My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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Sorry it's long, but I need some help
Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.
There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him
How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!! (link)
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WEll i had tha same problem...i dunno if itll work for u but...u can talk to ur guidance counselor n tell him/her that you feel like ur being sexually harrassed they'll listen n theyll find tha best possible way for u to get classes changed or atleast a new seat..if that doesnt work talk to him...tell him that ur in a relationship n that u dont like him come straight out with it or he wont know wut ur talking about n tell him u feel like hes sexually harrassing you...n if things get worse i would talk to your parents or the principal..good luck!
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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old? (link)
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i dont think its bad im 13 n have been wit a 16 yr old guy...i think its ok but ya kno thas my opinion!...girls like older guys n ppl r gonna hvae to face that...and he cant get in trouble cuz he aint 18 yet!
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i saw my first love at a football game and i think i might still have something for him. he always wants to see me and hook up but the hook up thing stops me from seeing him. 2 of my best friends like him, one obsessed and the other is a hook up girl. me and him have liked each other on and off for about 5 years but i want to be with him again.. what should i do? (link)
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the only thing u can do is tell him...talk to him about it...if u do u'll feel 100% better n if he doesnt want a relationship hes not tha guy 4 u...
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My sister was like to me "what are you drinking" and im like "apple juice" and she starts yelling me calling me a heffer and crap! like im not even on my diet anymore...and im not even fat but she says if i eat stuff and drink all this sugary stuff im gonna be huge later on and im like..uhh its just juice. i was thirsty so i drake some. and she was like thers crystal light..and i didnt feel like crystal light so i drank apple juice..we always fight about this and i know she cares about me and she doesnt wanna see me get huge...but she always makes me cry and she makes me feel fatter times 200. idk what to do..i hate myself now i just wanna lose weight so im anarexic like her and then shes happy and she can get off my back. ugh! what do i say to her to get her off my back!!! (link)
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tell her you dont wanna follow her foot-steps cuz shes makin a bad decision...tell hers it your life you kno what your doing and you know what YOU can eat n drink she cant do everything for you..
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Tomorrow is my 15th birthday. Im in a pagent and i dont think that my boyfriend is going to come to it. Also, he didnt come to my little party yesterday either. What do i do? How can i get him to want to be with me on my birthday after the pagant? I dont even know if he knows its my birthday tomorrow. His whole family knows but i dont think he does. Should i be with him tomorrow or would that just be a bad idea? I just want it to be special.. ya know?
If you can help me id really appreciate it.
Sorry so long i just have a lot of different things on my mind
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HAPPY BDAY mine is on tha 25th too! drop hints...jus b like u no wut today is..or either he may b pretendin he doesnt kno cuz hes going to surprise you! i dont realli kno but good luck
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My dad won't let me date till im 16. Im only 14 right now and I have a boyfriend, and i have guy friends. My boyfriend called me this afternoon, and my dad heard the message he left me. All it said was his name and phone number, but my dad got mad. Then a little later, one of my guy friends called, and dad got even more mad. He said im too young to have guys calling me.
How can I convince my dad that im just friends with these guys? I really want to keep my friends, but he doesnt want me to hang out with guys. What do I do?
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hm...tell him u think ur readi to have a responsible relationship...let your dad meet some of these guys..ur dad jus may b worried there gonna hurt u emotionally or something...
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Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do? (link)
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dont break up wit steve he realli cares...johnta was onli doin that to make a scene n to make himself look good...johnta likes u but wont admit it..he doesnt want u wit ne1 else...if i was u i would deff. stay wit steve he seems alot better!
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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!! (link)
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stay with your boyfriend. Wait till you get to kno ur friends bro a lil better bcuz in the end he mite not b tha type of person u want.
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Ok here's the deal. My friend lives down the street from me and me and my other friend are planning on going to his house to get wasted/drunk in a couple days. However, how am I supposed to get into my house at 930 at night w/ out getting caught drunk by my parents? How do I pretend to be sober? OR, how do I get sobered up enough to walk home and go inside my house (with my friend who is sleeping over) without getting my parents suspicious? I'm going to be walking back to my house drunk w/ my friend and most likely have my parents spaz out when I get home. What do I do? And please..don't give me shit about being too young or whatever..I know the whole deal. (link)
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i do this all da time....tell ur parents that ur sleepin at ur friends house..n then have ur friend tell her parents shes stayin at your house then..u guys can stay at the guys house..but if ur parents have to talk to each others parents..best thing to do would b wait till ur parents go to sleep n sneak in ur bedroom window..
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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem? (link)
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THey prolly arent Normal yet.
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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help. (link)
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your actualli waaaaaaaay under wieght sum1 ur height is sposed to b like 140 im 5*7
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im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer. (link)
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No its not a sin.You also have the right to believe what you want. That cant be a sin for believing in something other people dont.
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I went to the beach today and I got burnt on my chest, lower back and thighs. Its not burned too badly but its sore and I can;t put lotion on my skin feels like its burning off and it blisters then scabs over. What are some thing I can do to help get rid of the pain?? (link)
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maybe you could put an ice pack on it..or u could also buy sum Aloe Vera after sun it usually comes wit the tanner stuff.
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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering. (link)
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WEll yeah bcuz ALL they do is think about video games..n think if u went out on a date wit them ALL they would talk about is Video Games...n besides they wouldnt realli have time for a gf bcuz all they do is sit in front of the tv and play games...but if u like that type go for it!
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Well, a couple nights ago I had some friends over and we were in my room drinking a little. :-\ and we did some stupid stuff though and my mom found out and she wont lemme do anything anymore!! Help!
IWantMyFreekinFreedomBackLol! (link)
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Haha ive had that happen to me before i kno how ya feel...somehow u gotta show ur mom u can b responsible...like clean for her babysit ur lil bro/sis if u have one...thas wut i did n i got my freedom bac bcuz she trusted me
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Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me?? (link)
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Forget him!.hes jus taking his problems out on you. Im sure your very pretty! everyone is in their own way.So basically just forget about him,hes just trying to ruin ur life because he doesnt have one
x0`amanda
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how do you have people make you an salute, and where do you put it on your advicenator page? (link)
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Im not really sure.But you can ask people to make them for you and then most likely they will tell you how to put it on ur page.
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whats a wigger? (link)
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a white guy tryna act black
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Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.
Sincerely,
CameronLover1 (link)
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Dont listen to that guy jeremy or w.e his name is. Go for it!If u fall or trip so what jus laugh about it.goood luck!
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OK, the othere day I went to the doctors and the doctor told me this scale on puberty. 5 being you have gotten your period and stuff like that. Well, my friends mom told me mom my friend was a 5. And the other day we got in a fight and my friend was really frusterated. My friends mom told me, my friend, and another friend, you get really frusterated during your period. Do you think my friend got her period? PLese help! Oh yea, she has been in a really bad mood lately. (link)
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well it could b mood swings.OR PMSING..which is b4 u get ur period ur in a bad mood and ur like that through ur period so if in a week she is actin differently then yeah she was on her period.
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