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Question Posted Tuesday May 8 2007, 7:50 am

pls i want to know if it is bad for me to have a girlfriend if i am not ready to marry.

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KeepingItReal answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 11:33 pm:
It's not bad for you to have a girlfriend if your not ready to marry for a couple reasons:
1) You are still trying to discover what it is you want and the only way to find out is to date.
2) You may change your mind once you meet the right woman.

The only time it gets bad is if your hurting and deceiving the women you date. As long as you are clear on your intentions and your feelings towards marriage, and keep an OPEN communication with the women you date, then it is fair game.

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karenR answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 8:18 pm:
No it isn't bad at all. You should date lots of different girls in order to find that special one you want to marry. You date one for a while and if she isn't the one, you try another and see if the next one is. :)

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christina answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 4:14 pm:
Nope. It's perfectly fine. Not everyone goes into a relationship with the intention of marriage.

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*Kate* answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 4:12 pm:
Nope. You didn't mention how old you are, but you can date a girl and not have to marry her. That's what you do. You date a lot of different people to find out what you are really looking for, that way when the right person comes around you know that she is the one for you. <3

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HereForYou answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 1:35 pm:
Hello...
I don't think it's bad for you to have a girl friend when you're not ready to get married. As long as you like the girl then it's ok to go out with her. There are kids right now who are dating and are definately not ready to get married.

Plus having a girlfriend might change your mind in the near future. You never know. You might really fall in love with your gf and ready to spend the rest of your life and settle with her. So having a girlfirend is good! It's ok if you're not ready yet! ;) Good luck! Hope i helped! Take care <3

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