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my freind has 2 holes in each ear, and she wanted another one. has been buggin her mom for like half a year. a few days ago, she peirced it. she told me that it hurt...so she only stuck the needle halfway through. now there is a reddish purple bump over where the hole should be. it is soo noticable is it infected or something?

yes, most likely it is an infection . .she should clean it out with like proxide or something or maybe og to the doctor . .G00D LUCK X0X`

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I went out with a guy Sept-Dec, and it ended very badly. I got really disinterested halfway through, but kept convincing myself I liked him, so I wouldn't have to deal with it. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore, and I basically started ignoring him. Not intentionally, it was just hard to pretend to be excited to see him. He only took about a week of this before he broke up with me. Even though I had wanted out, I was really sad, especially when I heard he was dating someone else. I got comepletely over it very quickly though.

A couple weeks into x-mas break, he called me and told me he'd screwed up really badly, and he asked me back out. I was totally disinterested by that point, so I flat-out said no. When school was back in, he wrote me a note about how he owed me an explanation and how he knew I said no the second time because he'd hurt me, and other similar bullshit. His ego just shined through so well. I wrote him a nasty letter explaining that I had said no because I didn't like him and for that reason only. I told him about how I actually lost interest halfway into the relationship. It was a pretty scary letter. We haven't spoken since.

I assumed he was over me by now. But the other day, I was talking to his good friend who told me that my exboyfriend still thinks he's in love with me. He says he thinks he screwed it up really bad, and he knows I hate him now. (not really true)

He's moving pretty far away right after school ends. I'd really like to talk to him face to face before then, but I don't know what to say, if anything. I'd like to apologize, and I'd like to clear the air. I don't know if it would do more harm than good, though. Suggestions?

you NEED to tell him how you feel and how u have felt maybe he could understand you better then you should maybe tell him your sorry for writing such like a hateful note and tell him that you just dont have feelings for him anymore or you could tell him that the feelings arnt strong therefore their not strong enough for anything to happen, hope it works out! X0X`

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i have my semi-formal dance and i have a dress but it is kinda loose on me in the front..... is there anyway i can make it tighter??? can i pin it without looking bad??
-help please

you can try to use like a saety pina and turn it inside out and then pin it from the inside so u cant see the pin . .or maybe you could have one of your reltives or friends like sew it to make it tighter thats about all i can think of . .G00D LUCK! X0X`

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well i like my bf... kinda the think is i just broke up with him and hooked bak up..... and now i am having second thoughts... what do i do?

follow your heart cuz even though its on your left its always right! X0X`

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my Boyfirend is a complete sex ADDICT! This is the first guy I have actually had true feelings for! I have known him since I was 7 and I have liked him since. We started goin out 3 months ago and we made out the first night. We have madeout countless times now and I SO LOVE HIM!but, he has boners all the time when I'm leaning on him. and he was kinda humping me last time we were makin out.TOday, he was askin me all these questions like, DO U LIKE IT HARD? DO U WANT TO BE ON TOP? I AM A VIRGIN CATHOLIC and i love him so don't say break up with him! I am only 14 and I don't want to risk pregnancy!

TELL HIM! you are too young and its a good thing that u know the consequenes that there is . .u need to talk to him about it! good luck! X0X`

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ok, so i have this friend and i really do like him and i cant tell if he likes me back. he gives off really indirect emotions. i mean we are like really good friends and have all the same interests. i just really cannot tell if he likes me. any ways to tell? also, if he doesn't what would be a good way to try to get him to like? please help!!
thanks!

tell him how you feel . .its the best thing to do! good luck! X0X`

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yeah... I go to a really bad school (drugs, sex, rumors, suicide, acohal, smoking, & ect.) & I'm mad fun of alot. I under understand what I ever did to them... I transferd from a private school (PRK-8th Grade) that had only 187 students, now I'm in public school & theres more people in my grade, I transferd 2 years ago.

I'm called gay, queer, shim, & all sorts of rumors are going around. & I don't know what I ever did to these people... I'm on medication for depression & I'm seeing a shrink... but its all the popular guys who say these things... & i guess the girls do to, just not to my face. I don't have many friends, acctly, only girl-friends who go to that school... & even they make-fun of me... & I don't know what I did to hurt these people so damn bad... & I've got a bad homelife... my mom is married to someone I hate, my dad is mean & treats my sisters awfull (he was married once befor & had 2 kids, so tehre my half-sisters) & my grandfathers, bother of them, died within a year of eachother & just theres a whole lot of things going on in my life... & I don't know what I should do... kill myself (I'm the only thing between my parents that keeps them fighting)? take drugs? I've no clue what I can do or what I did to them... & I'm not really sure how much most of my friends would care if I just died... & my best friend (I've known him since I was about a year old) dosen't want to have anything to do with me... & I don't know who would really care, other then my sisters, my mom, grandmothers, dad, & various other family... & 1 teacher... & so I don't know what to do... it keeps me so depressed & its so hard on me, I don't do good in school cos I'm depressed, my friends make-fun of me... I know I'm not the best looking person ever... but I just want to know what I can do...

if anyone needs contact with me then at the bottam of your post put your e-mail

-Cameron

never go to durgs and suicide to solve your problems and people would care if you did any of that stuff you just dont know it i think that u maybe should go to a school counsler and just tell them all of your feelings and get them all out and tell them how everyone is treating you and what their doing that could be a start and dont let anyone make fun of you tell them that you dont care and u shouldnt care if someone makes fun of you because they have nothing better to do with their life so their going to try to mess up someones like yours and dont let them do that if that dosent work maybe you should try to transfer to a different school!

