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I'm getting complaints...
Hey, snarfism here, I've been getting complaints about my answers. Like, They're too long-winded/too mean/ect. I was wondering if this happens to everyone, or if i'm just a freak bad advice-giver?
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your just a freak. *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~
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I just went and read your advice column and it doesn't seem to mean, or long winded. You are occasionally a little too forthright.
Maybe try reading your answers and if it would hurt your feelings to get that reply then change it a little.
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People seem to be a little wimpy and whiney. You make me laugh.
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it depends how many complaints your getting every body gets some but if your getting a lot maybe your a litte too harsh and need to take other peoples feelings into consideration more
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Well I guess it's your way of telling people what to do. you would proably solve their problem your way.
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No, I dont think that your necessarily a bad advice-giver. I think that maybe your honestey isnt exactly what people want to hear. But, that doesnt mean that you have to change your opinions to satisfy other people. Keep telling them the truth, and if they get mad about it, thats their problem. I mean, if they dont like it, they dont have to take it. But there are some people out there that will take that hard truth and use it. Focus on those people. Dont worry about the shallow people that only want it if it makes them feel better. Sometimes, what they have to hear may suck for them, but they still need to hear it. It can help them in the long run. Just keep doing what your doing, and if they complain. dont worry about it. Remember, its their problem, not yours. Give it your best shot, and dont stress out.
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I get folks answering my answers in new public questions, which is annoying, but not too many complaints. Maybe some kind of threading or follow-up mechanism would be nice here?
I live for long-winded answers, but there are a lot of fragile question-askers out there, so I try not to be mean (or at least offer up a spoonful of sugar with the bitter medicine).
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So?? You dont have to listen to them. Give advice however you want!
-shay :-)
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A little advice for you, try not to be so sarcastic all the time. Once in a while it is funny but I read through your column and you just make a joke out of everything, it is funny though!
Good Luck with that
Lizzy
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