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im the biggest nerd in the school and i need help. people make fun of me at school, i have like no friends.I go home and i wanna kill myself.I sit alone at lunch and averyone laughs at me, help.

I think you should find God, join a church or youth group, or do something where you are accepted amongst everyone. I am really sorry that you go through this. people are harsh... i don't know if you are religious or not, but just remember, Jesus loves you more than anything in the world!

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i used to b kinda average looking and then i became prettier (not trying to b conceited) and now alot of guys like me. i guess im also taking attention away from other girls who are used to getting attention. now all these bitches are starting rumors and calling me a slut and saying allll this other shit. what should i do

they are hoes for bitching. it's not your fault at all that they're jealous. it's dumb. just DONT stoop down to their level, and DONT start shit with them. Either, A) ignore them, or B) be nice an friendly to them. then they'll have no reason to hate you. they should realize that they're making asses out of themselves.

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dont have my period yet, but when i do.. i need steps for putting on a tampon, im not wearing diapers!

mills... is this you?

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what kinda of sites could i go to and get help about sex and teenage pregnancey?

www.teenwire.com

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( 16/m/tx/junior in High School )
here's the deal: i've always been kinda...um...not cool lol or w/e u wanna call it but...i kinda found myself and figured out how to dress and do my hair to where i look my best...and now im starting to get noticed...but by all the wrong people...i mean i know the ugly weird chicks have feelings to but my god...i just want a pretty girl to finally notice me in good ways, because that's NEVER NEVER NEVER been the case, i mean every once in a LONG while there'll be a pretty one, but i'm just talking in general...i'm one of the nice guys, not one of the bad boys or w/e, and i know i'm not deadly good looking but i'm sure of myself...i mean i think i look better than most...that's not arrogance talking that's just confidence...a small amount but anyways...i'm really shy and idk exactly what to do when i'm around realllly good lookin girls...i mean i can talk their heads off online but in person i freeze up and stutter and all that stuff...lol...( jeeze i sure typed alot lol sorry ) any ideas on how NOT to be so shy...and how to get noticed in good ways? instead of ways like "oh god there goes that one kid...what's his name again? he's weird..." idk i'm just tired of the nice guys never winning...it's always the jerks and the bad boy types :(
thanks...
-Kyle
xxxkylestylexxx < my aim
fhc_moonligh7 < my yahoo
fhc_moonligh7@yahoo.com < my msn
vvvguardianvvv@yahoo.com < my email

oh kyle. you would be the kind of guy i would want to date. if that makes you feel any better. but to get noticed, maybe get active in sports, or go places where you know people from your school will be. when you meet new girls, start over, and talk to them with the CONFIDENCE that you have! =)) go get em tiger

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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

someone i know got pregnant at age 14 and her older sister who was like 18 or something got the pill for her... (that's what i was told)... but government and stuff is getting pissed off because people take advantage of these pills...

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Hey! Okay, well I am 14 female.. about 5'7 235lbs! I know... FATTY! but still... So, i wanted to go to this weightloss school but it was almost 6,000$ and across the U.S. for me so my mom was like NO WAY! but first I wanted to get homeschooled. and then again No! so I was like Private school.. Too much money she said.. I have 4 sisters n she is seperated from my dad!! So yeah, I have to go to a public school (freshman) n alot of ppl make fun of me.. I cant run fat or anything.. n i wanna start losing weight now, pick up my speed, and then just be a whole new me next yr.. i used to play softball, and i was well good at it.. but got too old to play slow pitch!! I mean im not saying i have no friends or anything.. but my thighs, but, stomach, arms, n etc... I know.. drink water n blah blah! but nothing works for me.. im probably gonna get Slim in 6 (www.beachbody.com) but I dunno if it will work or not.. im thinking i wanna lose 100lbs or so n sorta fat but like not too fast! i just wanna be left alone n not singled out everytime i go somewhere with a bunch "skinny" ppl, and this sumemr i was gonna change everything but stayed n side n was lazy!! n now 2days b4 school starts i wanna chnage everything!! i know its gonna take time but i wanna try sommin n see if it works.. i need lots of ideas, help, motivation, and support!! I seriously want a whole new me. i mean the "stretch marks" are ugly n never gonna go away so ill always remember being fat, i just want it to stop!! i wanna be the one not scared to speak up, and express what i think, i wanna be the one telling the person not to be making fun of someone, not the one being made fun of!! I want to change me!! have a high self esteem n just have fun!! so yeah u think u can help??? I'd rlly appreciate it!!! Any advice will help me .. i mean have any of u ever been n the same position or anything?? I was thinking baout even killing myself once, and i wanna "throw up" wut i eat but i dunno if thats smart, its like i cant stick to anything.. all i know is i wanna look good ... fast... not for boys... but for me.. n for all the teasing to stop!! I ask u all hoping for help!! Thanks alot, xOxOxO

