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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Ok well i dont have a clue on how to rate people so if you can tell me how to then I'll rate you!

You go to "Your Questions" click on the question you've asked and there should be numbers under the bottom of their answer, then you just pick the number you would like to score them.

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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!

x0x-dani

First of, congrads on the 6 months hun. Hmm, little things I can think of are: Well, you chould have just spended all day with him, but like you say you can't because of your game, dang. Okay, so, give him all them gifts, put place them all around the house in different spots. By every gift make him a note, telling him how special he is to you and were to go next. When you get to the last gift (Make it be in your room), put the gift on your bed with rose peddels around it. Then have 6 candles for the months you have been together. For the last card about telling him how much you mean to him, take his hands in yours and say it yourself =)

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Hi. I'm the girl who liked my brothers friend.. and I took your advice and I talked to him online and stuff and hes really nice.. then he came over.. and i started to talk to him and then hes like "Umm.. sry hun.. not interested.. your not very attractive.." and I started crying and now he thinks i'm a baby :( thanks anyways!
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Awww, that's so harsh. Don't let him get you down. First off if he's mean like that, he's not worth it. No guy should make you cry. Don't worry hun, you'll find a guy that will love you for you. He'll never make you cry. I'm sorry. If you need to talk, I'm here. *Gives huge hugs*

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I was obbsessed with this guy for like 6 months. I just got over liking him but my one of my best friends told me she went to a party and asked him to slow dance and they danced together 3 times. When she told me this i was speechless even though i stopped liking him. I am kinda mad that she danced with him-or i think i'm mad. I'm not sure whether or not i'm mad or just jealous...i still might have feelings for him. Do you think i'm mad at her or just jealous?

I think your jealous. You know your over him, but your thinking why'd she get to dance with him... and I didn't. I think you probably still like him, deep down inside. I think you should talk to your friend and tell her that you like him. She'll understand and probably will back off a bit.

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whats the best way to scrunch thick hair?

Use a lot of moose, put it in while it's wet. Turn your head upside down and scruch that way. Then, flip your hair/head up right and scruch the sides.

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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!

I don't think your a slut at all hun. Sex happens when it's the right time. I guess it was the right time for you and you do like him. No big deal, your not a slut. No worries.

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omg my freind was on the fone to the guy i lk then she kept tellin him to ask me out then he asked her out and she said yes then they broke up but he wants her to go out with him again and then she wants to go out with him again but she nows i lk him alot wut should i do should i be mad at her cause i am help!!!!! i will rate u

I'd be mad at her for sure. I mean, you tell her you like this guy, then she back stabs you and goes out with him. That's not right. Friends shouldn't do that. Boys come and go, but friends stay there. Talk to her about it and tell her how much you do like this guy and that you don't want them getting together again. If she doesn't respect the stuff you say to her, guess she's not a true friend.

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is there an age of how old ur supposed to be when u get ur belly button peirced? ill rate ya. lol thanx ~JessiKa~

No, there's no age, you can go with your parent(s) to get it done. But you can be 16 and go get anything peirced, without your parent(s) being there. (That's how it is here)

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hey I was just wondering if u know any places I can play games with other people! Thankzz

Just go to www.yahoo.com and sign yourself up for a passport. Then, just go to this address http://games.yahoo.com/ and pick a game you want to play! Have fun.

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Ok, I just started a relationship with a girl that goes to a different school than me. I will probably not be able to see her more than once every 1-2 weeks and I know theres gonna be a lot of guys hitting on her at her own school. Any advice on how I can keep her interested and make this work? I wont be worried after a few weeks have gone by, but this first little bit is going to be tough.

Well, if she really does like you she wont care about the other guys at her school. You should call her everyday and talk, then hangout with her every 1-2 weeks and make it really special. Go to the movies, supper, hangout at home, ect.

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I really like this girl named Jen. she seems to like me too. problem is she has a boyfriend. I told her how I felt about her and everything and she say: "aww thats so sweet im crying" (I told her on the net).. people have been telling me that she does like me and her boyfriend been getting mad, so I called her up to find out the truth. she told me that she did infact like me and she didnt like her boyfriend and wanted to dump him, but she was scared of breaking his heart. I dont know what to do, I really want this girl..... what should I do? thanks

If her boyfriend is your friend, don't go out with her. It's not worth losing a friend over a girl. Girl's come and go but friends stay right by yourself. If he isn't your friend, she should break up with him. Yah, it might break his heart, but he'll get over it with time. Once they break up, don't go out with her right away. Just hangout with her and go to movies for awhile, before you guys get together. Good luck and have fun!

