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uhh this is hard
my friend liked me, so my other freinds helped him ask me out. this is my first real boyfriend. i said yes. he was really, really, really happy. this happened today. i dont want to m/o with him, just like be friends still basically just like idk. he like lovessss me. its fine talking to him online, i feel akward talking to him in person. i dont know what to do. omfg help.
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Do you like him though? If you don't... you shouldn't lead him on.
You shouldn't say yes just so you could get your first boyfriend. It wouldn't be a good experience. I can understand why you may not want to make out with him yet. Has he said he loved you though? If he has, then tell him it is too fast and that you would like him to say it when he truly means it. If he hasn't.. then you shouldn't think of it like that. Yes it sounds like he likes you a lot.. because he's happy and everything.. about you saying yes. So he may be excited and he's showing it.
You should be attracted to him.. and you should want to be with him. Want to kiss him too. Of course you two can be friends but you'll have to willing to be a little more than that.. to be in a relationship.
Things can start off awkward. But you can cuddle, hold hands and hug. Tell him you are not comfortable with making out or kissing.
You can tell him that you're nervous talking to him in person.
But if you don't like him, then don't be with him. It will hurt yourself and him. You don't want to be with someone you don't have any interest in. It really depends on how long you've been friends with him. You can always tell him you just want to be friends because you value your friendship and you don't want to ruin it.
You can tell him you aren't ready for a relationship or want one.
Because he's going to want to treat you like you're his girlfriend. Hugging you, getting closer to you, making plans with you.. and if you don't like that from him. It will keep bothering you.
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If you do like him try things out. If you don't I wouldn't make it last anymore. I'd much rather be dumped if my boyfriend didn't really like me. He might be upset but he'll understand eventually. I know it's probably weird because you were friends and such first just see if anything gets better.
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Do you like him in that way? If so, give him a hance. If you don't, try to give him a chance anyways. If things don't work out, then break up.
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Hehe, this is cute. Alright, well why did you say yes if you don't really like him that way? He may just be young and just acting like he is completely in love with you, you know? When really he just really likes you. Try not to feel awkward and hang out with him .. after all he is your boyfriend. Give it at least another week. If it is still awkward then break up with him. I hope this helps. Good luck!!
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