Kr4z3y_Ch3lly's advice column

Well Im 15 and My ex boyfriend hook up all the time, and he tells me how much he loves me but when Im with my 1 friend thats a girl n he ignores me and flirts with her, and she flirts back! She knows I like him because I tell her soo much thinking she will get it! Last night Her n my other friend spent the night, and my exboyfriend called my phone and my other friend answered and i was listen 2 him sayen s how hott my one friend he flirts with is, but she was sleepen.They never hook up at all because the only time they see each other is when I'm with them! Is he just using me? Am i jealous?? Or is she just crossing the line?

well first off babe..if she KNOWS u like him, then she shouldnt be doing all the shit with him. if she was a good friend, she wouldnt..i seriously think you need to confront her about this..and if she keeps doing it then, is she crushing on someone? if she is flirt with him and spend the night! shell get how it feels and maybe stop..if not then shes not a good friend at all...and he might be using you..ask him if he likes your friend and if he says yea ask him why he hooks up with you..hell probibly have to think about that one..i dont think your jelous or over reacting if you like him..so try what i said. and good luck hun!

michelle♥

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i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help!

well babe, personally id do it in person..rather doing it by sending a letter it just looks better on your part but if you really want to send a letter and not talk to her in person then i guess you could do it.. if you went with the other guy to prom cause you have feelings for him then you shouldnt be with your bf. but if you dont have any feelings for him and your in love with your bf tell her that! also tell her that your bf could have gone with someone else. tell her you would have rather gone with your bf but prom ment so much to that other guy..but if you turned down your bf just to go with the other guy. then i can understand why shed be mad..but just tell her how much your bf means to you and that your sorry for what ever happend..tell her that you feel like shes holding a grudge and that you dont want that cause you care for them so much! good luck babe!

michelle♥

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I really like this guy. But he's too shy to ask me out and I have to ask him if I was this to work. How do I ask him out? What should I say?

well he might not know you like him so tell him how you feel about him and it might lift the weight off his shoulders...if he does know ask a friend if he likes you and if he does just say "will you go out with me" :o] good luck babe

michelle♥

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How do you get guys to notice you without making a complete fool of yourself?

uhm..when you walk by him kinda smile at him..show him your interested..find out who hes friends with and if you kno one of them go and talk to them and ask about him! if you have some classes with him ask him for a pencil oorr compliment him on somethin! just think of differnt things! good luck

michelle♥

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Can you get pregnant from giving head sence the cum goes in your mouth with sperms in it?

no..the only way you can get pregnant is if it gos in your vagina..so if you had anal sex you wouldnt get pregnant either..annndd if you didnt know that..i REALLLYYY dont think you should be doing it..and you can get STDs...but i doubt you knew that too..but if you didnt know that..i dont think you should do it..

michelle♥

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What does emo mean? I am really confused...Everyone says i look emo in all my pics but i dont even know what emo is...can someone explain it to me?

emo means emotional...like depressed n sad n stuff like that

michelle♥

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does anyone know how to get rid of disscharge...its so gross i know but i really want to be sexually active but its holding me back

uhm..you cant be sexually active without discharge. thats what people mean when "your wet" its like a lubericant made by your body. you cant get rid of it? and like no offence but if you didnt know that your probibly to young to be sexually active..and if your like 16 n up and u didnt know that.....i dont know lol sorry im so forward but yea. so just go for it..unless your like 13 then i think you should wait..have fun and be safe :o]

michelle♥

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ok so here is the deal everyone knows i am Bisexual like everyone at my school knows. and i knew i was gunna get crap from people. But it has gone to far people are startin to make fun of me like way more and it gets more intense everyday. Not to mention people make fun of me because i watch wierd movies like "Hook" or "Aladdin" I mean sure i am male. but still why does it give people the right to say mean stuff i am also colored and people are being racial talking to adults doesn't help very much. what can they do. and i am out of ideas ignoring them doesn't help.

I know that being Bisexual is bad and i am trying to be straight and i am gettin close to just likeing females. and it seems that god isn't here for me i pray everynight hoping for a better life. and for god to send somone to know who i am. al i need is a friend. my dad lives in switzerland. and i never get to see him only in the summer. and it feels like my life is going down hill. my dog died we had to put him down. that still gives me tears. and all my friends seem to be going against me. because of rumors going around that i am dishonest. and what not i only have 2 friends. and i just don't know what to do it seems like i have run out of options.

can you help me like to find someway to get noy only my mind off but at least pray for me.

thnx a bunch

Monn

babe, being bi sexual isnt bad. i absolutly HATE people who go against homosexuality. no im not gay but i absolutly LOVE gay guys. they are amazing. and im so so glad that you found yourself and that you know your bi sexual. dont change for anyone. you said you were trying to become strait but if thats you then do not change for anyone. those people who make fun of you are stupid insecure people who have to pic on you cause your stronger. you might not think your stronger but for finding yourself and letting everyone know your bi sexual is stronger then probibly any of those people combined. i really dont know what you can do to stop people from making fun of you. just brush it off cause what ever they say does not matter what so ever. and dont change like i said. if thats you and your bi sexual then thats how god planned your life to be. i will pray for you to have people stop being such idiots to you but i wont pray for you yourself to change because no one should change for anyone. good luck hun..

michelle♥

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how do i send my buddy list from aim to another person?? thanks!

-click on the persons sn that you want to send it to so that its highlighted.
-click on "people" on the top of your buddy list.
-then the second option in is "send buddylist" click on that.
-then a box should pop up then press send.

and there you go!

michelle♥

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How do I become a featured columnist? I'm really interested..please reply. Many thanks

read "help & FAQ"...it will tell you there.

michelle♥

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so im having a sweet 16 and im inviting 64 girrls...but only 40 guys or something like that. a lot of those guys are guys i dont talk with often so im guessing more guys (like 20 ) wont show up. should i invite other guys just so i have a good amount of guys at the party?

ok you might not like my opinion but here it is:

i DEF. think you should invite more guys. if you dont know them you can GET to know them at your party. and being able to have that many people at your party is awsome! so if i were you id invite a lot more guys!! have fun babe :o]

michelle♥

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I love doing my own photoshoots for my Myspace.com - what are some good ideas? I want to do a pillow fight so how can i do that?

uhm then you cant really to a pillow fight with out friends? wait till tomarow. and all u do is have a pillow fight and take pictures while your doing it...throw some feathers around if yuh want and vola! there yuh go..

michelle♥

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Does anyone know if Billie from Green Day is married? i heard he had a wedding ring on. any info?

Hes hott..so im guessing hes married.. and from what everyone says..hes married..

michelle♥

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My eyebrows are really hairy! I have super long hairs and I look really bad. My mom won't letme get them waxed..I have asked her many times and she won't let me. I've tried plucking them but they hurt! I don't know what to do because I'm about to be a junior in high school and it's really getting to me! Any advice would be greatly appriciated! Also, don't tell me to sit down and talk to my mom-it won't work..Also, peopple that give crazy answers that want attention, please don't answer!

go with a friend to go get it done and use your own money..thats what i did and my mom didnt notice till i told her. so just do that. or go with an aunt or grandma and tell them not to tell where ur going..say ur juss going to the store or something..if your not going to lye then i duno what to tell yuh sorry babe!

michelle♥

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What does your metabolism have to do the time you go to bed? Do you have a faster met. if you stay up later, or go to bed early

actually your metabolism doesnt change at all..thats a myth..google it and look it up. but seriously it doesnt change...eating sertain foods can make it go FASTER though...or some can make it go slower....but sleeping has nothin to do with it. like if you went to bed and ate soething rite before that..nothin would change..sorry i didnt really help..also looking it up might give you the mythical version but you can still try!

michelle♥

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if anyone has read BLACK BOY by RICHARD WRIGHT..can you please help me with a few questions..

-state an important problem that the narrator is faced with. does he solve the problem successfully or not? explain
-what is the chief conflict in this book? explain
-what incident aroused the most fear?
-at what moment did a character experience greatest triumph?
-explain happy or unhappy endings from the end of the book

uhm..id try doing your own homework...or actually read the book that might help :o]

michelle♥

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i might have one friend that is still a virgin besides me.... i mean when we get into deep converstaions about sex and stuff i can't relate cuz i am still a virgin. every single time i watch a movie with a sex scene in it i get this weird feeling all over my body like i want sex that very minute. could someone please tell me if this is all normal or should i just give in and have sex?

NO! dont give in! your just under pier pressure dont give in...only when your ready..you might think your ready but your probibly not its just the pier pressure talking!! so unless you want to give in thats your choice but i really suggest you dont cause youll probibly regret it later...

michelle♥

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does any one know any cute quote websites?

hey..

http://www.shoneysquotes.cjb.net/

^^ that place has AMAZING quotes...and it has TONS!! have fun ;o]

michelle♥

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hey , uhm well you see i love my best friends bro . he asked me out . but the only thing is he is 11 and i am 13 . everyone is asking me if i am with him and i dont no what to do cuz i dont wanna get made fun of . please help me make my desicion signed

perfect flaw

well you shouldnt be embaressed if you really love him...no ones opinion should split you too up..if your too embarissed to be with him then you shouldnt be together...

michelle♥

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