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Q: I'm really flatchested & I hate it. Is there anything I can wear that'll make my boobs look bigger, besides a pushup bra?
Well if you are young i wouldnt worry about it to much and if you are older maybe your whole family has that problem the same as you do. that is more of a question you would have to ask your mom.. and if you are really skinny then that might have something to do with it also... sorry i dont really have that problem :-\ but i tried! xoxo trix

Q: I have liked this guy for over 3 years , since i was only 11 . Is this normal ...?
okay , i used to be real tongue tied around him , coming from an all girls elementary school and all , and i haven't started speaking to him since this year . We talk mostly on MSN , because i am still shy in front of him . He even commented on how different i acted on MSN , compared to how i act with him . the thing is , how i act on MSN , is how i would act in front of him , if only i wasn't so shy . I have barely exchanged more than about 30 sentences with him !! What can i do ?
Just try your absolute hardest to be yourself and relax. think what he wants and im sure what he wants is for you to be like you are on MSN... so if you like this guy alot .. try and lighten up.. overcome that fear of being shy and things will go alot better good luck *~Trix~*

Q: When i was 7 my brother and i sucked each other's dicks and felt each other in the ass and we both liked it. we did this like every night and one time we were caught. we still do it anyway. now im 14 and so is he (were twins). is this normal?
Im sorry but that must mean your not straight.. it looks like you 2 are headed in the direction of being gay.. there is a gay pride parade that comes through towns and that is a way you can tell if you are gay. That is wrong exspeacially because its your brother.. you guys should stop and think ick! think what if one of your guys friends did that .. wouldnt that be gross? xoxo trix

Q: Ok, Im a guy and i have this friend whos a girl. Ive known her a year now and really like her, i i make her laugh alot and we hang out but shes moving away next week far away. id ask her out but she has a boyfriend also... X__X what shall i do?
Hey im sorry this took so long to get back to you.. but i was at the movie shrek 2 with the fam of famous 7! so anyways.. i would at least tell her you like her and im sure that boyfriend nad her are breaking up unless they love eachother and believe they can make it together through long distance. but tell her.. might be hard but hey! at least she knows the truth! give it a shot and she may like you also! i wish you tonz of luck!! The least she could say is "oh" which i highly doubt. Im sure she has some other kinds of feelings for you then just a friend type of feeling. and how far do you consider far away? and how old are you guys? but i hope EVERYTHING goes YOUR way and GOOD luck on EVERYTHING once AGAIN!! tell me how everything goes.. just tell her go for the gold! xoxo trixie

Q: i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :(
Just wait for the right moment. Like when its just you to and then lean in! Just hang in there! you 2 will accomplish it no matter what! lol i know it can be nerve wrecking even if you have made out before. good luck-----trix

Q: Hey everyone I asked a Q about this poem a litle while back and I think I'm done but to those that answered before I would like to know what they think. and to all advicenators too but is it good at all now? just let me know please. Thanks.

No More
You laugh at me, You point.
You say "how weird!"
You say "how ugly!"
You say "how stupid!"

I turn the other cheek so you can just laugh and point some more.

I have cried my tears. I have hated myself for you.

There were times when I couldn't see through my tears and somehow I found the strengh to turn the other cheek but still you laughed and pointed more.
So in this poem I want to tell you that the days of your laughing and pointing are no more.
When I see you I laugh and say ""How Pathetic!"".
You have put me through this torment for you own satisfaction but no more.

I have cryed my tears. I have hated myself for you but No More.
Thats a good one. Your talented i must admitt. Keep writing. You real got to the point! good job!! trixie

Q: hey, im 14 and i haven't had my first kiss but im with this one guy and well if we do kiss i don't want to be bad at it. so does any1 know some good techniques???????
There is no real advice on how to kiss.. just relax and everything should be fine! hope you to have a good 1st kiss, trix

Q: Have you ever been donkey konged before?
lol have i what? funny...? lol but umm no .. i dont believe so.. lol ***trixie***

Q: I am a fast runner you see and I got asked to run this thing called the turkeytrot, but Iave to run in front of the whole school. I am araid of getting lastplace should I still run?
If you believe in your self go for the gold! Like you said your fast so you should be able to do just fine! Good luck!! trix

Q: i didnt know what categorie to put this under so yeah...i have a huge zit that i need to get rid of whats the best way to get rid of zittts???
Put toothpaste on it, wash your face, clean and clear and use proactiv. maybe

