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Location: Austin, Texas
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A senior girl in my first period's mom passed away on Friday. She wont be coming to school for the rest of the week because of the tragic situation. My teacher was to get a "sympathy card" and get my whole class to sign it saying how sorry they are and all that. I, along with a few other people in the class, don't think it'll be a good idea. WE said so in class today and our teacher just responded with, "Lauren need to know we care about her."

We don't think it's a good idea because she would be just coming back from a whole week at home with her family grieving and she doesn't need all this pity from us. When our teacher told us what happened, all you could hear around the class room was "Oh that sucks, I can't believe she's finishing her senior year without her mom, Prom is going to suck for her, etc." I know those kind of things are going to end up in the card.

At the end of class, we just decide that we weren't going to sign the card but do y'all think there's a way to stop the whole thing?

when it gets around to you rip it up and throw it away. or volenteer to take it to her and then accidentally misplace it and tell your teacher she loved it.

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Hi,
I was just wondering...can you only be rated 30 times or something? Because I got to 30 ratings over the past 30 days today and I've had two more since then (also today, obviously) and it still says 30. I've even gone through site map and to calculate feedback, but it stays at 30. I've also noticed that every time I get another rating, to stay at 30, it's discounting the first rating of the 30 days even though it was done like 29 days ago or whatever.
What's up with this?
xxx

wow..this is definately one of lifes more important and meaningful questions isnt it.

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theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!!

uh oh he gave you chocolate?? its almost like your married now!!

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Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out with 4 guys at the party! The worst part was that she didnt even tell me. I dont know what to do! I told Alex (Swore on my life, basically) NOT to say anything about what Ashlee did (especially to Ashlee) because she would know Courtney told Alex and Alex told me! Im so depressed! what do i do?

its funny that this depresses you. but its really cool that your best friends name is spelled the same way as mine cause i dont see that a lot. now wouldnt that be cool if your name was jean or bree. yea btw id help you out but i dont feel like it.. your friend is growing up. either live with it or forget it. try talking to her about it, you cant keep things from eachother if your bestfriends.

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Hello,
Well all these people i know have these new etnies and all the "cool" clothes which i really wish i had. I want to be like them, but im not. I mean i fit in with them, but they all wear all black with sk8r shoes (even if they dont sk8), but lets just say my familys just not so rich. I dont have a father, and my mothers a nurse and doesnt earn much. Im too younge to have a job, and i havent shopped in more than a year. I asked myself who i wanna be, and im really not sure. I just wanna fit in, but how do I when im too poor to buy anything? I hate to sound greedy... but i just wish i was like them
Sincerlly,
Poorly Nobody

well poorly nobody, i dont know what to tell you. because life isnt about what you wear and how much money you have. you shouldnt care that you look different, in fact you should thank god that you are. you stand out the way you are now, you dont want to blend in and just look like everyone else. so like i said, i dont know how to help you, i just feel sorry for you.

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I have a date with a guy tonight. He's somewhat shy. I am a fairly outgoing person. I'm actualy the one who asked him to go on a date with me. I want to kiss him, but would it be alright for me to make the first move? Would that be too forward of me? Should I just wait for him to make a move on me?

what a skank

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Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone.

should you let your FRIEND SUFFER?
yes. that sounds like the best thing you could do.

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So my question is, does size matter?

how does the old saying go..? "its not the size of the boat. its the motion of the ocean."
size doesnt matter if your in it for love. if your only in it for fun, then i would suppose it might, unless you know some pretty good tricks. either way, tricks are always fun, so good luck with that.

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i dont know everyone always says "your to abusive" because ill hit guys and stuff just messing around but i guess that is my way of flirting with them but it dosent work aparently what are some ways i could be nicer or just flirt in a more gentle way? thank you.

gee try not hitting. are in third grade?

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im about 5'3 and i weigh 110 pounds everyone tells me im skinny but idn

what kind of bathing suit would look good on my frame

wow how the fuck would we know that since you didnt tell us anything about your frame. you told us your height and wieght that doesnt help at all. are you flat chested or do you have double Ds? is you upper torso longer than your bottom or is it perfectly equal? are you curvy or do have more of a boyish figure? WORK WITH US A LITTLE

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if you win a phone from the magazine called 'cosmogirl' do you have to start paying monthly fees or do they pay for it as part of the prize?Please only let me know if you know from experience.

the phone is the prize. you get the phone for free. you pay to use it.