you really need to take control. i'm sure you know that already. i'm not calling you a pig, but you obviously have very poor eating habbits and eat way too much because your weight wouldn't be this high if you didn't. what you really need to do is cut all sugars and fats. no fast food. no desserts. eat all healthy things. don't buy a school lunch, bring a healthy sandwich on wheat bread. drink ONLY water. and drink 8 glasses of it a day. and even if youre too fat to run, then you can walk. you need to get your heart rate up for a half hour SOMEHOW, every other day. please trust me. if you do this, you WILL loose weight i promise. but you have to stick with it...

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Okay here's my problem...I slept with my best friend, but he doesn't remember, and now I might be pregnant. Maybe I should explain...About a month & a half ago, my best friend/roommate and I went to a party and when we got home we kinda started making out (we had both been drinking). When he said he something that he really needed to tell me, and said that he was in love with me. It was so sweet and we ended up sleeping together. The next morning I woke up before him and cooked breakfast for him. But when he woke up, he was really confused, and he said he couldn't remember how he got home, and he really didn't remember anything since the beginning of the party the night before. I was freaking out and I didn't say anything about what happened between us. We later found out that someone had put something in the drinks at the party and a bunch of people couldn't remember stuff. I had decided that I wasn't going to tell him about out night together because it would be to weird. Then I didn't get my period this month, so now I'm really freaking out. I know I need to tell him but I don't know how. Then to make matters worse, I was trying to tell him yesterday, and he said that he wanted to tell me something (I thought he was gonna say he loved me) and he said that he was still a virgin and he was saving himself for the person that he was gonna spend the rest of his life with. I didn't think it was possible to feel any worse. I'm 22 and he's 20.

Can anyone help me please? I don't know what to do...

wow, that is really tough. i'm really sorry and i hope everything turns out fine. i think, you should find out if you're pregnant or not. if you're not, don't tell him. theres no reason to. unless you think it's for his own good. but it might really freak him out. and if you are pregnant, you have no choice. plan out what you are going to say. this is a really tough situation, im sorry i can't help...

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I know the subject is wrong... anyways, over the summer i got a lot of freckles on my face and I never really noticed it until someone mentioned it today. How can you make them disapear, besides massive makeup?

Well to prevent freckles, once summer starts, wear sunscreen on your face EVERY DAY, even if you're not outside in the sun alot. i did that one year and i didnt get a single freckle, and i usually get tons!

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Crest Whitestrips Premium...worth the $30?

I heard they work. My orthodontist recommends them. I think I might try them, but I wouldn't pay 30 dollars for them, I don't need them That bad you know?

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Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do.

just simply Don't go back. if you do, don't tell them when or where you are.

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okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me...

if you're gonna "kiss and stuff" thats all well and good, just dont be mad when does stuff with his girlfriend when you're not around.

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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening?

it is called Emergency Contraception.

it's not exactly the "abortion pill"

it just prevents you from being pregnant, or whatever, something like that.

go to www.teenwire.com to find out more...

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How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them??????

sometimes... when your with them... it just happens... i hate that.

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Whats the chance of a condom breaking?

use lots and lots of lube.

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if ur invited to someones birthday party and you dont realli kno them but u have talked b4 awhile ago but one of ur other frnds is frnds wit them and she told them 2 bring u .. should u get them a bday present or wat? like if its a "party" bday party, and ur not real close frnds, should u? thnx i rate

i give people a birthday card with $20 dollars every time. its just out of respect, you know? since she did invite you, you should give her something in return!

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For those of you who use PictureTrail is it free?

yeah i have the free acount where i can put up to 500 pictures

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if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??

no, it doesnt make you a slut, but it all depends on what everyone thinks of it.

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i was wondering if anyone knows if u can have multiple songs for an xanga site like more then one song please help thanks and if u can please tell me how

yes there is a way! theres a certain code. but i dont know what the code is, i just know there is a code

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I am 16 years old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". Well I was trying on homecomming dresses at my friends house But every dress I tried on I felt soooo fat or shall I say I LOOKED so fat! I was about to cry but I couldnt cry infront of everyone. Homecomming is in about 1 month and a half away. Should I go on a diet or should I just tell my friends I cant go. My friends would be sooo mad at me if they find out im not going because I never been to a dance before. Its NOT as easy as you think it is. I been thinking about it day in and day out. I wish I could just accept that im fat! Do you know any good diets?!? Thank you sooo much

NO dont just "not go" because you think you're "fat" come on now theres probably people at your homecoming who are insanely overweight, how do you think they feel?

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