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I like this guy... and i have told him that i like him and hes sooo nice to me but he hasnt told me if he likes me... so i want to kno and i dont wanna scare him i just wanna become more than a friend to him what should i do? Should i harass him until he tells me? ASk his Best friend? jsut leave it alone??? TY
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Believe me just leave it alone... I know from expirience
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Asking his best friend is always a good move. That way, not only will you find out what you need to know, but, you can be assured that he'll tell him that you asked and if he likes you, then that will help him to make the move in letting you know. He may just be holding back because he's afraid of being the on to step out on the limb and risk getting rejected.
You can also look for other, non-verbal clues tha he may be interested. Does he ask alot about you? Take any opportunity he can to strike up a conversation? Does he often stare at you and smile sheepishly when you catch him? Things like this can be a good indicator that his interest in you.
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If you want to know then find a good time preferably in private and well you could ask him if he likes you or you could just plan ask him out, not the will you go out with me, but more of a want to come over sometimes go see a movie... its a good road to travel down to lead to more than friends... Good luck.... If you harass him he could just decide you are annoying... if you ask his friend, he might not have even told him... if you leave it alone then you might never know... perhaps he's not sure if he likes you or not so why not do what you can to tip the scales in you favor... spend time with him one on one...
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Harrasing him would just cause him to be a little scared and break away a bit. You could ask his best friend and have his best friend talk to him if he likes you or not.. or better yet, just be pacient. If he likes you, he will tell you eventually, so just wait a bit and see what happens!
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Just leave this alone. If he has feelings for you he'll tell you when the time is right.
-shay :-)
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