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this guy i like alot is giving me really mixed signals! somedays he flirts w/ me alot. then, the next day he wont even look at me! and i really like him! And, he might like me! but this guy is really confusing!!! What do i do?

nothing. absolutely nothing, because if you tell him how you feel he wont care and if you keep your thoughts to yourself he wont ever tell you that you think or talk too much.

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What is the hardest thing about High School? I'm trying to figur out, what is the hardest thing that sduents face in a school setting? let me know what you think.

~Teen Guru~

Personally the work is the hardest thing for me, and its not even that hard. Making friends is the easiest thing in the world, just keeping assholes who think theyre really badass off your back i guess is the problem. Rumors get spread and people will believe anything without even knowing you. So pretend your in a rose bush and as the saying goes watch out for the pricks. If you can deal around them then highschool will be beautiful.

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Throughout my whole life, I've always been kind of 'pleasently plump' so to speak. Now, being thirteen, I was uber fat in elementary school, I've gained about twenty pounds since fifth grade, but I've grown a good seven inches. Is this healthy? My 'extra weight' evens out pretty well on my body..I'm five foot five and I weight about one fourty seven or so.

I have wide set hipbones, I'm a "WIDE" person..But I know I couldn't change that even if I tried, that's just my body type. SO should I even concider diet. Oh, I'm already a vegetarian...

Danke

-Mistress Maddy

Your 5'5''? jeeze. Your tall for a 13 year old. Have you not tried excersising or anything? You should jog after school and buy some teen people or a magazine similar to that, they always have awsome exersises that you can do and they work 100% Also i dont know what you already eat so i can only tell you what you shouldnt. Refrain from eating any type of candy and chips and junk like that as much as you can. Whenever your sitting at home and you get the urge to eat something, eat fruits or vegetables, find out wich ones you like best that way you dont start hating to do that. But maybe your just supposed to be big, you said yourself youve always been and the whole wide set hip thing and your height just kind of goes to prove it.

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OK. i have been going out with this guy for a month and we are both in love. problem: we never see each other outside of school. Another problem: he is 6'2. i am 4'11. as you can imagine i have a hard time kissing! please help!

get a liscens and some platforms.

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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!

Im 14 and He Is Almost 15!

he has a girlfriend though. which is you. does he not think you love him? you should talk to him about it if you havent already cause it sounds like he doesnt think you care for him or that maybe he isnt thinking of you long term.

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Okay now I dont want to sound too sluty but yesterday I went some where with my friend and when we got there it was this really cute boy there. Now he was flirting with me(rubbing my leg and holding my hand) but the bad part of all this is he was doin gthe same to my friend, when we went outside, we actually made out. When we got back to my friends house she told me that they made out! Now I don't know if that is true or not because they were never really alone together bu twhat if it is true? I have to see this boy every thursday, and I think we both like him, but who does he like??? PLEASE HELP ME

how would anyone on advicenators know the answer to that question. it sounds to me like hes just a flirt, but you said he made out with you and thats a fact. your friend apparently made out with him too, she could just be saying that cause shes jealous or it could be the truth. who knows. it doesnt sound to me like hes worth it, but your the only one who can find out if he likes you, and you cant do it by asking us.

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i have a whole spring break to make 300$! i need it at the end of the week! i borrowed my sisters ipod for a day and then someone stole it out of my purse! i have filed a police report but the chances fo finding it are very slim. PLEASE give me ideas besides just babysitting to come up with 300$ in a week! i dont have a job because im 15 but i dont have enough time to apply and make 300 in a week.

PLEASE give me any idea you have! i'll take it! I RATE! I"LL DO ANYTHING!

TIMES GOING FAST!

sell your body. suck some dick, sleep around. good way to make some GOOD quick bucks.

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so today i asked a guy i really like to be my b/f and he said yes after keeping me in suspence for a few hours during the school day. hes really shy all the time so i asked him out. im afraid this relationship isnt gonna work out cuz he wont call or talk to me... should i give it some time to get comfy (if yes, how should i help him) or just tell him to forget it?

why dont you just talk to him about it? if you have a relationship problem..talk to the other half of the relationship. get it?

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okay well my best friend is always telling the people i like that i like them!! and she's always mean and like, yeah you have no friends, haha im just kidding! and then she says that the kid i like, matt, would never like me. and its really annoying.

And my other best friend is ALWAYS up on the guy i like. and if i stop liking them, she loses all interest. its REALLY annoying.

to the first friend, dont be her friend, because shes not your friend. its sounds to me like shes jealous of you. and to the second friend, dont be her friend either casue obviously shes not a friend either. but otherwise just dont tell her who you like.

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