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theirs this boy named Dorian I really like him but he doesnt want a relationship and when he does he's confused and I really want it to work and dont know what to do Should i keep trying or give up what should I say to him
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If you think this guy is worth hanging around for, then do that. The chances are though that there are many other guys out there who are just as nice and who are ready to commit to you.
At the end of the day, only you can judge whether this guy is the special something that's worth hanging round for. Personally I'd say no, move on to somebody who's actually ready to respect you <i>now</i>, but only you can really know if this guy is worth your time or not. I wouldn't say wait around forever, but if you do really like him, then don't just give him up as a lost cause just yet.
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if you like him but he doesn't want a relationship, i suggest just messing around with him. but be careful, because that has been known to make friendships go to shit.
if you don't want it to go to shit, try giving up.
if you can't, then i guess you'll have to wait.
as for saying things, tell him you think he's nice and that you like him. and leave it at that until he does something.
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He needs to figure out what he wants before he can work in a relationship. Why not be his friend, developed that type of relationship while he's trying to figure things out in his head, and that way. should he decide he's ready for a girlfriend you’re right there, close to him already; the perfect candidate...
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Hm...I think if you really deeply care about this guy, then you shouldn't give up. Just keep being his friend, and go with the flow. I mean, if it's bound to happen, it will. And if it isn't, he'll either find someone else, or tell you that he doesn't want to date you, or you'll lose interest and find someone else.
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if you really like him give it a try and see what happens but you have to know that if it doesnt work you will have to break it off or be ready to be hurt ^_^
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Well, if he doesn't want a relationship, then maybe you should just respect that and just leave him alone for a bit. Wait a while, but stay a close friend to him, then when he finally does accept to a relationship, then that's when you make your move! :)
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well if you really like this guy, which obviously u do, then keep trying, but don't pressure him. talk to him about it, and maybe you'll find that being friends is better
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talk to him. i really dont know what to say to this, but good luck
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Just know this, if you really like him, truly, you'll wait for him. If you love him, you would wait for an eternity for him. If you don't really think that there is any chemistry between the two of you but there might be later on, date around for a few months then make your decision. After that, you'll know what to do. Good Luck!
Lizzy
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Dont keep trying. If hes not ready then hes NOT ready. You dont have to give up either though. Stay a good friend of his until he is ready. Or maybe he doesnt think of you two more then friends. Talk to him about that part of your relationship.
-shay :-)
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