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Betrayal..
What do you do if everyone you thought was your friend suddenly turns their back on you?
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obviously you thought very very wrong. *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~
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OK, if they were your friends and turned their back on you you probably did something to make them mad. The Egyptions said that every good answer is in the form of a question so here it is, Did you do anything to make them mad at you and turn their back on you? Did you turn your back on them at any point? Think about that. Good luck hon
Lizzy
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Dont make rash choices. Sit back and think about the situation. When you are angry or very upset people tend to make irrational decisions based solely on their feelings at the time. You could end up doing something you'll regret later.
After you've thought about the situation for a good long time and you discover these people are jerks then oh I dont know... TP them.
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If your friends suddenly turn their back on you..then obviously their not worth it.. i mean im sure your much better than them.dont go back and try to suck up to them though..be the better person and go and try to make new friends..and im sure they will come crawling back to you and kissing your ass apologising for what they did to you..and is there a reason they did? did you do something to one of them? if not dont even worry about..im sure your liked by many other people who can be your friend..if you like my advice reply..if you dont reply neway..
-meg
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Tlk to them or find new friends~!
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Make new friends.. there are billions of people in this world, and most of them are decent people... you can find a new circle of buddies that don't turn their backs on you...
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I would try to understand why they're doing it. If Im said something stupid or something. Or I would try to get a hold of them bt phone, email etc. and ask them why they're mad. Other then that I would be really nice to them to try and earn their friendship back.
-shay :-)
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I'd take another look at it and see if I'M actually turning my back on THEM. Sometimes the situations can be skewed to the point that we fail to realize that when there are more than one or two people taking what appears to be th same course of action, that it may be the same catalyst driving it all, and sometimes, that catalyst may be us. If that's not the case, try and sit down with those that you feel you can, and explain to them what you're feeling and see if there's any validity to it or if you're seeing something that's not really there. in any case, they'll be aware of your feelings and maybe that alone will be enough for them to show you that you AREN'T really as alone as you think you are.
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