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kissing problem!
ok here we go:
my boyfriend told me I don't kiss him back
the problem is he's really aggressive with the kissing and I like can't move my lips
well scratch that
I have no idea what I'm doing.he's the first person I've kissed and gahh I'm so insecure now about my kissing. someone help me..
what do I say to him and how can we solve this problem??
thank you =)
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simple..tell him your not ready to get that "involved" into the relationship and you want to take things much slower.and if he really loves you and is a good boyfriend then he will understand and accept your wishes.. ne ?'s..comments..complaints..write me back
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I would tell him that "I would kiss u more if you wasn't so aggressive about it!"Does he know that he is the first one that you have ever kissed? He might be a little nicer about it if he knows. And if hes not then he really doesn't care about you and your feelings he just wants you for bad reasons.So get rid of him!
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tell him exactly what you've shared with us. infrom him that he is the first person you've kissed and that you'd like to learn the way HE likes to be kissed. I'm sure he'll really appreciate it and be more than willing to help you to get better at what it is that you feel you may be lacking. t
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Well it sounds like he's a bad kisser, aggressive is not the best, lips can be as great as tongue, you have to step very careful around this so as not to hurt his self esteem, but you have to let him know you like it when he kisses you lightly, say it nonchalantly sorta like "wow your great, but you know what would make you even greater? I love it when you kiss me gently... you can also do things to slow him down get him to ease up, push back at his tongue with yours, then try and slow down the rhythm, you can make it even a sort of game a few quick kisses look at each other kiss again, add a little passion then quick ones again... this makes him think about it and gives you not only a break from aggressiveness but a way to "kiss back"...
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Just tell your boyfriend that you're not ready yet to kiss him like that. And tell him to slow it down a bit because it's making you uncomfortable, he should understand.
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You should tell him your not ready for such advanced kissing, but a small peck every once and a wile is okay.
-shay :-)
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tell him how you feel and tell him to slow do with the kissing
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