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Rumors...
yeah... I go to a really bad school (drugs, sex, rumors, suicide, acohal, smoking, & ect.) & I'm mad fun of alot. I under understand what I ever did to them... I transferd from a private school (PRK-8th Grade) that had only 187 students, now I'm in public school & theres more people in my grade, I transferd 2 years ago.
I'm called gay, queer, shim, & all sorts of rumors are going around. & I don't know what I ever did to these people... I'm on medication for depression & I'm seeing a shrink... but its all the popular guys who say these things... & i guess the girls do to, just not to my face. I don't have many friends, acctly, only girl-friends who go to that school... & even they make-fun of me... & I don't know what I did to hurt these people so damn bad... & I've got a bad homelife... my mom is married to someone I hate, my dad is mean & treats my sisters awfull (he was married once befor & had 2 kids, so tehre my half-sisters) & my grandfathers, bother of them, died within a year of eachother & just theres a whole lot of things going on in my life... & I don't know what I should do... kill myself (I'm the only thing between my parents that keeps them fighting)? take drugs? I've no clue what I can do or what I did to them... & I'm not really sure how much most of my friends would care if I just died... & my best friend (I've known him since I was about a year old) dosen't want to have anything to do with me... & I don't know who would really care, other then my sisters, my mom, grandmothers, dad, & various other family... & 1 teacher... & so I don't know what to do... it keeps me so depressed & its so hard on me, I don't do good in school cos I'm depressed, my friends make-fun of me... I know I'm not the best looking person ever... but I just want to know what I can do...
if anyone needs contact with me then at the bottam of your post put your e-mail
-Cameron
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Cameron,
I know this is a little late. Has your situation improved any since May? Nothing is worth killing yourself over. I was made fun of a lot in school too. Develop a sense of humor. It is what has seen me through. Keep a note book and make fun of the people who make fun of you in it. Pick out their faults and take them to extreme in your note book. Give yourself a good laugh on at their expense. If seeing a shrink doesn't work for you, then you can talk to me. My e-mail address is genericaddress@peoplepc.com please e-mail me and let me know how you are, anyone who threatens to kill themselves really needs a friend to talk to. Medication for depression will not fix your problem, changing you environment is the only way to cure depression, I know, I was on meds for 3 years, until I changed my environment. I have been off of them for almost 4 years. Take care, keep your head up.
Sincerely
Tammy
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ok sweetie, i really think you need to change schools. ive had friends who had been bullied loads at their old school so they changed schools and made new friends there. find a school that hasnt got such a bad reputation.
talk to your mum about it too, just tell her how much of a hard time you are having and that you really need to be at a different school because you are so depressed. also ask your counceller how you go about moving to a new school, how to find a new school and how to get out of you school. hope this helps you x
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Well Cameron, don't show them that it bothers you beacuse they're just going to keep doing it beacuse it hurts you badly. Just please don't take drugs or even suicide, talk to anyone you trust and you want to can always talk to me for advice, no matter what. Think to yourself, what can I do to keep being positive. Life will go on even if its going slow. Get Happy, you probably will find someone who loves you even if you're different.
PS: If you ever need help or advice go to my column.
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never go to durgs and suicide to solve your problems and people would care if you did any of that stuff you just dont know it i think that u maybe should go to a school counsler and just tell them all of your feelings and get them all out and tell them how everyone is treating you and what their doing that could be a start and dont let anyone make fun of you tell them that you dont care and u shouldnt care if someone makes fun of you because they have nothing better to do with their life so their going to try to mess up someones like yours and dont let them do that if that dosent work maybe you should try to transfer to a different school!
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well maybe they're calling you those things because of like, something you did or said that maybe implied homesexualness or something? i really don't know since i don't know you. but i don't know, just a suggestion.
and usually people who make fun of other people are just insecure with themselves and for some twisted reason, they find pleasure and joy in making another person's life hell.
but you can't give up. these are just people who you have to deal with temporaraly. not forever. just a few more years. you can get through it. suicide is not the way out, its the easy way out, and if you take the easy way out...well, i don't really kno, but its just not worth it because people DO care about you. no matter how much you think that they don't...THEY DO!
do not get into doing bad stuff either (like drugs) cuz that just complicates things and makes everything worse than it already is.
things WILL get better.
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