about

Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

Hey, snarfism here, I've been getting complaints about my answers. Like, They're too long-winded/too mean/ect. I was wondering if this happens to everyone, or if i'm just a freak bad advice-giver?

A little advice for you, try not to be so sarcastic all the time. Once in a while it is funny but I read through your column and you just make a joke out of everything, it is funny though!
Good Luck with that
Lizzy

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I can't tell if i am but i can't stop thinking about him and i have a not in my stomach

Well, have you ever gone out with him? Maybe you should try the first move and see if you are in love with him because it might just be infatuation. Don't obsses over him though, it's never good when you do. If he does not want to go out with you either he is not looking for a relationship or maybe you guys will make good friends. You only make the mistake of being in love three or four hundred times in your life.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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I am failing English!!! My mother said she'll take me out of voice lessons if I get below a B! What should I do? Voice lessons take up all the time I have to study.

Hmmmm. well you could always study during study hall or before and after voice lessons. You also have to straighten up your priorities, Johnny Depp's first priority was his band so he dropped out of school but Abraham Lincoln's was school so he stopped playing chess. Both are true stories, the question is, are YOU willing to put school second to singing, personaly, and I know this sounds bad, I love to sing and school is my second priority, but there is a lot of things you can do in life as long as you pass english like write poetry for songs. Hmmmm, ever think of that? Good Luck hon
Lizzy

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Ok, so I'm still hung up on my ex boyfriend. And he has a new girlfriend. But, everyone tells me not to give up on him. (There's a lot of reasons why they say this.) And it would be so easy to make him jealous, but I don't really want to do that...and I don't want to use and hurt another person in the process. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do? Thanks.

Don't use someone else. Just pretend like you are the happiest person in the world without him. Make him jealous of you as a friend first, don't put another man's happiness in jeperdy, put his happiness in jeperdy! JK. Seriously though, confidence will help a lot. Good Luck Hon!
Lizzy

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theirs this boy named Dorian I really like him but he doesnt want a relationship and when he does he's confused and I really want it to work and dont know what to do Should i keep trying or give up what should I say to him

Just know this, if you really like him, truly, you'll wait for him. If you love him, you would wait for an eternity for him. If you don't really think that there is any chemistry between the two of you but there might be later on, date around for a few months then make your decision. After that, you'll know what to do. Good Luck!
Lizzy

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I am a 29 year old married woman with three kids. I just found out that I am pregnant and my husband and I have agreed that I would have an abortion because we couldn't afford to have another child. We are already struggling to raise our three kids. I am so confused and depressed right now. I am scheduled to have my abortion next week though. If I continue with this pregnancy that means I would have to stop working and money is really tight right now. We are actually living pay check to pay check right now. The other side of me wanted to continue having this child. And it really hurts me so that I have to do this. My family and his family would be so dissappointed if they learned I'm preganant and I doubt that they would be willing to help. If you were in my shoes, would you do the same thing? Am I wrong in doing this?

Personally, I don't believe in abortions. I know it might be hard but, will you be happier if you had a fourth child? Don't worry about money please. Just answer this question, If you had a million dollars, would you want this child? If you do, shouldn't you have it? Forget about what your family says, it's your body, you are the mother and you'll probably be raising the most anyway. Just go back in time and remember having the last three. Pros and Cons. This is probably the most difficult question I have read so far but I say don't worry about money, if you believe there is a god, then pray, this is not a question to be asking people who volenteer to give advise. Good luck sweetie!
Lizzy

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I am a fast runner you see and I got asked to run this thing called the turkeytrot, but Iave to run in front of the whole school. I am araid of getting lastplace should I still run?

of course you should still run, oh well if you lose you were asked and the other people watching you probably didn't therefore you are probably better then them anyway. Just think of it this way, if you are the winner, do you realize your school will love you so it's not a win lose situation its a win or act like it never happened situation. Good Luck Hon
Lizzy

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My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating?

If your daughter is mature and has liked this guy for months then I think it would be nice to let them go out since there will be another couple there too so they will be partially supervised in a way. Just bribe the other couple to do a little spying to make sure there isn't too much heat in the movie theature. Good Luck!
Lizzy

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I like this kid named Orlando...I just look at him and I melt. But the thing is, I've never ever talked to him before, and he's never talked to me before and I'm so confused because I don't think it's just a crush, and he is just so cute and funny from what I've seen from him.
In the beginning of the day at school all the students have to go into the cafeteria because classes didn't start yet...and usually I walk in and only him and his friend are there and he looks at who came into the caferteria and I feel like I'm gonna trip or something because his stare catches me off guard....
As you can tell...I like this kid, and my mom works for the Board Of Ed in that particular city, and she lets me do some extra help with her work and she pays me for it. Well, since he goes to the school in the city my mom works for, one day when i was doing a job I came across his address. So my question is, do you think it would be like I'm stalking him or something if I write him a letter just saying how I felt about it...because I'm only going to write it when this school year is over so if anything happens I'm not there. (I know..but I'm shy and I feel like this is the only way I could do it) If I explain to him in the letter that I'm that girl (because he's seen me before, and noticed me) then do you think this is a good idea? Please help me...I really want him to know, but I'm extremely shy.
I'm very sorry for the length, but Im desperate.

Ok, you might just be infatuated. But if you truly think there is something there, send him a little secret admirer note, but one thing, don't tell him who you are and try to catch him while he's reading it, look at his face, see if he appreciates what you like, get a friend to be over his house when he receives the mail and have them tell you his reaction. Good Luck hon
Lizzy

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My friends are bugging me to go to this party tonight, but I'm sick. Seriously. They don't believe me, they just think it's me being anti-social. Should I go anyway and make them all sick just to prove a point?

