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ok here we go ..... Im soo ugly ... my boyfreind now x boy friend dumped me after he had sex with me and now i think im pregnet.... he sed i was the uglyest person alive and and i belive him!! i havent seen my parents since i was 5 cuz im they ran away cuz im soooo ugly!! so my uncle tells me everyday of my life... :-( i have no friends... no 1 wants to be friends with me.... at times i think seriously about suicide cuz its the only way out that i can see... i dont want to have a baby or be UGLY n e more... so if n e of u no a good plastic surgun or a good abortionist let me now PLEASE!!.. and if n e one knows a good hiT MAN let me kno so i can give my xbf wat he deserves.... !!!!!
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Ok, first of all..if you were SO ugly, do you think your boyfriend would have been interested in you and dated you in the first place? I'm sure he's just saying that stuff about you, because he's afraid he's going to be a dad. This may sound stupid, but I'm sure you've watched talk shows, right? Well, did you ever notice that the douche bags on there, that are being tested to see if they're the baby's dad..did you ever notice how immature and stupid they act? My guess is, because they're afraid that they are the dad. So, try talking to him, or maybe just leaving him alone for awhile. And go to the doctor to see if you are pregnant. I'm sorry about your parents. Life is hard, I know. And I know what feeling like your ugly is like, and so do a LOT of other people. And your uncle is a moron. Just get some confidence, and find someone you can talk, to. Like a school counseler or try befriending someone. There are good people out there who can help you! Good luck!
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Um...first of all, I know it's going to be hard...but put your past behind you. First worry about your baby (if you are pregnant) Then get the treatment you need to tkae care of this baby...if you can't afford to keep this baby, DO NOT abandon it...gove it to the hospital who will put it with a good family...
You don't want your baby turning out with no parents...ok well...I dont knwo if this whol ething is a huge joke or something...but DONT commit suicide...if you think you're going to go through with that then go to therapy...just try it out. And as for your uncle...just ignore him or talk to somebody about it....if your 18, go out and live on your own because you can make your own choices when you're 18...and as for your ex-boyfriend...DONT give him what he deserves, if anything...give him a slap in the face. I'm serious...no matter how bad your life feels now don't take it away because it will get better if you just give it a chance...and hopefully if you keep the baby (if you are having one) maybe eventually you will find somebody special along the way to help you raise it. It doesnt matter how you look...no matter how much you think it does.
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First of all - who defined what ugly is? Just because some asshole ex said you were unattractive doesnt make it true. And I somehow doubt your parents left you because you were ugly. Boyfriend=prick. Uncle=prick.
Aside from that, if you think you are pregnant the first thing you need to do is find out for certain.
What does your boyfriend deserve? Oh my, a much worse fate than any hit man could deliver. But nonetheless, people who seem like they need a kick in the ass, will get one some day. Which means you don't have to be to the one to get revenge, just know that by letting it go you are the better person.
He'll get his eventually.
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Hey, think about it. Why would your bf say you were ugly? because he is a, well, you know. show people who you really are. ok, now its gettin corny. dont believe anyone when they say anything bout that. Find urself a shallow hal grl! GL
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ok ur not ugly! dont worry!!!!! and dnt comite suicide! if u feel like u need to get and abortion then do it.. its wats in ur heart! and who cares about ur xbf.... o well..... i kno a really good hit man his name if... JK! well just think positve and dont worry!!
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ok hon, don't freak. If you are ugly, just pretend like your not. You know what guys like best about girls? NO! not looks. CONFIDENCE. I know it might be hard if your uncle tells you you are ugly and if your parents left, but do you seriously think that the reason they left you is for being ugly? I don't think so, I think they were just scared, scared of starting something like a family. Like you are. With your new baby coming, don't you think he/she will be betrayed if you leave him/her? Just like you are with your parents. take care of the child and show the world that you are a better parent then the one you were raised by. Oh yea, next time, birth control of condoms. Kay, alright, Good Luck! I should probably also tell you that inner beauty is all that matters. Go meet yourself a shallow hal and don't have any more sex until your married. Now I sound like my mother, just have fun
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Wow that is quite the situation... fist off calm down, if your so repulsive why did he not only date you but have sex with you, something about you must have made him want to... I know that there are some pretty ugly people out there, at least physically, I'm sure your not the ugliest in the world... your ex, face it he's an ass and probably was using you, believe me when I say there are better people out there, he’s no worth your time of day... if you feel ugly maybe wear a little make-up or something if it makes you feel better. There are over 6 billion people on this planet I'm sure someone out there is willing to be your friend! Heck I'll be your friend... feel free to talk to me anytime :)... as for the abortion doctor, first talk to your doctor or go to a clinic and find out if you even are pregnant, sometimes if people think they are then there body might act like it is, it's happened before... then if you are talk to your doctor to make sure an abortion is the right choice for your situation, you could also put it up for adoption, or keep it, what ever is best for you... save your hit man money and use it on a good psychologist having someone to talk to, especially if your suicidal can help... everything’s not so bad you just can't wake up and tell yourself this day will suck, because chances are in that case, it will... tell yourself ever time you think about it, or look in a mirror, your not ugly! and that you are worth it, and you will find life will seem to be better, the world is full of cruel people but it's also full of sweet grateful and friendly people too you just have to find them... Your worth it!!
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woah..you have some serious problems on your hands. well i know theres this agency in Albany New York that you can call because i had to learn all about it in soome class. they will do it and its totally confidential they wont tell your parentsguardian whoever if you dont want them to.and if in a case you do have the baby..because they will try to pursuey you to they give you everything you need to live with him.clothes food. ETC...-also hiring a "hit man" for this x boyfriend of your isnt very smart.. i mean think of all the trouble you could get in and i mean think about it he cant think your really that ugly i mean he did go out with you..but if you like my advce and you need any more just reply..Thanks
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Your uncle said your parents ran away because your ugly?!I cant believe that! Well I think you should talk to your uncle about the way hes treating you and what you think is going on with this pregnacy thing. Do not get an abortion that is a wrong thing to do. If you're pregnat that is your responsability you should have been more careful. That is why you are supposed to keep your virginity. Go to your doctoe and if it turns out your pregnat talk to your ex and see how he feels about taking part responsable for this.
-shay :-)
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Wow.. the people in your life just are cruel. Well first, you should see a doctor and have a pregnancy test and confirm if you're pregnant or not.. don't feel too bad if you are.. my friend is also pregnant (and she's 15).. but anyway, suicide is not the answer. Maybe you think you don't have friends, but I'm sure you have some. Meet people that will like you for WHO you are, not what you look like. Introduce yourself to others and try to become friends and don't be afraid of rejection, because that will only hold you back more. As for your boyfriend, he wasn't much of a good boyfriend was he? Screw him (no pun intended)! You'll find someone better, one that sees your inner beauty and like you for your personality. Just be pacient. Oh and don't hire a hit man, that'll just make things worse in your case.
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