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Me and my B-friend
Hey! Well i am 14 and i'm a girl! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile and we go to diffrent schools. He calls me every night and we talk for 20 min. at the most...that's soooo bad, i know....well i don't talk very much to anyone and i'm a very very quiet person so it's hard for me to talk to him. He blames me for not talking and thinks that i don't want to talk to him but i really do. There is always a moment when nobody is talking and we have alot of awquard silences that sometimes last up to 10 min. and he gets soooo mad at me, but i just don't know what to do because i love him so much and i don't want to loose him over something stupid. I mean we fuss about this more than we talk to each other and i hate that soooo much! PLEASE HELP me because i just can't loose him over that! I hope that you understand me and can relate to what i'm talking about! Thank you sooo much! You're great for listening! Thanks,
Krystal S
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I'm sorry it took me so long to answer this, my boyfriend looked in my inbox & didn't tell me I had any friggen messages! =/ Ugh. So I'm really sorry.
Thanks for the compliments =P Anyways, I know what you're going through, for sure. I hate when I'm on the phone with my boyfriend & nothing is coming out of the conversation. I'm probably the randomest person you'll ever meet, you can even ask my boyfriend. If we're on the phone & nothing productive is happening, I start singing, talking to myself, & telling him random stories from my past. Haha, I know it sounds pretty ridiculous, but he said that's his favorite part about me, is that I'm so absolutely random & he loves how I can just start random conversation on the phone.
To tell you the truth, it's more his fault then it is yours. He complains that you don't talk on the phone, but is he doing any type of effort like talking on the phone? Maybe, maybe not. Personally, if my boyfriend treated me like that & made such a big deal out of something so stupid I would seriously break up with him, but I know that that's not a choice here.
Try & find things to talk to him about. Talk about literally anything that's on your mind. Ask him how his day went & what happened at school. If he had any tests or homework. Talk to him about food, or something just so random. Seriously it works.
I'm not sure if your boyfriends the type, that you can joke around with and he'll laugh with you, or if he'll just think you're stupid if you start singing on the phone, but maybe you could try that? Then sing together? lol. I'm not really sure. I hope I helped in some sort of manner.
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