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My Names Tory I'm 15 years old and a freshman in highschool.
I really like riding horses,watching Grey's Anatomy (my favorite is Kate Walsh aka Addison),fashion, graphic design, and taking pictures. I'm pretty good with most computer, iPod, and Myspace things so if you ever need any help with those, feel free to ask me. I also know a lot about drama, particularly with small groups.
But those are just a few of the things that I am pretty farmilar with, so if you ever need help with anything please don't hesitate to IM me, or leave a question in my inbox.
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okay well lately alot has been sucky. we had to move to another town and now i go to an up-tight sucky school. i hate the people there are judgmental and all that crap. they lable people and stuff and the friends i do have my parents do know their parents so i cant do anything with them. my parents are stucky. the only thing i have that is good right now is soccer. i might even have to quit though because my knee cap, it is shifting over the more i use it the worse it gets and another peoson on my team has the exact same thing and she just got sugury done on it and she is out all summer. well lately i have been writing lyrics and i dont want to show them to anyone because im afriad they will get scared that im depressed and put me in a rubber room. but anyways i guess all i need is some help. i was talking to my bf's cousin today (because my bf is on vacation)and i think that i give her the wrong impresstion because at that time is was really thinking about runaway and just i dont know dying but now not as much but now im afriad she is going to tell my bf that im going to break his heart because i told her i was going away for awhile i didnt know if would come back. i guess i just need comforting.

thanks thoose who help

well im really srry i hope your knee gets better! buy a guitar (elctric) learn how to play and write more songs its really fun!

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OK. I have this guy friend I like. Let's name him David. And I have this friend. Let's name her Nina. OK. So I like David a lot. But he's 17 and I'm 13 (turning 14 really really soon), and Nina is 13 too (she turns 14 in July, a little bit before me). So today David told me to give Nina his phone number b/c he is too shy to go up to her himself, but I don't want to b/c I'm a little bit jealous. Does that make me a bad friend? What should I do?

Its natrual to be jelous youcant hold it back! so no your not a bad friend.....as hard as it may be you should give her the #.....isnt he a lil old tho?

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what would you do if you are only 14 and a girl wants to grab you there but you aint had puberty and it aint that big and youve been going out for almost 2 years what should i do just let her and get humiliated or just tell her to wait

Well i would do what your feel best about! no one wants to humillited. but maybe she wont care if she really like u! i wouldnt...

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a few months age i got into truble cuz i was datn a older guy by for years and was told that it was illegal now im bein told its not illegal but i euld like proof could sum1 plse give me a website for sex laws in maryland for a 17 yr old female i appreciate it i rate 5s if you can help ive lukd everywhere n cant find it

Well that is illigal cause if your 17 your still a minor....and if hes 21 he could go jail!

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im 14and 2 months old and im a guy but i still havent had puberty is that ok or should i be worried i really need help and if someone would no what would be the normal penis size for a 14 year old that hasnt had puberty and does your penis get bigger during puberty

Its totally true love does come frist! but i would have to say no more than 12 years

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ive got all these fruit flies. i think they've nested somewhere in my room! wat can i do?!? how can i get rid of them?!?!?

Bug spray on a day where ur fammilys gone.... that sould get those evil flies away!

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i hate my sister and my mom so much ... they are just ughh i hate their guts 75 % of time they make me wanna cry or murder someone ! ughh ... it has gotten so bad i've started to cut again. my friends act more like my family then these 2! my dad i love him i just cant talk to him about these stuff ... like cutting class lol i thought ohh i'll share that with my sis we never talk about stuff like these so i might as well tell her something for once but no when i turn my fucking back she has to go and tell my mom ! then she comes to me giving me a speech and shit then i ask my sis why she told and she was like i dont want you to fuck up your life i dont wanna be taking care of you ! i hate her so much she doesnt know half of what i have been threw in the past year she doesnt know anythong about my life so i dont think she should be talkin about it ... my life isnt fucked up at all ... i just skipped a class (gym) on the last day of skool .. wow im really doing bad ! god i hate this ... what can i do to take my anger out cuz crying doesnt help + i dont wanna go back to cutting ! yes it gets me this mad/upset

If iw ere you even tho its akward i would talk to your dad! see if he has ne advice on what to do! to let out anger stab one of your sisters crappy pillow and throw it away ( one she wont notice is gone.) or stuffed animal... it really helps me.... i swear im not a pyshco.