No, just go along with what they want to think but then throw an even bigger hotter party that they will know for sure that you are no anti social, that is if you are not!
Good Luck hon!
Lizzy

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I like this 1 guy and i knew him from my old school. I think he likes me by the way he acts. he isnt all out going and flirty bcuz thats not his personality. My friend said that This boy (we'll call him Fred) asked if she knew me. Since Fred asked if she knows me i seems like he likes me. My friend said she thinks he likes me 2,

Do u think he likes me??


~> confuzed *

Dear Confuzed, Well maybe he does but he probably wants you to make the first move. Don't fall for that though, make it irresistable for him not to make the first move, ask him out for ice cream or something small like that, and seduce mr fred away!
Good Luck hon
LYLAS
Lizzy

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Chatspeak burns my eyes. How can I jump through my computer and kill people who use it?

You can always block it. I always diss people who try to chat with me and I don't know who they are.

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I like him and he ignores me now after i told him that i like him. Why does he ignore me now?

All right hon, if he is ignoring you, that means one thing. It affected him! If it affected him that means that he either has the same feelings for you but is scared or he doesn't want to ruin your friendship. If he didn't like you at all he'd spit in your face and just mock you so this does not necessesarily have to be a bad sign. Good Luck hon!
Lizzy

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What do you do if everyone you thought was your friend suddenly turns their back on you?

OK, if they were your friends and turned their back on you you probably did something to make them mad. The Egyptions said that every good answer is in the form of a question so here it is, Did you do anything to make them mad at you and turn their back on you? Did you turn your back on them at any point? Think about that. Good luck hon
Lizzy

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hey Lizzy, its an old friend of yours. well, my friend is hanging out with this crowd, and there all...trouble makers or pot smokers. i think its getting to her.her boyfriend is one of them. she hardly talks to me anymore. i want to be friends with her still and she said she wants to be friends with me too, but she doesnt want to lose her boyfriend either she said. what do i do??

~lost

don't be one of them. That's a start. Your friend is probably going through a phase where they think it is cool to be pot smokers or whatever. Just know that it is not cool to be pot smokers or trouble makers and I'm not just saying that. Seriously, it makes people look like white trash, or whatever kind of trash. Let your friend know that it is stupid, lay down the law! Tell your friend how unattractive it is and sort of persuade her out of it. If she likesa certain actor like Johnny Depp, tell her Johnny Depp hates potsmokers. It will totally drive her away. Tell her it's the choice, true friend or pot and bf. Good luck hon.
LYLAS
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ok my xxbf sed i kissed to rough and my lasted xbf sed i kissed to low like on his lower lip! i wanna be a GR8 kisser.... soo how do i do it?? my xbf was SUCH a good kisser and left me breathless but how do i kiss then?? HELP!! me!!!! thnx

This is gonna sound really weird, practice! Get a friend that is a guy that you are confortable with and practise kissing him and tell him to be brutally honest with what is wrong with your technique. If you don't have any guys like that you can practise on, just remember, some guys like it rough, and others like being kissed all the way down to their chin, it's all about technique and good luck!
LYLAS
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Lizzy
My best friend and I like the same girl and I don't know what to do. He says he'd rather have her than me and I really would rather have him as a best friend than that girl. I really want us to be friends again. The worst part is, we are in high school, friends aren't very tight in my high school What do I do?
no girl, no guy

You sound like a really true friend. But here is the question, if you want the friend and he wants the girl, you both get what you want. But there is a controversy. What do you do when your best friend isn't acting as much of a friend as he should be. Talk to him and ask him why he would want something that wouldn't last as long as a friendship, over you. I think he just wants a pretty girl right now so get him an even hotter blind date and double date it. he sets you up you set him up. It always works. Just remember something i read on a Hamark card, a friend lastss longer then any girl, even if she's hotter then you. Good luck hon.
Lizzy

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I clicked their names ask them a question and all fo a sudden it appears int he public, im so madd!

OK, well just don't press submit and everything will be fine. There probly isn't more you want me to say huh?

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ok here we go ..... Im soo ugly ... my boyfreind now x boy friend dumped me after he had sex with me and now i think im pregnet.... he sed i was the uglyest person alive and and i belive him!! i havent seen my parents since i was 5 cuz im they ran away cuz im soooo ugly!! so my uncle tells me everyday of my life... :-( i have no friends... no 1 wants to be friends with me.... at times i think seriously about suicide cuz its the only way out that i can see... i dont want to have a baby or be UGLY n e more... so if n e of u no a good plastic surgun or a good abortionist let me now PLEASE!!.. and if n e one knows a good hiT MAN let me kno so i can give my xbf wat he deserves.... !!!!!

ok hon, don't freak. If you are ugly, just pretend like your not. You know what guys like best about girls? NO! not looks. CONFIDENCE. I know it might be hard if your uncle tells you you are ugly and if your parents left, but do you seriously think that the reason they left you is for being ugly? I don't think so, I think they were just scared, scared of starting something like a family. Like you are. With your new baby coming, don't you think he/she will be betrayed if you leave him/her? Just like you are with your parents. take care of the child and show the world that you are a better parent then the one you were raised by. Oh yea, next time, birth control of condoms. Kay, alright, Good Luck! I should probably also tell you that inner beauty is all that matters. Go meet yourself a shallow hal and don't have any more sex until your married. Now I sound like my mother, just have fun
LYLAS gurlee
Lizzy

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