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Hello! I am working on a paper on abortions for my health class and I need to find out how much an abortion costs. I would just type it in the search bar but then my mom might types in something that starts with an "A" she might see the word abortion and get suspicious. So please and thank you verry much!! I will rate high for good answers!!

Depending on which clinic & what state you live in, it can vary. But from an estimate, an abortion can cost anywhere around $300 or more. But the costs can increase after the first three months of pregnancy.

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so this guy asked me out finally.
but idk if it was a joke..
he asked me on myspace.
heres the exatc convo..
will you go out with me?
really?
yeah i like you alot.
awe.
yeah i dont want to be mean but whats the answer i gtg soon.
yeah sure.
so you will go out with me?
yeah.
then it ended..
the part where he said i like you alot dosent make since.
it could of been a joke.
what do you think.
i really need help
THANKS SO MUCH!
I RATE 5

Are you the same person
Who asks every question
Like this..?
If so, you have a serious...
problem.
Stop asking so many friggen questions.
Sometimes it does get annoying.
Y'know?

Ask him, what else do you want us to say, seriously? If he says he likes you, then he probably does. Just ask him to make sure.

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Does proactiv work?

I tried Proactiv, and personally to me I hated it. Just because it was such a hassle, every night before going to bed to put on this crap and like it takes so friggen long! & It makes your skin feel really oily & disgusting. Also when I tried it - it dried out my skin, so not only was I dealing with acne, I had to deal with my skin peeling. It was awful. =/ But for my sister, it worked like magic, so seriously it depends what kind of skin you have, & how your skin reacts to different products. So, get it & try it. (: It's atleast worth a try.

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i have no clue what so ever what i am going to get my boyfriend for christmas..does anyone have any ideas..we have only been going out for like a little while..hes 14 and im 14 so i kinda need a inexpensive gift becuase i dont really have that much money..

thanks for the help

A gift card to his favorite store.
A shirt w/ his fave band on it.
Watch // Earrings.
Body Mist crapp.
A scrapbook // orr some type of book written with 100 reasons why you like him!

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hey, well i like this guy.. ive liked him for a little over a year. when i first found out he liked me, it was through instant message..and we always used to talk on aim alot and stuff.. i hung out with him like 2 or 3 times.. talked on the phone with him and my friend who was good friends with him..and i considered him my friend. then he asked me out. and stupid me, i like freaked out and said no.. and i regret it to this day. we still talked online after that and stuff.. but now he has a girlfriend that he claims he "loves" and NEVER even talks to me anymore =[ but the thing is i'm REALLY shy..and i get all weird around guyss. so it would be weird just to like go up to him and start talking to him..oh and he knows that i like him by the wayyy. please help i dont know what to do !! thankss

Hey there! I'm sorry it took me so friggen long to get back to you. My boyfriend went into my inbox & I didn't realize I had messages, so I'm truely sorry it took me 10 days to answer this. Usually I'd answer the same day, but.. I'm sorry =/

You really need to start talking to this guy again. Shy or not, you might regret something else if you don't talk to him. Talk to him on AIM & just ask him how life is and how his girlfriend is. Then start talking about everything you two did together, like be like.. "Hey do you remember that night when we hung out.. blah blah?" Just keep continuously talking to him, and maybe he can build something back up. That's the only thing I can think of. But please make sure you do it. Because a year from now you might look back on this and think, why in the hell didn't I talk to that kid? You know?

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Hey! Well i am 14 and i'm a girl! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile and we go to diffrent schools. He calls me every night and we talk for 20 min. at the most...that's soooo bad, i know....well i don't talk very much to anyone and i'm a very very quiet person so it's hard for me to talk to him. He blames me for not talking and thinks that i don't want to talk to him but i really do. There is always a moment when nobody is talking and we have alot of awquard silences that sometimes last up to 10 min. and he gets soooo mad at me, but i just don't know what to do because i love him so much and i don't want to loose him over something stupid. I mean we fuss about this more than we talk to each other and i hate that soooo much! PLEASE HELP me because i just can't loose him over that! I hope that you understand me and can relate to what i'm talking about! Thank you sooo much! You're great for listening! Thanks,
Krystal S

I'm sorry it took me so long to answer this, my boyfriend looked in my inbox & didn't tell me I had any friggen messages! =/ Ugh. So I'm really sorry.

Thanks for the compliments =P Anyways, I know what you're going through, for sure. I hate when I'm on the phone with my boyfriend & nothing is coming out of the conversation. I'm probably the randomest person you'll ever meet, you can even ask my boyfriend. If we're on the phone & nothing productive is happening, I start singing, talking to myself, & telling him random stories from my past. Haha, I know it sounds pretty ridiculous, but he said that's his favorite part about me, is that I'm so absolutely random & he loves how I can just start random conversation on the phone.

To tell you the truth, it's more his fault then it is yours. He complains that you don't talk on the phone, but is he doing any type of effort like talking on the phone? Maybe, maybe not. Personally, if my boyfriend treated me like that & made such a big deal out of something so stupid I would seriously break up with him, but I know that that's not a choice here.

Try & find things to talk to him about. Talk about literally anything that's on your mind. Ask him how his day went & what happened at school. If he had any tests or homework. Talk to him about food, or something just so random. Seriously it works.

I'm not sure if your boyfriends the type, that you can joke around with and he'll laugh with you, or if he'll just think you're stupid if you start singing on the phone, but maybe you could try that? Then sing together? lol. I'm not really sure. I hope I helped in some sort of manner.

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well my question is how do you know when it's time to move on from your friends bad hobbits?

Um, I'm sorry. I don't really understand your question, but I'll try & answer it with what I think you asked. I think it's time to move on from your friends whenever they are like doing something horrible to you. Like if they pick on you? Then I think it's time to move on. Or if they just do things that really piss you off for absolutely no reason, then it's time to move on. I hope I answered your question as you wanted me to, just leave it in the feedback if I didn't answer what you wanted, and I'll edit my answer!

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i want to get my hair redone. It light brown with a few blond highlights. it like right above my boobs and i have these long grown out bange a little below my chin. I also have an onval face and bigish nose. I want to get a hair style but keep it the same length. Can you please help and also i have some suggestions and please tell me which one is the best. http://www.dvdtimes.co.uk/images/TiffanyBradford/meangirls_c.jpg
http://www.meangirls.com/downloads/wallpapers/regina1024.jpg
http://www.meangirls.com/downloads/wallpapers/gretchen800.jpg

Definitely NOT the 2nd one. Probably, the 3rd one just because it kinda matches what your face shape is! (:

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one of my friends( i have a lot friends that are girls)said that because i act stupid and joke all the time that's why i don't have a girlfriend. if that really is true, what should i do about it?

You shouldn't change at all. Sometimes girls like boys that act stupid & joke all the time. I know I do! You shouldn't change anything about yourself, especially something that you can't completely control. Like for example, I've been wanting to stop saying, "that's hot." for the longest time. Because, it's the STUPIDEST saying EVER. But, it takes time. It something you'll eventually grow out of. But as for now, don't change anything about yourself. You want a girl that'll love everything about you, even the ways you act. (:

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I have a bad sweating problem. Even when it's cold, I sweat, and yeah i put deodorant on EVERDAY. but i still sweat ALOT and it shoes on my shirts. and im a girly girl and i love wearing short sleeve shirts, but i don't want that to SHOW. are there any deodorants that can stop it from showing? PLEASE HELP. I RATE 5'S FOR ANY HELPFUL ANSER.

Certain Dri, you can get it at pharmacies & Walmart. Pretty much everywhere. You only put it on at night though. It costs around 6-9 dollars depending on where you get it.
In the day time, I suggest "Arrid Extra Extra Dry" Which is about 3 dollars, and you can get it pretty much everywhere too!

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For Christmas I thought it'd be cute to do a '100 things I like about you' for my boyfriend. First of all, is that a terrible idea? What do you think he'd think about it? He's pretty sentimental about gifts.
&& Do you have any ideas that I could put in there?
(IE: 17. I love when you say those cute little sayings you come up with out of nowhere.
23. I love how you write me notes when we both know you dislike it.
34. I love how you hug me from behind.)

Thanks!

Hehe, I'm doing that, too!
Some ideas:

I love the way you randomly text me during 4th period & say hey, knowing you aren't going to get a response.
I love playing footsy with you while we watch t.v.
I love that you let me see your cellphone on October 21st, because if not - we would've never met.
I love kicking & punching you underneath the table when we're eating with your family.
I love when you come super early to school just because of me.
I love when you say stupid things like "Gah!" just to piss me off.
I love when we're laying down, and you shift the hair away from my face.
I love playing with your hair, and then pretend like I'm cutting it just to scare you shitless.
I love your facial hair, and how you refuse to ever shave it off, until your parents think you look bad. ): & then you do.
I love when you're in the front seat, and I'm in the back - you always turn around to make sure I'm okay.
I love that whenever I ask to listen to your IPOD, you automatically turn it to "Fix you by Coldplay" because you know it's my favorite song. :)
I love the way you always have a way of making me smile.
I love when you use my lipgloss and ask if it made your lips shiny.
I love watching T.V. & purposely changing it to MTV just because I know you hate it.
I love how you don't force me to do anything, and you always wait until I'm comfortable to do ANYTHING.
I love how you always pretend you were gay before you met me, but then I changed you. =P
I love watching you break down & cry and then I always make you happy by singing Little Bo Peep.
I love that you love playing that stupid Tiger Game online.
I love that you try and teach me things about football, when in reality I have no clue.
I love it when you say that you love me first.
I love when you call me names, like, hunny & baby.
I love how you're able to tell me everything that's ever happened in your life.
I love how you come to me for advice whenever things get hard.
I love playing with your hair.
I love how you think that I'm polite when I eat, & you always make fun of me because of it.
I love when you give me headmassages whenever I have the worst migraines ever.
I love that you trust me with your secrets.
I love when you correct your grammar on AIM, if you didn't capitilize the first letter of my name, or a sentence.
I love your laugh.
I love that we share drinks. (:

Those are just a few ideas, & some of them are just insiders between me and him, but hopefully that'll trigger something with you and your boy. GOod luck hun! :]

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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?

I spend more time with my boyfriend, because we hang out on the weekends & he stays the night at my house! + I just moved here & he was my best friend to start with, so I've always spent a lot of time with him even when we weren't dating. But with my girl--friends, I've never real hung out with any of them afterschool! :P

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how can i stop careing about what people think of me

You need to gain self confidence in yourself. If people pick on you because you're "fat" or if you're "skinny" then try & fix it. Or if it's something to do with your hair/makeup! Then change it, just try different looks for yourself & eventually you'll be able to stop caring what people think of you.

When I was overweight, everyone picked on me - family & best friends. I never had ANYONE there for me, when I finally lost weight I still cared what people thought of me, but eventually grew out of it. People are going to talk shit about you no matter what. TO your face or behind your back. You should grow to realize that no matter what, you're never going to be able to change peoples' perspectives of you, you just have to live with their stupidity. Seriously, if they make fun of you it isn't even worth it, they obviously have so much insecureities about themselves that they have to pick out the negatives of others.

As you grow older, you'll seriously stop caring what people think, take it from me. I KNOW. + People are going to grow out of their immaturity & realize how pathetic they are. (:

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how long should someone wait to have have sex(are b.f. and g.f.)

Until the boyfriend & girlfriend are ready. I'm not waiting until I'm married, I'm just waiting for the perfect guy to come along. My boyfriend & I have been dating for a little bit over a month and he says he's ready, but understands I'm not, and he's willing to wait however long he has to. If you aren't ready, then don't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to. Just wait for that perfect guy to come along that'll wait for you. (: I think you should atleast be together 6 months before you start anything sexual. But that's just my personal opinion. (;

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how can you tell the difference between an authentic christian dior bag from a replica? i know how to tell the authenticity from brands like fendi (ex. metal tag under the inner zipper) and prada, but does anyone have any words of caution for dior bags (other than an authentication card, serial number, etc)? thanks a bunch!

Hey. I found this website for you, with the Fendi info.
http://cgi3.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewUserPage&userid=fendi-bag-lady
My friends have fake Pradas, and the A is incomplete on the tag on the outside, like it says Prodos. (:
♥naimee.

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I love to exercise, like once I start I can't stop. However, I have a hard time starting to work out. It's hard for me to stop what I'm doing and start doing crunches, running, doing pushups etc. Any tips to get me motivated? mmkay thanks :]

Hunny, I'm not going to lie. Motivation when you exercise is the hardest thing in the world & it took me a million times to keep up running & dieting. But I did, and it was definitely worth it. Some tips you could follow are:

- Know the benefits of exercise. We are motivated to do things that we benefit from. Say if I said to you, "I'll give you a million dollars if you go on a 30 minute walk tomorrow." Would you do it? I betcha would! The benefits of exercise aren't exactly like that though, but many people keep motivated by knowing that they're exercising to target a certain part of their body, that they hate.
- Create your personal "reasons list." Write down EVERY reason you can think of that you want to get healthy/lose weight. Example; fitting into a size 7. being slimmer for prom next year. to be able to have a healthy future! Stuff like that.
- Exercise with a friend! It's a known fact that when you exercise with a friend you're more successful at exercising consistently. You can keep each other accountable. Knowing someone will wait for you and help you is a great motivation.
- Exercise first in the morning, every morning. People who exercise 6 to 7 days per week first thing in the morning are much more successful at exercising consistently than those who do the 2 or 3 day thing. It doesn't have to be a huge workout everyday. Just wake up early and go out for a 30 minute walk!
- Train for a local walk or run in your area. This can be a great motivation to exercise on a regular basis. Don't think you CAN'T do it, because you CAN.
- Reward yourself! Give yourself money for everytime you exercise & keep it in a money jar. At the end of the month or something see how much money you have in there! Maybe that'd be a good motivation for you? Knowing you have money at the end of the month & are able to spend money just for exercising.
- Keep records. How many times a day, & how long you exercise. Set some awesome goals!
--Goodluck!!
♥naimee.

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16/f
I need to get some perfume but idk what kind.. What are some good perfumes that boys like? (And not too expensive)

I wear Chanel because it's the best smell ever, but it's a little on the expensive side. I suggest if you're looking for a cheaper perfume, you could try Curious by Britney Spears, or J-lo perfume because both of them smell great! (: Or, you could try some body sprays from Bath & Body works or Victoria Secret. :]
naimee.♥♥

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what is Cellulite ??

Cellulite is fat in one or several areas of the body. Like, say if you look at your thigh & you like step really hard on the ground & the top "jiggles" that's cellulite. (:
naimee.♥♥

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does anyone know how to center your about me on your myspace so its no all one big paragraph??

i'll rate all 5's
thanks-

< CENTER > TEXT HERE
Just make sure you put everything together!

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alright, every one knows that christmas is coming up, and i am known for getting my friends awesome gifts, because my parents always pay for all of it.
but this year they said they will pay 5 dollars for every one, and i have to pay the rest. i have saved up 200 dollars so far, and i will be getting more from babysitting.
i have 15 people, as of now, that i need to give gifts to.
does anyone have suggestions.
i was thinking i could get them all a different piece of jewlrey from like Clairs or something.
i need ideas, please. and quick. becaues i like to start shopping soon before i spend it all.
♥

Hehe. Well I think the best idea is, buy them lotions, lipglosses, socks, candy, jewelry! Then make them all cards or something (: That's probably what I'd do if I had to buy for 15 people! (:

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