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okay...i need some help
a guy at my school i knw him pretty well...not like BFF but like okay friend way you knw what i mean...well anywho he really likes me and i dont have the heart to say no...he wants to sit by me at lunch! i dont knw what to do im makin my friends surround me....i dont knw if i like him im not sure...how can i keep him away untill i deside
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well what you should do is tell him that you dont want him sitting by you for the moment because you have other things and you are not going to be talking to him and you dont want him to think that your ignoring him and hopefully he'll understand and think about it really well before making a decision that at the end you might regret! Good Luck!!
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I think the best way to decide would be to get to know him better. What better way than to talk to him at lunch. Just let him know you haven't decided yet. :)
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you should follow your heart maybe even give hime a chance if it's not going to work out then you'll know after a couple of weeks of dating
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Well i've had tons of friends who have been in this situation before, and it always seems that if they try to hide, stay away, or lead the guy on the friendship is even more jepordized in the end. If you really value this friend you shoudl jsut tell him the truth. I know this seems like totally lame advice and a bti scary, but, trust me, in the end it works out WAY better. Most friends will appriciate the honesty, and if eh really cares he will give you your time.
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Well, you can start acting like a total dork around him ((like in movies)) or, if you dont want to do that, ask him to let you think for a bit until you decide. **HOpe I was a help**
~*jemmy*~
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Tell him you need some space, and some time to get to know him, and that you're definitely not saying no right now. Tell him you're not sure about your feelings for him right now, he should understand, and you need to have the heart to tell him, otherwise he will get led on and eventually hurt. Hope I helped and good luck! -Angel
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u need to let him know but tell him in a nice way so he dosent take it seriously because it might hurt him just tell him somethign on the lines of theres already a lot of people at our lunch table or somethign liek that not to harsh! good luck hope everythign works out! XOX
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