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Friend or not?
I've had this best friend for about 11 years now.. but I'm so sick of her. She's always lying to me, deceiving me, hurting me, so much stuff that I'm so pissed off. I talk to her about it all the time but she just comes up with more excuses, then expects me to forgive her. She's pretty much friends with all my friends, and you could even say she's "stolen" some from me and now they're better friends with her then me, so I can't hang out with them anymore. What should I do?
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start treating her the way SHE treats you! then maybe a little light bulb will go off in your very dense friends head. *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~
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i have been friends with my ex friend for god about 15 years and she was a bitch she also lyed to me and always made me fell i had to suck up 2 her she was a mega bitch she would be my friend one minut and then the next she wouldnt trust meon this tell her to piss off or tell her to grow up you dont need friends like that honestly
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tell her everything that shes done wrong and tell her that she either changes her way or you arnt going to be her friend no more. she isnt your friend if she stiil lies to you after you tell here that.you should find the friends that are still loyal to you and hang out with them.
hope i helped you
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This type of "friend" will do nothing but bring you down. She is toxic;explain to her that you are sick of all the things she does(lying stealing,etc) and I suggest that you spend some time apart from her.Reconvine after a good long while away from each other and decide then if her friendship is worth it. Its going to hurt you both for a long time but trust me: you will hurt more if you continue with the friendship
feel free to contact me if you need more help
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she doesn't sound like much of a friend i suggest slowly weeding her out over a period of time that way it will look to her like your just drifting apart not you being a bitch... you deserve a better friend than that good luck...
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Tell her that if she doesnt clean her act up real soon you two wont be friends anymore. Then name all the many things she has done to you that hurt you and demand an apology.
-shay :-)
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