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hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG

Yep it does! Just put a little dot of toothpaste on your pimples/zits and leave it there over night.

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im tryin to get a flat stomach so im doing 100 situps a day, nd my stomach is gettin a little harder , but i wanna do some more excercizes to get it flat .. ne 1 kno ne? plz i rate 5's!

Running, push ups and crunches will help!

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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx

Go and have fun. But, if a guy just wants you for sex, handjobs and blowjobs, tell him to get another girl, cause you wont be his "play toy".

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What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'?

69 is a guy eating the girl out and the girl giving the guy head, at the same time. Wet is when a girls horny and "wet" down there.

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(yes i just asked the q about the x bf..) anyways.. ohh my boyfriend ryan..i love him so much. i know hes ready for sex, and i am too. we tried it once..fully no clothes but he wasnt hard enough at the time so he couldnt put it in me. then tonight, i ended up giving him head..(FOR THE FIRST TIME) and i must have given him head for a minuet..then he pushed me away cuz he cumed! im like..wow? am i that good..? idk! anyways..like i REALLY want to have sex with him, just because i know we're both ready..but it always takes us SO long to get to that point. we're the kind of couple that kisses and makes out ALOT..and we ususally do forever before we do anything. like we'll be in his room and make out on his bed for an hour before we do anything. how do i speed things up ah bit?


*I RATE AWESOME!!*

Maybe cut down on the kissing for an hour before you do anything deal. Make out with him yeah, but speed things up. Just start ripping eachothers cloths off, give him head and what not, then do it. Don't forget the protection!

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hello..im working on my profile and i need a good website that has scroll bars...cursers...the lines thru the page...pop ups...music codes...welcome sign...and n e thing else wuld help! thanx send as many websites as u can i will rate high!thanx

http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/
http://carrielynnesworld.com/main.html
http://www.thuggndivazdollz.com/

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Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me??

Don't put yourself down because some fucking idiot called you fat over the internet. He's probably some old guy with no teeth, two different color eyes, no hair, and ears bigger then his own head. He's just doing that to make himself feel good. Don't listen to what he has to say. It's whats inside that counts =)

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hii.. im the gurl before that was askin about Nathan and smokin weed. i dumped him, but i got really stoned one night, and fell asleep.. and woke up naked but he wasn't there. I know we had to of had sex, cuz i was REALLLLLLLY sore down there.. and was bleedin but i didnt have my period, now i think im pregnant cuz i havn't got my period this month... i am s0o0o0 scared!! i've been non-stop crying.. like im only 14 years old!!! and i cant believe that happened... he is denyin anything happened but i dont believe him. Please, pretty please give me some advice on what to doo!! please i need help, i ratee!!!

signed,
scared and want help!

Wow hun, I'm so sorry. First off you need to go to the store and buy a test to see if you are 100% pregnant, before you do anything. If you are pregnant tell your parents everything. Tell them how you got stoned, fell asleep and woke up naked. Yah, they're probably be really mad, but you have to tell them. I'm sorry to say, but if that did happen Nathan probably took advantage of you while you were stoned and raped you. I say go to the police. No, deffently go to the police. Don't be scared, try calming done a little bit. If you are scared and crying all the time, your period tends to hold off. So, just try relazing and such. If you need anymore help, don't be shy, leave it in my inbox.

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I'm 12/F and my brother is 15.. I REALLY like one of his friends.. and his fried is only 14 and I really really like him.. I always think about liek talking to him.. or saying something to him.. but I just like freeze up when ever hes over.. and I know he knows that I like him.. but I think that he and my brother and his other freinds take it as a big joke.. (like a little crush :-/) and I REALLY like him tho.. I don't think there's any way for him to notice me.. :( What should I do?

Maybe if your too shy to talk to him and you freeze up get his e-mail (If he has one) and talk to him on the net. Or, you can always write him a little note and give it to him. I think you should talk to your brother, tell him that it's not one of them "little crushes" and that you really do like him. I'm sure if you talk to your brother and tell him that, he'll understand and wont take it as a joke anymore. I think you should at lease try to talk to the guy you like. When he's over to see your brother, just ask him how his day was and how he's doing, start a converstation from there. Let me know how it works out hun. If you need anymore advice don't be shy, leave it in my inbox. Good luck =)

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