Q: im 14 years old and im really skinny. im 4 11 and weigh only 79 lbs. im not happy about my weight. im going to high school and i want to fit into a size 2 or 3. i eat alot but i just dont gain weight. what should i do to gain weight.
Lol umm eat fatty fat foods.. eat alot.. dont excercise.. lol hope you get fatter soon!! g/l trix

Q: I work for a junior high school and there are plenty of good looking kids in the school. I am only 23 so I don't think it is wrong to like these students, not that any physical atraction would take place. But, there was one time, last week, were the most popular person in my Language arts third period class fingered and physically touched me! I was actually turned on! So, I told him to meet me at my house TOMOROW! I feel like I owe him either an appology... or a thanks. (if you know what I mean!)
What should I do
Master Bater
Okay c'mon if your a teacher you wouldnt be sitting here telling us about it who are wayyy... younger then you.. and like.. you prolly would have reported and by when you said but there one time last were the most popular in my language arts 3 period class fingered and physically touched me.. thats not how you say it either you really are a Language Arts teacher and suck or you arent you should have said to be more real sounding is However this one time during Language Arts class the most popular person in my period 3 class touched me and it seemed more then just a friendly touch to me... get it straight dont be lying now! tell me how my advice is rate me good!!

Q: i just asked the ? bout the guy who is a year younger and i lock eyes w/ and stuff..
ok about ur advice
when i call him how do i describe who i am...like idk if he knows my name!!
well describe when you see him in the halls like during what periods and stuff and what you look like.. and if you signed eachothers yr. book!! ahh i just thought of something!! have him look in the year book!! thats always a smart thing to do!! good luck girl! stay confident! hope you to work out!! :) trix

Q: ok ...i feel dumb doin this but oh well.

there is this guy and in school (a year younger)we alwayz used to like lock eyes in the hallways and so i almost felt as tho i know him...and like sometimes if he hears me say something he'll make fun of me like nicely but otherwise i haven't talked to him. but hes soo hott and on the last day of school he winked at me and waved and said hi...but now its summer and so i won't see him...idk wat 2 do and if i called him then i wouldn't no wat 2 say either! should i see if i run into him in summer and just wait till next year? sigh*

thanx..
Well.. i wouldnt wait for next year or wait till i bumped into him during the summer either. Give him a call. Ask him what his plans are for the summer how his summer is going what he is doing that day and what has he been up to lately and your bound to carry on a convorsation. I wouldnt worry to much just let it fly! Age is nothing but a number anyways. Who cares if he is a year younger i learned that from my current boyfriend. And who cares anyways. If you like him you like him! thats that! And when he makes fun you but nicely.. that might be a little bit of flirting right there. And that wink.. most have something to do with the hey call me soon or hey there .. he prolly wants to approach but just like you ... is nervous.. so be the brave on here and start talking and that leaves him to being the next brave one.. maybe he will ask you out!! GOOD LUCK!!!!! xoxoxo *tRix*

Q: do u thinnk beagles are cute?
Yeah! they are adorable.. unless they get fat..so keep the beagle skinny :) haha best tip eva! prolly not really! but whatever! yeah they are cute though! -trix-

Q: Why do cows have spots?
TO LET YOU KNOW THEY HAVE MILK IN THEM!! LOL haha i honestly dont know.. the hair is spotted cuz the skin underneath is that is all i know.. hope that helped any lol

Q: i am so confused how do my parents just get me one? signed
Show them that you can be responsible.. by helping around the house maybe with lil siblings or something .. and chores if you already have them do them extra good and maybe do a few extra every other day. but dont ask them right away when they compliment on how well you are doing.. wait about a month or 2 ... cuz then they will no something was planned lol and if u get caught.. just member trix neva told ya anything :) *trix* good luck gurlie!

Q: Does it hurt to get your ears pierced or your nose or your cartilige or whatever?????
Ears a bit cartilage.. well its going through some cartilage so its gunna hurt a bit and you can hear some crunchin as it goes in.. yeah i no.. gross! but its all worth it! trust me i have 7 holes in my ears xoxo trix

Q: i have blonde...little bit lower then shouldner length hair. its kinda shaped like a mullet. but cuter lol. and it goes diagnol from the bangs to behing my ear. anyways.. need a way to style it. and im not poor but my family is having a bit of money problems right now...where can i get cheap clothes that still look really "cool"? i wanna look good 4 my soon 2 be boyfriend and i really really need some new clothes lol. well, thanks 4 any help! bye!
Wal-mart, target, Mandy, and K-mart.. im not a fan of k-mart but hey im sure they got something that has to do with JOE BOXER lol good luck! and look cute for that new boyfriend!! trix

Q: is there any way to get rid of freckles?
Cover up.. it covers up lol.. thats the best i can say.

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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