Tell him how you feel about all of this. There is no way to work it out if you don't speak up.

[view]

today i was peting my cat and i noticed something unusal she was missing a pacth of hair on her back - about the size of a coin- and there is like a scab or a rash or something on her skin.

im really worried about this
she is 3 year old female indoor cat

please help me if you have any ideas what
could be wrong with her.

She might have gotten outside. If you don't think that's the case, take her to a vet.

[view]



Hate can be a positive emotion,
When it forces you to better yourself
You built me, constructed my desire
Perfected my hatred
Now I'm driven to be ten times better than you
Piece by piece I've built my walls
And burned my bridges down
That lead back to people like you,
So full of malice, so full of scorn
You tried your best to crush my spirit
You tried to steal my soul
You pushed my back against the wall
And I broke it down


& Now that my bridges are burned, you can no longer reach me

And I finally Feel Free




whats that from?

Whoa, that's You Eclipsed By Me" from Atreyu. Amazing band. =)

[view]

14/f

HOLY OMG! so i just started going out with this guy and i really like him and one of the things thats awesome about him is that hes not afraid to hold hands or hug or something. we're in the same class and helikes to hold hands in class which is cool and all but people stare! it makes me nervous and stuff and its kinda wierd. PLUS my hands sweat and i feel like wierd about that...

any advice?

People are gonna stare, you can't stop them. Just keep holding hands with him.

[view]

how often should you have your period

Every 28 days.

If you're just starting your period, it'll be irregular for the first couple of years. You won't get it every 28 days as so. You'll have it one month and then skip for three. Once you've had it for a few years, it'll regulate itself out.

I'm 16, and I've had mine for 3 years & it still isn't normal, so don't freak out.

[view]

hello i am a 13yr old female from australia

does anyone here sing?
i am an OK singer (i dont like to brag) but i have absolutly no confidence. i was just asking does anyone know how i can get my confidence up so i can sing in front of people??

PS my friends really really want to hear me sing but every time i go to my body stops me.

THANX!!!
-natalie

Sing in front of your friends. Once they approve that they like the way you sing, it'll boost your confidence.

[view]

Me (age 25) and my girlfriend (age 23), 3 days a go were having a brush, we were both wearing our under wears(both boxer type) and after we were both aroused she realised that there was a small stain on her under wear, we dont know if it was mine or hers... but we are both freaking out. So, please tell me... could the stain have caused pregnancy? what is the probability?

No. Since there was no actual intercourse, she cannot be pregnant. Your sperm is not a super hero nor is it a ghost. It can't go through things.

[view]

pls help me out. i have a girlfriend which i so much love, but the problem is that she is having another guy,and it seems that she loves the guy very well.please what am i going to do, i dont want to lose this guy.

Dump her. If you're dating her and she loves someone else but you stay, you're only setting yourself up to get hurt. It might hurt to dump her, but your feelings & heart will get spared in the end.

[view]

im 16/f and i really wanna get my lip pierced but my mum thinks it looks awful. What can i do to convince her??

and i havent told her whether i want the bottom or top done yet coz i cant decide!

plz help!

Do you have other piercings? Have you been responsible with them? If so, that's proof enough. If you can be responsible with those, then you can be responsible with this one. If she still doesn't let you get the piercing, just accept it.

[view]

i went out with my ex-bf of 2 weeks for a month. today i went back to his place after school and we ended up having sex. but we both knew what we were there for. we both needed it. i dont know what to think now. he says he only dumped me coz he has trouble staying with one person if you know what i mean, but there has been no one since me. so what should i be thinking right now? he wants to go out again. and i want to really badly too. but my bestie says its up to me but she doesnt wanna see me get hurt.

now dont get me wrong - i wanted the sex today, i needed it so dont think anything like he raped me or anything, ok?

thanks a ton

x

If you want to date him again, and he wants to date you again, then go for it.

[view]

ok sorry this is gonna be somewhat long ok this year im going on a vaction with my family like one of the all inclusive resorts in tthe caribbean and the drinking age down there is 18 ok im 15/f and i could probley easily pass as 18 bc im really tall for my age and i have the body of an 18 year old if you catch my drift. what would happen if they didddd serve me alchol and thenn like i got caught or something , could i get in like in trouble like not by my parents bc i dont think they'd care that muchh

You won't get in much trouble, but your parents might.

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker