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i might have one friend that is still a virgin besides me.... i mean when we get into deep converstaions about sex and stuff i can't relate cuz i am still a virgin. every single time i watch a movie with a sex scene in it i get this weird feeling all over my body like i want sex that very minute. could someone please tell me if this is all normal or should i just give in and have sex?
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That is pefectly normal. I'm a guy so i can't really tell you you should go for it. I think you're being smart by not having sex. I can tell you from experience, As a senior in high school I can tell you that a virgin is the greatest g/f to find because you know she's pure. I wouldn't have sex until you feel in your heart(not your lap) that you are ready.
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Your making a smart decision by not having sex yet. You will know when your ready, please dont rush it. Just hang in there and give it time. Dont do it until you know your ready! But dont do it just because everyone else is and you feel left out. Thats not the righ treason to have sex. As far as the movie scene, you are prolly just getting turned on. Its just your hormones! Happens to all of us. No need to worry! Hope I Helped!
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Yes its normal. You get turned on by what is happening in that scene and you sometimes wish it could be you. Its ok if you havent had sex yet, its your choice when you are ready just hang in there.
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Just because most of your friends arent virgins doesnt mean have to go and have sex!...dont do it!...it will honestly ruin your life!..do u know all of the risks of having sex??...u could get pregnant!..STD's..AIDS..HIV..I think you should wait until your married!..I just dont want you to ruin your life...think about it
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it's normal and no don't give in!!!!!!! stand your ground
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Its normal. I have it to. o.O Thats what masturbation is for. To keep you away from it until you're /really/ ready. Just wait for the right guy and the age and time. o.o
♥EJ(ST)
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this is normal I think you should wait to have sex but I can not tell you what to do
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its normal..and..wait..
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Most of your friends may be virgins, but that doesn't mean everyone else has already sex. There are many people out there that are virgins. Wanting sex is normal. Hormones go crazy when you're a teenager. "Giving in" to it is NOT okay. You probably know this, but let me remind you. There is no 100% way to avoid the risks unless you do not have sex. Sex can put you at risk for pregnancy and/or HIV/AIDs. And let me tell you something, neither one can be "fixed". A baby will be YOUR responsibility. Even if you choose to have an abortion, that memory will stay with you forever. HIV/AIDs cannot be cured. I repeat, they cannot be cured. You can pass them on to other people and to your baby, if you ever have one. I don't think you would want that to happen either.
If you totally can't hold back...masturbate! It'll calm down your urges and you won't be at risks.
Those were facts. Now this is opinion, but I want you to consider my point of view. Do not have sex until you are married. Sounds crazy, but totally worth it. You won't get pregnant when you would much rather take care of yourself. You won't catch those horrible STDs. And you will be saving something special for your spouse. Think of it this way: Would you like your spouse to have had sex with lots of other people before they married you (And have the possibility of having diseases)? I think not. I would think they would feel the same about you.
Just think about what I said. Good luck.
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ok well this is a perfectly normal thing until you reach like 20 or a marriage but whatever ya dont feel bad this is a good thing your not really readu and you shouldnt force it because trust me its not worth it you dont want to do it unless you feel that you want it
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yes it is normal. and no dont just 'give in and have sex' thats DEFINITALLY not cool at all. just because all of your other friends have had it doesnt mean you have to! so what theyve had sex..seriously.. they have 10 times more things to worry about now.. such as protection.. going out and getting some. birth control.. relationships.. its all stressful! haha.. so personally, wait till YOUR ready and you find someone really special to share that first time with :)
as for the feeling... its perfectly fine. maybe even try to masterbate and see how that feels. you may actually like it. some girls do, some dont. but that may help you in a way
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IT'S CALLED BEING HORNY. Then again, who knows, you're obviously really young and stupid and don't understand this. Go have sex, and lot's of it, you don't want to die a virgin! Good luck!
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ya, thats normal, don't have sex to keep up with the rest of the team, that would be a big mistake. do it only if you are absolutely comfortable with the idea and the situation. and if you still want to have sex after all of that, do yourself a favor and wear a condom.
do what you think is best for you.
-gunner
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dont worry its normal and if your young like 15 0r w.e u shouldnt have sex and if you do.. make him wear a condom
hope i helped
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This is just normal and they're called hormones. We all have hormones but teenagers have raging hormones. Giving in to sex means losing your virginity. Try as much as possible not to be tempted to do that if you want your future husband to have a precious gift from you, your virginity.
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NO! dont give in! your just under pier pressure dont give in...only when your ready..you might think your ready but your probibly not its just the pier pressure talking!! so unless you want to give in thats your choice but i really suggest you dont cause youll probibly regret it later...
michelle♥
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Its very normal and you should just give in and have sex.
With the person sitting next to you.
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yes its normal!
everyone has those sudden urges but i think its best that u stay a virgin. you have made it this far! you just are having teen~age hormone changes so u get sudden urges. keep your pants on!
Hearts,
Cierra
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Why the hell would you "just give in" and have sex? What kind of logic is that? Sexual experiences are supposed to be personal, and you should only do what you're comfortable doing and mature enough to handle - both emotionally and socially (also, economically, because babies ain't cheap).
Of course you get that "weird feeling" - it's called having a body filled with raging hormones as a teenager.
Sex isn't supposed to be about "doing what everyone else is doing".
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