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I wanted to know where you can get a good bra...it doesnt matter the price unless it is over $100. I have to start using the right kind...
Thank-you
Liz

victoria secrect! X0X`

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Does anyone know of any movies with dancing in them?
Apart from musicals, I think I've watched enough musicals to last me a life time.

It doesn't matter what type of dancing it is I just need dancing in it.

dirty danceing! good movie! X0X`

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i have this reallllly good guy friend and he likes me a lot. i feel bad denying him everytime he asks me to go on a date or anything but it just would feel wierd for me. he says im leading him on because i flirt too much but thats the way i am with all guys. i kinda cant help it. do i give him a chance or stick with the no? how can i stop flirting with him when i dont want him?

just follow your heart! and mayeb you should confront him about the way you feel! good luck! hope my advice helped! X0X

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How do you accentuate your eyes? How do you make your eyes look bigger, but with a natural, yet stunning and exotic kind of look? Any tips or sites would be appreciated, thanks.

EYELINER! it really brings out your eyes! just use it on the bottom though, and use eyeshadow diffenerent colors but like really naturel like borwns pinks and stuff so u dont end up lookgn likea hoe or something l0l! good luck! hope my advice helped! X0X

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ok well, me and my best friend always sit together during lunch because were really close, and anyway i was feeling really bad so i wasnt eating anything because i thought if anything touched my mouth id throw up ((because, well, ill explain later)) and so he was like, whats the matter? and i was like, im just feeling really terrible. and he was like, why? is everything ok? and i was like, not really. and he was like, i need more salsa fries((theyre his favortie, its his lunch time obsession)) so if you give me a dollar i'll give you a hug. and i didnt wanna seem desperate so i said, how about you just take the dollar? so he was like, okay thankks. and then he got up to leave and i was like, im gonna come with you okay? and hes like, cool yeah. so i got up and went to the vending machine with him and we were talking and then we went and sat back down and we were talking and i was like, i think _____ is mad at me, and hes like, i know why..its because we spend so much time together. and i was like, well im not gonna stop. and hes like, good..i dont want you to. and then we were walking to seventh period, and he was trying to get me near the boy i like, who is also my best friend, but yeah all this stuff happened and he had a hold of my arm but we got broken appart and i was gripping onto my friend jackie, and then i i called his name and i saw his hand break into this whole crowd of kids who were watching everythiing that was going on and he pulled me out and then we were walking halfway to class and he went to talk to someone, so i kept walking. Then later after homeroom i was walking to the busses and i was like really upset and i was gonna tell him i needed that hug now, but i was too scared. Does any of this that went on mean anything?

And, i've been feeling really down because i like my best friend ((the one that the kid im ranting on about up there tried to push me into)) and i REALLY dont want to at all so i feel terrible, how do i get rid of this feeling? and telling him and forgetting about it arent an option. trust me, ive tried.

thanks much

tough one, i dont think that there is a way to forget or lose feelings like that with out like telling the person . .maybe you could fing another guy u really like and start going out with him and then maybe that would get your mind off of him it helped me! good luck hope my advice helped! X0X

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So this Saturday is prom and I am going with the guy I like. What is some small ways I could let him know that I like him like what can I do? Thanks!

i think just going to the prom with him might let him know u liek him . .u could also flirt with him a lot and make it obvis that you like him and by the end of the night and u dont think that he knows TELL HIM! good luck! HAVE FUN! X0X

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hey i like a grl at mi skoo but she has a bf , they go out off an on an evri time i get da courage 2 ask herr she goes bak out wit him
i need help im in fukin luv!!

you raelly need to tell ehr hw you feel and if she likes you she wont care about her boyfriend and the best thing ot do is tell her how you feel! X0X

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what is a pre paid cellphone details ideas etc....

a pre-paid cell phone is where u bye a cellphone ad u pay by how evr many mintues you use monthy! X0X

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a guy at my school i knw him pretty well...not like BFF but like okay friend way you knw what i mean...well anywho he really likes me and i dont have the heart to say no...he wants to sit by me at lunch! i dont knw what to do im makin my friends surround me....i dont knw if i like him im not sure...how can i keep him away untill i deside

u need to let him know but tell him in a nice way so he dosent take it seriously because it might hurt him just tell him somethign on the lines of theres already a lot of people at our lunch table or somethign liek that not to harsh! good luck hope everythign works out! XOX

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heyy all....i know this will sound COMPLETLEY stupid...but incase ANYONE might have a clue as to how to become famous....could u let me know plz? i REALLLLLYLYY wanna become an actress! lol thanks every1!
*~jemmy~*

i've toelly gone through that all you got to do is llook through newspapers and websites from liek your city and they'll have casting audtions and were u will get a shript and u will need to profrom lines to judges and then grade you and if they like you then you can do liek comerchals or liek little things in the begining! good luck hope verything works out

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hey i wanna know where to get short shorts for not alot of money.. dont suggest hollister american eagel or any places like that.. that isnt my style and i also want some tight shirts.. i want low prices cause i dont have much money til next month and i need em now.. i wear mainly clothing like rocawear,babyphat,ecko..gunit..thanks bunches if you can help

you could try famous bar and jc pennys they have stuff thats enecpensive! good luck! hope it works out! ♥!

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ok there is this girl i liek but she has a boy friend so should i wait or move on cause i really liek her

u need to tell her how you feel . . .if you like her that much maybe you should wait until her and her boyfriend break up or you could just move on good luck! ♥ x0x

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