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Ok, well my mom has REALLY bad mood swings when she's not on her PAXIL! and sometimes even when she is on it she completely loses her mind and cant control her temper. This ususally happens about once every month or two. But today she got upset because i didnt clean my room and she totally lost it! Well she didnt punch me in the face or anything, but she slammed my face on the floor, and was pulling my hair and was punching me on the back of my legs, and with all that happening, my lips were busted open, and i have a black eye, and it bled a little, and even make-up wont cover it completely! Also she keeps threatening to send me to live with my dad (who lives in a semi-nice house, but is addicted to marijuana, crack, cocaine, crystal meth, and he pops pills)...So i was wondering if this was considered Child Abuse.....Thanks Alot for reading this, and im sorry if its Long!

If I were you i would go to a grandparents anut or uncles house or call them and see if it would be okay to stay with them... or stay at one of your friends houses for a while maybe if you could ask there mom what to do ( like your best frinend ) hope it all works out and your okay! no one should be treated this way!

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i'm turning 16 soon and i was wondering what are some jobs that hire 16 yr olds that arnt too public...lol i mean like not mcdonalds where everyone goes. thanks =)

mybe try like rite aid ( or similar place) photo counter.....or mybe and intern at small bussness place ( copy/mail gurl) hope that helps

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i really really like this guy we went to homecoming together and he was going to ask me out but i chickend out and now he likes my bestfriend i dont want to tell her how if feel she thinks i like another guy and he doesnt know what should i do


hopeless

Be like hey (name) i was really nervous at homecomeing and i really wanted to say yes to you! can i take you up on that offer now? as for ur friend if shes a real friend she'll understand. ♥ tt

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Ok, so... I have a regular body. I'm pretty skinny, and just... well... regular. I dont have huge boobs or anything like that. I'm just a typical young teen. But I would consider myself more "pretty" than "hott". I'm not trying to sound conceided... but I have a prettier face than anything. But, it seems like all guys care about is "hottness". It's like they could like some of the most ugly girls just because they have a "hott body". Does anyone think... or know if guys will ever grow out of this and start actually looking at girls faces and caring more about beauty than hottness? please let me know

thank you

If there a good guy they luv you for you not your *hotness* hope i didnt sound too much like your mom...lol

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is it possible to get an std from toilet seats?

Not that is not at all possible... hope

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I am new here and i have been looking at peoples advice colum and I was wondering how do you get those backgrounds and music on your colum?I alredy have an advice colum:)

I rate 5`s for good help:)

To get the backrounds you go under where it says welcome________, and cilck columsetting and that should get you there! hop i helped u

ne more ?'s leave it in my inbox

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Is it possible to lose 10-20 pounds by July 20? If so, can someone please give me some tips? Thank you in advance.

Yeah it totally possible...
drink lots of water
eat things in small portions
instead of three meals or a really small three meals^^^^^

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Where do you get backgrounds for your advice column!!?!?

Click on colum settings under Welcome________, and that should do it for you...need any more help leave it in my inbox

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when you put a song in the recycle bin what happens .. do they refund your money ?

I havent tried it but i dont think any store thing is that nice( when you by a coke and recycle the can do they give you money back)....i storngly doubt it. there porbably a .5% chance. miricles do happen >

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i have the game Sims Bustin OUt which is my favorite game but it has 2 many scratches on it. How can I fix it?any home remedies? if it works ill rate high if it doesnt ill still rate high

hey try the disc doctor you can get them at like radio shack or sumthin see if 1 of your firends has 1 i checkd radioshack.com they are about $30 Link:

http://www.radioshack.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=CTLG&product%5Fid=26-497

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my best friend and i are at my house and we're totally bored...what are some things we can do? something with getting started with babysitting cuz thats what we're trying to do. but just send us anything you like to do for fun. thanks bye

Well maybe try making flyers for you baby sitting-
put times your aviable
your age

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Which name do you guys like best? The gerbal is tanish brown and is a male. Which names do you guys like ?

Cinniniman
Nibbles
Co-Co


I think co co sounds a lil girlish....i like nibbler better than nibbles it sounds more boyish..!hope i helped you ♥ ♥

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My younger sister is 11 and she weighs 130 pounds. I'm not sure if this is right, cause she looks pretty slim but is heavy. She asked me to ask you guys this since she is too young to join. By the way, I'm 13 and I'm 88 pounds.

I am 5'3 and wiegh about 120 my sis is about 5 feet and she is 11 and wat around 139 or sumthing so it depends on ur bone sturcture and body type how much you weigh i geuss...i wish i was as skinny as you!!!!!!!!

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